I was putting my husbands cloths one day, and decided to rearange the drawer's when doing so i found some porn mag's and it made me mad,is he just beening a man or is this something to be worried about giving i look nothing like those girls.is he cheating
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its normal, my guess is if he has those hes not cheating cuz he wouldnt need them. No grl looks like those grls so dont feel bad. Be grateful its only magazines or internet or w.e it could be worse. My boyfriend looks at that, sometimes we watch movies together, try it, itll do u both wonders. Let him know he doesnt have to hide it from u
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most (lots and lots) of men look at porn (girls do to actually)...accept it, and it'll be a lot easier on you. it's only entertainment, and shows he's got a healthy sexual appetite...it would be really good if you told him he doesnt have to hide it from you...why should you feel bad? he looks at the stuff and gets turned on and prob masturbates, and then it's done...dont be hurt by it, it's just fantasy
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The odds are about 86 to one that he's not cheating. He's obviously got a healthy interest in sex. Would you rather have found magazines with pictures of naked MEN?
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Having a couple of porn magazines does not make for a cheating husband. Supposedly it is "normal" for men to occasionally view porn. You - like me - are uncomfortable with it - but there's no need for concern at this point.
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That's pretty normal. Is he cheating? Probably not. Having those items is pretty darn normal. Men have generally high sex drives, since we spend our entire adult lives potentially minutes from an orgasm, if you think about it. We're almost always up for a quickie. If you thought about sex LITERALLY every minute the way a man does, you'd probably have porn too. ;)
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Its better than finding your panties in his drawer.
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There are usually well written stories in those magazines too...perhaps he is trying to improve his English...read them!..
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As I said before, the odds are heavily against it. But, sweetie, how often does he have sex with you? I'd suggest that your approaching him amourously, seducing him, making him want YOU, might relieve him of the need for external stimuli. I'm not telling you to be aggressive, or to climb all over him every night, but be enticing, be desirable, be seductive.
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It's just a pornography magazine. Jumping to the conclusion that he is cheating is absolutely over the top and absurd. Millions of men (and women) buy these magazines every day, because they have a healthy interest in sex or a particular fetish. It doesn't make them bad people. It makes them normal. If it's a huge issue for you, talk to your fella, but also, ask yourself why it bothers you. Do YOU have a healthy relationship with sex?
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naaa don't make it a bigger deal than it really is which is not that big a deal
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Porn magazines are not an indication of cheating. They are visual stimulus no different to other fantasies. Most of us don't look like the women in the magazines but hopefully our partners chose us not because of our looks but because of who we truly are. Often men, and even women who are in healthy sexual relationships will check out porn at times. Seriously, if this bothers you then sit down and have a chat with him about it.
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