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  • From a male's perspective, I'd say the first step is STOP! Absolutely, positively, without a trace of doubt, you need to forget that he's been with anybody else. The important point is he's with you now. He married you, loves you, and chose to make yours the last bed he ever lays in. That overrules any and everything he's ever done outside of your relationship. Now that that's out of the way, your sex life... After some time, anyone's sex life can grow dull and repeatitive. Truth is, he probably really wants you, but maybe he is just craving some change. My wife and I had a gradually drying up sex life for a couple of years. What we did was talk. We exchanged and fulfilled each others fantasies, proposed some sexy ideas, watched porn together, teased each other frequently, dressed up, etc... The key is to make sex fun again. Keep things playful and watch how much more often he begs for it.
  • I had this same question with my man, so I ask him about this and he says that he is with me and his love for me is what makes the sex so good. He also said that he loves me with all his heart and love is what makes sex. I hope that I have helped you, I used to wonder the same thing, I worried so much that it eventually had a very big impact on our realashonship.
  • Do your exercises. Be attentive. Try to be open minded. Try to be adventurous. Try to be reciprocal. Those are the best qualities. You may not have skills now, but follow those ideas and you will. Before anything, remember that he married you. I've had sex with more than my share of women, and there's few things more frustrating than having a woman that you really care about worrying about her skills, when you really don't care about her skills. Fun in bed has more to do with mind-set than skill-set. The latter follows the former. Meaning, when you have the right attitude, the skills will develop.

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