I have such a great time at work with my co-worker, he puts a smile on my face all day and makes me get up and want to go to work. We've told each other that we have feelings toward one another. How should I act upon this?

This guy went from hero to zero in no time flat based on your recent post. I am sure that he complimented you and made you feel like a millon bucks. Sadly, he just wanted to play tonsil hockey with you. At least he told you about his wife before he took things further, I suppose whatever conscience he had left kicked in. Hopefully, this is not your boss or supervisor. Next time, ask point blank 1) Are you married, separated? 2) Are you romantically involved with anyone else now

Ask these before you get carried away in the moment. You deserve a good man, who displays honesty and integrity, believe me, there are some out there.

Keep things just the way they are, fun and joyous. It seems to be working for you both, so don't do anything to grand as it might change the scenario. Let him lead and if you like the direction, then follow at your own pace. Good luck.

I was going to say "don't touch it!" but then I read that you did and got burned.

Well, we learn best through experience. So, put it down to a good learning experience, and never go there again. Even if you are both single, a work romance, tho it may be really exciting and hot, has bad news written all over it. There was a reason why 40 years ago people in co-ed work places were forbidden to date. It makes a mess in a place that's (in theory) not intended for personal relationships.

I aagree,don't screw the crew.

I understand how you feel, I too am having this experience except I am the one with the feelings and she has none... I find it very difficult each working day that were together and she begins to flirt with the other guys at work-I can't take it that it makes me sick to my stomach.

My advice is to best leave it alone... The downside of the breakup will be a painful and terrible feeling.. Been there, done that and got the T-shirt to prove it...

never dip your pen in company ink!!! there are reasons for this saying and if you don't know why or if you chose to ignore it then i will answer your next questions which will obviously be how do you work with some1 you hate, and why does work suck so much for me...

If your serious about it find another job first, don't sh*t where you eat. makes things to complicated.

Forget it!!!! Hell yes he puts a smile on your face..ever stop to wonder why?? People can wear different faces while at work, what you see there can be completely opposite of what he is like out of the work place, not saying all. If you or he are married, you better step back, it is not worth what you about to enter into.

If you will excuse the expression "you dont shit where you eat"

It depends on if either of you already have a partner or not, and if you would be prepared to leave your job if things didn,t work out with him. Personally I would just be glad that you have such a great person to help the day go quicker.