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  • Well, have you talked to her about this? maybe making this feeling known would help you to deal with them. however, love is love and once its found it is hard to just get rid of it.
  • Don't try to lock it away. It will make u want her more. Talk to her. U need to learn how to balance work with love. balance will help u to remember ur priorities. If u keep it from her, then it will eventually come out at an inoppurtune time. Go out with her, it might help decide whether u r only meant to be friends or not. I hope this helps u Anonymous.
  • There is no easy way to get rid of deep feelings. It'll take time, first of all. Second of all, if you're friends with her, it'll be all the harder. Most people try to ignore the one they don't like but that'll only make the friendship go away. If you truely like her, then talk to her about it. Let her know how you feel and figure out where you guys stand. If she's a close friend, she should be able to hear you out without judging you. True, love can distract you from many things, but you have the choice to not let it run your life. Balance things out, talk to someone you trust to get help, take some time to write down your feelings. It works for me, hopefully it'll work for you. =) PS.- You can continue to deny your feelings but I guareentee that it will only make things worse. Maybe you just need to accept that you like her. Some things are just better to realize than to shut away.

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