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by sexybaby10 on December 4th, 2006

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Any girls have some tips on fingering yourself? Ive done it once or twice but I can never "ejaculate" or whatever,,... got any tips?

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  • by Hott_Girlie_09xx on December 26th, 2009

    Hott_Girlie_09xx

    well im 12 and ive been fingering my self since i was 10 and the best way to do it is put porn on the tv then lay on your bed ( if you have a tv in your bedroom then thats evern better) then open your legs and stick 2 fingers ( use your middle 1 and the 1 near your thumb ) then stick them in your pussy and bed them and keep bending them for 5 or 10 mints ( watever turns u on) then arfter you have done that and have made your self horny lick and suck your fingers ( YOU USED 2 FINGER YOUR SELF) then wipe your cum and then wipe it all over your tits( Well your nipples!) then lick your fingers then rubb them all over your Nipples then lick your fingers arfter that.
    Tips
    1. Watch lesbian porn ( Best way 2 turn me on)
    2. lock the door befor you start.
    3. to get even morn horny stick the end off a hair brush up ya tight pussy.
    4. with an hair brush brush your pussy with the prickly side.
    5. Just enjoy your self.
    Good Luck Hunnie x
    Lovee caprice
    xxx

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  • by cami1211 on December 4th, 2006

    cami1211

    Make sure you give attention to your clitoris, use lube and make sure that you "mentaly" turn yourself on. women "learn" to think of mastrubation as "bad or "wrong" you have to get out of that mind set.
    Dont worry about putting something up there ! most women can only come from clitorial attention !! good luck !

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  • by indyness on December 29th, 2006

    indyness

    A good way for me is to watch some porn and try to keep you fingers working on your clitoris. If that doesn't work I think you can but some lubracinte, that should work to keep your fingers smooth in you =)

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  • by bjthebouncer on January 5th, 2007

    bjthebouncer

    imagine me...a hot sexy beast with a big dick beating that pussy up...no but seriously..try to visualize or fantasize about an act or situation that you would like to involved in

    thats what guys do when jacking off

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  • by hailybaily13 on November 2nd, 2010

    hailybaily13

    Well... what i do is i just stick my fingers on my pussy, not in, to start out with. thenwhat i do is i just kinda start to rub, not finger quite yet. if my vagina isnt wet right away i get my finger wet and i rub my pussy until it gets wet. Then after about a minute of rubbing my pussy fast, hard, and slow then i stick 2 fingers in there. sometimes ill stick other things up there. this might sound weird but i dnt have a dildo :( so i take my drum sticks that i dnt ever use and i stick them in my hole. IF your alone then you can moan and make sexy noises and stuff to make it more hott. I usually watch porn with it because it just adds soo much. If i cant get to porn i just try and think about one of the videos that i'd seen before and that works for me too. I also think of a huge dick fucking me better than ever and that makes it good too.

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  • by uberfun66 on August 4th, 2010

    uberfun66

    i think if u find something that looks like or reminds you of a dick putt it in your pussy nd fuck yourself really hard and fast. it feels good nd if it hurts, wacth some porn on tv or tha computer nd just rub. also stick something in your pussy.

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  • by Ride.Me on June 10th, 2010

    Ride.Me

    RUB YHUR CLIT AND THINK OF A HARD LONG DICK GOIN IN ND OUT OF YHUR PUSSY..ND IF YHUR GAYY THINK ABOUT A SEXXII GIRL EATIN YHU OOUT ND EATIN THT HOT WET PUSSY UHP.IF THT DONT WORK WATCH PORN AND RUB YHUR CLITT.IF THT DNT WORK ORGASMS WASNT MEANT FOR YHU TO HAVE!.. lmao enjoyy!

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  • by sxylesbo998 on May 5th, 2010

    sxylesbo998

    hun, this is what i do personally. b4 i go in the shower, i place my towl on the toilet seat, closed ofcourse. then i sit on it backwards or frontwords, nd u slide ur yummy pussy up nd down. it feels like ur rlly gettin fucked up. or, use the end of a hair broush. bt watch some lesbian porn 1st 2 turn u on. u know ur turned on when u feel ur heart beat in ur yummy pussy.
    have fun babe

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  • by Anonymous on April 21st, 2007

    Anonymous

    In my experience, when you get close to orgasm there is a feeling like you're going to pee - that's when it is possible to ejaculate. Instead of holding in the 'pee feeling' because you're scared to wet the bed, let it out - but go to the loo before you try it. Clitoral stimulation and stimulation around the entire labial region really helps, as does twisting and thrusting the fingers against the rear wall of the vagina (the part that adjoins the wall of the anus), rather than simply pushing the fingers backwards and forwards into the vagina.

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  • by darkautumn on February 5th, 2013

    darkautumn

    For one its important to know your anatomy. You would be surprised how many women do not know about their lady parts. So take special time getting to know your self... Number 2, people just assume that sticking something in you is automatically going to get you off. I guess they assume this because nature calls for the male organ to enter us during sex. Truth is, our clit is the most sensitive part and is the key to cumming. Don't mistake it as the only part. While fingering your clit will get you off, you will still want something in you or its kind of torturous. Number 3, its important to be really aroused. You can't just jump in to it. Make sure you spend time building your self up. Find a fantasy, or something that really turns you on. Also remember that delaying satisfaction will create the best orgasm. Number 4: Learn what feels good to you. Different women like different positions for self stimulation and different techniques at massage. I personally like to lay on my side, and I also don't like direct pressure right over top of my clit. I like it to be just a little bit above. I find that vibrators numb you after a while so the actual orgasm itself ends up being a total let down, but to each her own. Last but not least number 5. A lot of women think tons of wetness and sleekness is the key but that can be false too. If your really aroused then you will be really wet. I think its best to get rid of some of that wetness. You dont want your fingers to slide over top of the flesh you want the flesh to move a bit with your fingers. So thats It I think. You just need to get to know yourself. I gave up at first but one day I just took the time to get to know my body and what felt good and when i knew enough it happened and now i personally think I can stimulate myself better than any guy can. Remember also that there are a lot of toys out there. I hope this helped.

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  • by landonmac50@hotmail.com on February 13th, 2012

    landonmac50@hotmail.com

    im 10 and started at 8 i just need a lebianuver so call me 8162630971

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  • by Melinda47 on December 4th, 2011

    Melinda47

    I am 15 and i have been fingering my self since i was 11. What i do is go into my bedroom lock the door Dem the lights and get undress. get comfy then i watch a couple porn videos from different websites, when im wet i start to touch around my Pussy, not finger. Then i go faster and faster, as doing that i touch around my boobs or sensitives spots so it gets me more wet. then i use my middle finger and wedding finger and bend them into my pussy slowly and get faster and faster For 5 to 10 minutes. then i lick my fingers and start to rube my pussy. (i have a dildo but before i used like a hair brush end or markers) i start to stick it in slowly and then i go faster. then i go into the shower and use the shower hed. i have different speeds and stuff so i start with the gentle one and lay in my tub and spread my legs and go into my "pee hole" i then turn on the faster and harder ones. i finger my self as doing this for double the pleasure. well there are many different ways to do this. soo just enjoy your self and find the right way for you !(:

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  • by Linus_P on August 23rd, 2011

    Linus_P

    omg im a 12 year old horny guy!

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  • by Beto69 on May 14th, 2011

    Beto69

    I think it hot when girls Finger them selfs infrunt of me
    itgets me so hard!!....

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  • by kagweena8102 on March 15th, 2011

    kagweena8102

    I stick my fingers in the lips of my vigina and then start moving them in circls. I usally sit there alnd put a stop clock on to see how long it takes me. I have done this everynight scince i was 9. It feels so good. Take your time if you dont get horney right off the bat then just wait alittle bit i usally get horney at about 10-16 min. Enjoy and have fun. I think i'm gonna do the shower head thing. Also sometimes when im home alone.... I get naked and and sit in my bathroom sink and then look in my mirror at my vaginal hole then run the water on it feels great. Once again Have fun. :) Hope i helped you.

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  • by AmberrLynnPollay on January 24th, 2011

    AmberrLynnPollay

    Im 12 almost 13 and i rub my pussy for a bit then i wet my fingers then stick them in and put them in and out fast and hard and when you start to get the feeling cross your legs tightly then u will get more of a pleasure ;)

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  • by nwilliams1315 on November 22nd, 2010

    nwilliams1315

    Well im 13. what i do is look at pictures of dick or i think of me and my boyfriend havimg sex then i hump a pillow for like 5 minutes, then i rub my clit until i get wet then i put my fingures in my whole somethimes i ues object like a fresh tampong the large one make sue its not used take out the cotton stuff put ur ingur in that then put it in and out your pussy. you can use markers, and stuff just make sure its clean, oh and you can run the bath water put your whole under the water and let it splash in your pussy it feels great

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  • by kylie4037 on July 7th, 2010

    kylie4037

    do you know what i do i go to my room get my laptop and look up vidios of two girls kissing and sex and then i get naked and the i get really wet and rub my clit. the i get really horny! the i either get a hair brush (cleanfirst) or my fingers and open my legs very wide and then i stick my middle finger and my ring finger and go in and push on the top of my vagina and omg it feels amazing. i do this for about ten mins and then i get in the shower and take the shower hed and put it on my vagina and then open the lips and let the water go inthe pee hole and then i take my fingers and put them in and have the water still runing and then i either lay down sit on the eage of the tub or stand up. i just let the water run and u will love it i do it every nite and i and 13 ive dine it since i was 10. i hopw i helped going to touch my self

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  • by jas..1234 on June 14th, 2010

    jas..1234

    right i have been fingering my self for the last two years now, its much more better when a guy does it to you though :)
    First of all watch some lesbo porn and get horny and in the mood ( lesbo porn does the trick for me ) then get your middle finger and your index finger and rub your clit with them then stick the tips of your inex and middle finger in your pussy to get some cum , then rub your clit again, this might not give you the same feeling as me but i love the feeling i get its so good ! Try it and tell me what you think :)

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  • by cancer on August 6th, 2008

    cancer

    Masturbation is so natural to me. I use my saliva as a lubricant because it is much easier to use than stopping to use a lubricant of some sort. As I become more and more wet I naturally slide my finger in and massage the upper part of my vagina with light pressure pushing up on my pubic bone. (I also have the heel of my palm on my clit massaging it also). That is where my g spot is. As I massage myself and the closer I am to orgasm I feel the need to pee every time. I keep going and as I orgasm a gush of liquid squirts out and believe me it is allot I soak the bed about 5 to 6 inch diameter spot. I now lay on a towel so I do not mess the bed. It took me a few times to not stop and go the bathroom and pee. So practice and when you and remember it is not pee you will have the most intense orgasm ever.

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  • by saradara10 on March 11th, 2013

    saradara10

    Share your answer...

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  • by layla2cute on April 14th, 2013

    layla2cute

    First u should hit me up on fb layla 2cute then we can meet up and ill probably lick ur pussy

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  • by Babycakes616 on January 11th, 2013

    Babycakes616

    Text me if you have any questions at 17155447220!!!!

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  • by Fuckmehard722 on December 27th, 2012

    Fuckmehard722

    Use a massager as a vibrator, then stick 2 fingers in your pussy or two drum sticks and make really loud sex noises, always does the trick for me

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  • by darkautumn on February 5th, 2013

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  • by Llunapaola on September 22nd, 2012

    Llunapaola

    I have been fucking myself since I was 8. I like to use something that is similar to a dick. And to turn me on I wAtch porn videos on youngleafs.com

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  • by Anonymous on November 6th, 2008

    Anonymous

    i'm a guy but my girlfriend likes it when i slowly insert one finger to start with, then build up to two. I insert the fingers all the way into the vagina (usually about second knuckle) and bend them slightly upwards on the withdrawal in order to stimulate the g-spot. While that's going on i use my thumb also to massage the clitoris outside.

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  • by travewon1 on April 11th, 2010

    travewon1

    welll start by watching free porn gurls on xnxx.com then live it on there the get naked lay on ur bed squeez ur boobies go slowly down to ur pussy then insert the finger in and go up and down or use a hair brush or fake dick feels so good well enjoy doing it

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  • by candy x on August 5th, 2008

    candy x

    yeh baby.............. i say instead of fingerin them u should jus get a dildo ..........

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  • by Xx.AllAboutIt.xX on April 21st, 2007

    Xx.AllAboutIt.xX

    Get on your hands and knees and finger yourself from the back it feels GREAT.&&_ you have more acsess 2 your G-Spot!

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  • by Nicaspiderman on February 24th, 2007

    Nicaspiderman

    wet your fingers before you do it

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  • by destiny123 on February 17th, 2010

    destiny123

    what i do is watch some pron then i go somewere prievate and i start sticking my fingers in my pussy and it feels so good but i wanna get a didlo

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  • by softside on February 18th, 2007

    softside

    although i am a man,i knowthat not all women ejaculate. but u SHOULD be able to masturbate and get yourself off. men do it, and men also think that women look sexy when they do it. dont feel bad about it, it's NATURAL.think of what YOU want,not anyone else,and feel yourself as you think of just how YOU would want it to happen sexually. notice i said YOU, not what other people taught you to believe

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  • by holly.forst on February 17th, 2012

    holly.forst

    hi im 13 i been finger and waching porn ever since i was 11 and i got a masger but i can never come i get in the horny mood and strip my clothes off and start to rub my self and stuff but i can never come

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  • by hannahthehottie on February 15th, 2011

    hannahthehottie

    im 15 but when i feel in the mood I put on some lesbian porn and start out slow I work up with 1 finger then go with 3 and aftr a bit I go to the bathroom put some lube on my fingers and go again and take my fist and put it in my pussythat really gives me a good orgasm

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  • by hannahthehottie on February 15th, 2011

    hannahthehottie

    sorry double post lol

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  • by kagweena8102 on March 15th, 2011

    kagweena8102

    I stick my fingers in the lips of my vigina and then start moving them in circls. I usally sit there alnd put a stop clock on to see how long it takes me. I have done this everynight scince i was 9. It feels so good. Take your time if you dont get horney right off the bat then just wait alittle bit i usally get horney at about 10-16 min. Enjoy and have fun. I think i'm gonna do the shower head thing. Also sometimes when im home alone.... I get naked and and sit in my bathroom sink and then look in my mirror at my vaginal hole then run the water on it feels great. Once again Have fun. :) Hope i helped you.

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  • by Yogiedog on February 6th, 2011

    Yogiedog

    I just tried fingering after reading all your tips but I couldn't figure out how to skwirt.
    I also did it on the toilet....is that right?

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  • by iloveyouuu03 on February 2nd, 2011

    iloveyouuu03

    I've been doing this for about 4 years, and I just turned 14. I like you rub it.. then when I get wet, I stick my fingers in. My mom has a dildo. .. O.O and I wash it EVERYTIME before I use it, it vibrates to it feels soooo fucking good. I've never had an orgasm, but I would like too one of these days. i have a nebulizer, (cause of my asthma) and I just hook that up and I get the cord where the air pressure comes out and stick it like, on the top of my vagina, not inside, and just let it go. omg it feels soooo good. I'm gonna try some of these tips though. (; Thanks everyone.

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  • by Aaron_J on January 17th, 2011

    Aaron_J

    welll ive looked at a few tips onlinee but sometimes never work
    what does it mean when ur pussy likeee it beats like idk , but i get alot of pleasure
    rub ur clit alll niqht and i cumm alott .

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  • by AmberrLynnPollay on January 24th, 2011

    AmberrLynnPollay

    Im 12 almost 13 and i rub my pussy before i start fingering then i stick in 2 fingers and when you start to get tht feeling cross your legs tighly and it give you more of an effect and even after u take out your fingers u can still feel it its awesome!!!!

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  • by Queenofeverything on December 25th, 2010

    Queenofeverything

    Wat I do is I take a video from xnxx.com and watch som sex videos,find a big cylinder shaped thing &
    &have @ it so if h think that this was helpful than go shed use it

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  • by Ella_L on November 29th, 2010

    Ella_L

    @nwilliams1315 have you actually had sex with your bf?

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  • by destinyhs on November 28th, 2010

    destinyhs

    :>

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  • by Aaron_J on January 17th, 2011

    Aaron_J

    welll ive looked at a few tips onlinee but sometimes never work
    what does it mean when ur pussy likeee it beats like idk , but i get alot of pleasure
    rub ur clit alll niqht and i cumm alott .

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  • by rainballet on February 5th, 2012

    rainballet

    I usually slowly massage my vagina for six minutes in counterclockwise circles.then once I'm wet I like to put my pinkeye's finger in my pussy and my thumb on my clit and slowly massage them while watching porn.when I'm really horny I start getting a little rough with myself and moan really loud. Doing this in front of a mirror(s) is a great turn on too. If your flexible like me experiment with the splits you would be surprised on how great it feels!

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  • by lovesex13 on January 13th, 2012

    lovesex13

    I am 14 and have had a # of boyfriends and usally they come over to my house or we go over to his house and start to hookup right away, I usally have a bf(boy friend) whos got a really big dick because he ethier 14-16 years old so i like to finger my self in front of him to get him set up and his dick hard.
    So what ur goning to do is
    1. get a pick of a boyfriend or bring him over to your house
    2. start to tell him sexy stuff while feeling your self and him
    3. then take off your clothes and just glide your fingers up and down you V and then when you get to ur V hole slip to fingers in the whole and go slow than fast
    4. after that just get in the mood and have sex.
    Going to have sex with my Bf(hes so hot, were at my house and only my 17 year old sister is home) have fun finger away.

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  • by Ella_L on November 29th, 2010

    Ella_L

    Hi im 11 and this is what I do
    I rub my pussy until it is nice and wet and then I insert the rounded end of a pencil and put it all the way to the back. Then I pull it out and in for about 2 minutes, then a use a pen and then my mascara. then I stick my pinky in for a bit then pull it out, then my ring finger then my middle fimnger then my thumb. Then I do my ring finger and middle finger together. I do this whilst my boy friend is watching, then he does it to me then he licks my pussy for me. Then he fucks me gently, then really hard, so I cum and bleed all over the sheets! Just try it its amazing!
    Hope I helped! :) :) :) :)

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  • by roxyannejayAddMeOnFaceBookForPussyPics on December 26th, 2011

    roxyannejayAddMeOnFaceBookForPussyPics

    im 13 & i have a boyfriend, i lost my v at 11.. i have a boyfriend now & hes here.. my parents are out so i think we're going to have sex, hes a virgin though so i have to guide him threw it-.- ill post later about how it was:D
    anyways ive been fingering myself since 10 years old? ive used various objects like;
    the top of a bell that you ringg,
    Hair brushes.
    large cylinder objects.
    and my fingers ovc..
    i usually just start with the lubricant that my boyfriends buy me:'-) i start slowly by rubbing my clit, then i start to enter my vajina.. its really nice if you know what your doing. so you start of soft & slowly.. then go faster, i can fit about 3/4 fingers into my vajina, after a good 10 minutes ish you should be wet. then what you do is start to go fast & hard-ish in a circular motion. you should be able to have an orgasm and 'squirt' as they call it, it feels like you need to go to the loo, but dont, makesure you have a towel and just let it flow..
    then let your boyfriend( if you have one ) lick you out..
    if you dont have a boyfriend then just wet a small soft towel and rub your clit slowly, it should feel pretty good:'-).
    hope this has helped you! will be back later with a pic of me & my bf shagging:'-) muchlove!

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  • by BiG_m0ñèy on June 6th, 2012

    BiG_m0ñèy

    Well I watch some porn after I strip to my bra and panties. I sit and feel myself up as if I was my crush. Then I undo my bra and play with my nipples. After awhile I slide my panties off roughly. I take a batball bat and rub the handle on my "cunt". I start slow then pick up speed my whole body intensifies and I "cum". Sometimes I turn the bat so the thicker end is facing me and I put it in and move it as fast and as rough as I can thinking of my crush.

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