Moms, I recently caught my 16 year old son wearing my pantyhose and "doing the deed" while he was in them. any reactions or opinions?
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BlondeMominPa
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i would be shocked but he is probable just experimenting as young men do just be there for him let him talk if he wants too good luck.
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I'm not sure which is worse, the panty hose or watching him suirt.
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I would be exponentially more mortified that I had walked in on my son doing something as private as masturbating then I would be that he was wearing my pantyhose. To answer your question more directly, I would not be greatly concerned or worried that my son liked to wear pantyhose. If that is what he enjoyed or felt curious about, then as long as he isn't hurting himself or anyone else, it is absolutely none of my business. Just as I would not expect him to judge my own sexual preferences, I would not dare to presume that I was able to judge his simply because I am his mother.
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I'm a dad but I'll jump in anyway. . 1st - was he in some public part of the house or your bedroom? If he was somewhere where he could expect privacy live the bathroom or his bedroom, then you owe him an apology(though maybe just in spirit as bringing it up might be way more embarrassing to him than it's worth.) . 2nd - People develop all kinds of kinks and preferences and do a lot of just plain experimenting. Don't stress is. But mostly realize that it's his private issue - except for using your hose. If you see them going missing then you should bring it up somehow and point out that you need them for you own purposes and would appreciate he accept you gift of old ones or buy his own. :-)
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All I can say is that I wouldn't make a big deal out of it if I were you. You probably scared him so much that he'll never touch himself again....well, maybe not, but you know what I mean.
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If it were me, I'd "lol" whenever I saw him. That would probably embarrass him though, so... I think it's best to pretend it never happened. If I were caught doing something like that, I would be mortified if my parents tried to have a discussion about it. Make it obvious that your pantyhose are off-limits though. A paper sign over your dresser saying "Do Not Touch Contents" should get the message across and maybe add a little comic relief. Heh. Poor kid.
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I would tell him next time to buy his own pantyhose.
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when I was 16 I also got caught by my mother a few times sleeping in them not playing now 40 yrs old I cross dress daily wearing knee HI's and Pantyhose no big deal! (I don't go out wearing a skirt with nylons)but did in my younger yrs. summer I wear knee hi's and pants winter I wear pantyhose pants, I do wear capris at home live with sister no big deal! just try to teach him right from wrong don't go out killing,raping,stealing so on... I turned out ok no criminal record... I'M Catholic on that note I told a prist he said if you get turned on from it then it's a sin. I just like my fem side! nothing wrong with that I'M not gay I like women... Michael from Macomb, MI. (StJohnHealthCare@aol.com)
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Get a lock on his door...
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I agree w/'Pirate' and 'Talim'- (also a same discussion/question is on wiki) He is SURELY embarassed enough: Punishment done. Some kids are SO embarrassed from getting caught masterbating that they commit suicide. As for using Pantyhose, that is very common and becoming more mainstream everyday. They are made to look and feel very silky, smooth, sheer and they are very feminine. If he tried using Pantyhose for masterbation it does NOT make him a 'crossdresser' or 'gay' - it just makes him human. Some men use satin, some use lotion, some use Pantyhose, etc... With the years that we are in and what we grew up with, surroundings, television - Pantyhose (usually on a Girl) have become a very sensual passion for so many. (there are now more 'Pantyhose' related websites than any other 'passion') :)
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It's normal and sooooo common! I know, I was there ;-)
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My sister and her 3 friends caught me wearing her cheerleader uniform and pantyhose in her room when I was 14. All 4 of them laughed at me and then properly dressed me in one of her dresses along with heels,nail polish,perfume and makeup! I begged them to let me go, but 2 hours later when my mom came home I was pulled downstairs by all of them. My mom looked at me and heard the story by all of them. She then pulled me over to the couch and spanked me in front of my sister and her friends. I was so embarrased and scared they would tell everyone what happened. This was my experience getting caught. Jenny4u@losch.net
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Wow, I just hope he doesn't turn out like Buffalo Bill.
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buy him some pantyhose and put them in his room for him, also leave some of yours that you no longer use for him ( ie. ones with runs or holes) the reason i say this is so as that you do not make it taboo, the more taboo something is the more someone is inclined to do it, for some it is not the act that gets them going it is the risk of the act. if it seems more acceptable as an act he may be less likely to do it or he will be more open about his fetish when he gets older and can be in a happy relationship. i did the same when i was younger and i was caught and it made me feel dirty, i still maintained my fetish for pantyhose, but due to the reaction my family gave i have never been open about my fetish to my girlfriends, being afraid of rejection or humiliation.
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