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  • I'm really sorry about that. But I'm sure you haven't lost your girlfriend because you're a good guy. Did she give you any reasons?
  • because they are boring if a guy is too nice its creepy
  • Girls want to have fun they don't need to be treated like a princess 24/7. They also like to fulfill a man's needs. If you don't show any needs and only take care of hers she will get bored and move on to someone with more going on with their life (or just personality). Basically to build attraction be a little more bad ass...tell her what you want but don't be like 'I want to take you to the swim park and then to the ice cream store and then I want to buy you stuff' be like 'I want to go get a beer and then let's hit the beach'
  • what do you mean a good guy? being female and being good my self i lost two boyfriends.
  • Sound like you dated a whore. Nice girls like guys who are nice to them and treat them right. Whores are looking for a guy who treat them like crap and do their bestfriend because whores need drama in their lives. Stay a way from whores.
  • Girls do like respectable guys. I like respectable guys. You just have to pick a respectable girl. Where are you meeting your girls?
  • Maybe she found you too nice? I dunno, the guy I'm with is pretty respectable, he treats my daughter as if shes his.
  • My guess is that you lost her not because your a good guy,but because you smothered her,or were too needy,just didn't give her space,that everyone needs.But in any case I doubt it was because you were nice.
  • Been there myself, bud. It sucks, eh? My best advice is to go read "How to Become an Alpha Male" by John Alexander (I think). It shows the difference between being a jerk and a nice guy and the Alpha Male, which is what you want to be. It's geared more to seduction, but the advice is just as applicable to the initial stages of a relationship, and dating in general. Good luck, dude.

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