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AB Etiquette: What is proper eitquette when we answer Qs & the asker NEVER responds by awarding points or making comments? do those answering A) Remind the asker? B) Be stern? C) Blacklist? D) Ignore & keep answering the same Asker's Qs? E) Other?

By R_Berue Asked Aug 27 2008 12:06PM
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by Barcaluv 67 on Aug 27, 2008 at 4:10 pm Permalink

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I'll answer most of the time either way, but I won't lie, I have some users on my -shall we call it- "grey" list? ; )
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Avatar Brian and friend Sep, 26 2008 at 11:08 AM
What color is your Friends List? ;)
Avatar Barcaluv 67 Sep, 26 2008 at 11:59 AM
Mostly white ; )
Avatar R_Berue Sep, 26 2008 at 01:28 PM
Hi Barcaluv remembers Nelson!
I can honestkly say, I NEVER rceived an alert for your response.
Yet, somehow I don't have a + sign to award those pointw. Maybe I forgot to to "Comment". I apologize.
I THINK I'm beginning to accumulate a variety of lists, too.
I did the same thing when I played backgammon on-line.
BUT that's another Q&A for annother time.
Very Truly Yours,
Ron Berue

Answer 2 out of 31

by MrNatural Abstractor of the Quintessence on Aug 27, 2008 at 12:12 pm Permalink

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Why do points matter?
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Avatar R_Berue Sep, 11 2008 at 04:49 AM
Hi Happy Biohazard!
Yes it was an excelloent point!
Very Truly Yours,
Ron Berue
Avatar Happy Biohazard Sep, 11 2008 at 07:49 PM
Dont think you need to go out of your way to be nice to me. I understand we had our squabbles but with me its all in the past. If you are just that way and respond to everybody then disregard this comment and also thanks
Avatar R_Berue Sep, 27 2008 at 01:45 AM
I REALLY don't take any comment or response lightly. If someone posts a comment or an answer, something I wrote or responded to was important enough for me to acknowledge.
Thanks again.
By the way, I KNOW I'll never please everyone all the time. That is simply a fairy tale!
Very Truly Yours,
Ron Berue

Answer 3 out of 31

by Andy Ninja Is Wicked Back To Work on Sep 1, 2008 at 12:01 pm Permalink

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If I find that they have a 0% +feedback given and a lack of comments, even when they have asked a ton of questions, then I will not answer their questions. That's a bit extreme, but I have seen that happen.

Most of the time, I just answer the question if I find it interesting and don't sweat the points or comments. Luckily, most people do comment and award points.

There are also some people who asked a lot of good questions that still get responses that are no longer around, so they obviously don't comment/rate. I still answer their questions though.
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Avatar R_Berue Sep, 11 2008 at 04:56 AM
Hi Andy NinjabIs Wicked Spent!
+5! I NEVER thought of looking at the feedback rate statistic.
I should know better: It's dealing with the general public.
As one of my mentors told me:
SW3 - N!
Some Will.
Some Won't.
So What!
NEXT!
Thanks for thazt particular aspect.
Very Truly Yours,
Ron Berue

Answer 4 out of 31

by Chris on Aug 27, 2008 at 3:51 pm Permalink

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The answer may still be helpful to someone in the future. I find myself answering a lot of science related questions that were asked years ago, and the asker has been long gone. They rarely ever get points.
I usually have fun answering the question, and I learn something at the same time.
I have let this bother me before, with users that ARE still here, but, I guess it is just something we have to deal with. No worries, keep on answering your heart out, your good deeds will be appreciated in time.
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Avatar R_Berue Aug, 27 2008 at 06:30 PM
+5!
Yes!
It took me to ask thios Q to realize there's no sense beating my head against the wall.
One thing about this site: To the best of my knowledge, most of the Qs and As remain alive for a very long time!
If the answer isn't responded to by the Asker, perhaps someone else might give that answer the credit it's due!
Thanks VERY MUCH!
VERY Truly Yours,
Ron Berue

Answer 5 out of 31

by LoggyBren on Sep 6, 2008 at 3:25 pm Permalink

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E)Other...I don't know what to think. I answered a question last night and the questioner never commented but left a comment to the other person who answered..the other person answered after me because I looked at the time. I'm taking that as the questioner is telling me not to answer their questions anymore...maybe I'm wrong..I don't know.
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Avatar LoggyBren Nov, 03 2008 at 09:38 PM
LOL R! What I try to do on my recent questions especially as well as some old ones is check answers. That is the only way you can keep up with them. If someone asks a question that gets them >than 100 points or <100 points, it is my personal opinion that they have a responsibility for that question. Why ask the question if you are not going to check the answers? What's the point? I DO see what you mean though.
Respectfully,
Loggybren:):)
Avatar R_Berue Nov, 24 2008 at 04:10 PM
You ARE right!
Not commenting AND no acknowledgement or awarding of points IS MY PET PEEVE!
Thanks for making that superb point!!
VERY Truly Yours,
Ron Berue
Avatar LoggyBren Nov, 24 2008 at 04:14 PM
Your welcome. It's not always on purpose..but I feel bad when noone comments. Have a nice Thanksgiving.:)

Answer 6 out of 31

by Firebrand on Sep 6, 2008 at 3:41 pm Permalink

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Usually If I find the question interesting I will answer anyway.
Sometimes I do feel that continuing to give these people loads of points as the answerers do, knowing that the people do not even bother to read the answers is poor form.

Although I am quite happy to bring back old questions from departed users knowing that the person is no longer with us to rate the answers. That is a different situation entirely.. I have thought that maybe if a person does not bother with reading ,rating or commenting it is best to answer hoping it will help somebody else but forgo giving points to the question.
I have not reached that point yet.
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Avatar R_Berue Sep, 06 2008 at 04:17 PM
Hello Firebrand!
Your answer seems to be the general feeling.
It just irritates the devil out of me when I see A TON of points next to a Q AND a bunch of "0's" after every answer.
It is VERY rewarfding when out of the blue someone responds with favorable comments and awards points for a long-forgotten Q.
I THINK if AB developed a way to detect dormant accounts, those accounts would be closed after 3 months and the Qs would remain "live".
Very truly Yours,
Ron Berue
Avatar Firebrand Sep, 06 2008 at 04:23 PM
Thank you Ron , some people including myself sometimes take 3 months off but I always rate my answers. There should be an answer to be able to stop people point harvesting in this way but I do not mind at all on questions where people have left.
Avatar R_Berue Sep, 11 2008 at 04:58 AM
A second bvery good point.
Since I posted this Q, I learned A WHOLE LOT aoubt what I should consider and discount.
Very Truly Yours,
Ron Berue

Answer 7 out of 31

by Im BACK on Sep 10, 2008 at 3:43 pm Permalink

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C)Blacklist.

I'm sorry that you dont have any time to award me points for solve your question, but I will blacklist you. Frankly, I think that the person who don't even leave a comment or points is being rude. I think that at least a comment should be deserved. Questions takes up my time and answering them takes up my time.

If you don't award me points, I won't either. It's as simple as that. That's the truth and that's what I believe in. It's my opinion.
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Avatar R_Berue Sep, 11 2008 at 05:08 AM
"To me, "Thank yous" supplement the points. They're kind of like "the icing on the cake".
As my Gran'mom told us:
"It's nice to be important, BUT it's more important to be nice."
Very Truly Yours,
Ron
Avatar Happy Biohazard Sep, 11 2008 at 07:57 PM
I like that saying. Too many people dont understand it though. Me included sometimes. alright fine. most of the time.
Avatar R_Berue Sep, 26 2008 at 01:17 PM
Hi AlcoholicAnonymous46!
+5 for your answer. I'm sorry I missed your answer. I may have been multi-tasking. You got those pointw. I'm taking the time to go over every answer to make sure I responded AND awarded points.
In this particular instance, it's better to be a little late. I THINK you were awarded an extra point from the time I originally posted this Q,
You are entitled to your opinion. I'm entitled to mine.
Very Truly Yours,
Ron Berue

Answer 8 out of 31

by Bitto on Sep 26, 2008 at 10:04 am Permalink

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E.
Some people aren't here to play the "points" game; they either want to learn something, or to teach something, or express their opinion on a particular topic, or offer advise to someone in need, or simply to get a chuckle at the inanity of some questions and/or answers.
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Avatar R_Berue Sep, 26 2008 at 10:11 AM
Hi Bitto!
Thanks for your feedback and those oints! +5!
I have all my bases covered - I think. I received answers and reason for each of those options.
For the time being, I came to a conclusion:
Whatever I feel like doing at that particular time is what I'm gonna do. If I get DR'ed, I can live with the consequences.
Thanks again!
Very truly Yours,
Ron Berue
Avatar Bitto Sep, 26 2008 at 11:17 AM
You are most welcome!

Answer 9 out of 31

by BigDaddyBS on Sep 27, 2008 at 12:23 am Permalink

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It doesn't matter (well, it does a LITTLE) to me if I get points. D. If I can answer a question, either seriously or humorously, I will answer it. I have over 38 PAGES (75 each) of questions I've answered with exactly ZERO points. Does it sound like I care that much!??! LOL

I look at it like this... If it's not helping that particular user (maybe also they're new to the site, and don't really know about the ratings), I'm helping AB build it's database of validly answered questions by answering, I'm helping anyone else who may have had the same question, and someone, somewhere, sometime will give the answer points.

But, I tend to consider points "gravy", and the FUN of AB is helping people, answering serious and funny questions seriously and humorously, the "great answer"s I get, and the short (or long) chats with friends I've met here.
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Avatar R_Berue Nov, 03 2008 at 02:36 PM
HI AGAIN, BigDaddy!
I don't know how much these folks know or don't know. I do my best to explain things and present my answer from a more common-sense perspective - as I see it and as I interpret the Q.
When I'm wrong, I admit it. When I don't get that feedback, the only assumptions I can make are my answer was helpful or it just weasn't what that particular person asking the Q wanted to read. In either event, it's the best I can do.
Very Truly Yours,
Ron
Avatar BigDaddyBS Nov, 03 2008 at 04:13 PM
That's all any of us can do, Ron. ;-)
Avatar R_Berue Nov, 24 2008 at 04:11 PM
:-) :-) :-) :-)
Ron

Answer 10 out of 31

by Account Closed on Aug 27, 2008 at 12:10 pm Permalink

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I say the best policy here is to answer questions you feel you can be helpful with. Never question why so and so was stingy because that will not help. There are many wonderful people here who will thank you as well as reward you for your time. When I find someone who does not seem to care if they get any answers I stop answering their questions. I am mainly here to help others the points are a pat on the back the comments give me a warm and close feeling and with all the good i get from this place I don't allow the little bit of bad to ruin my experience.
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Avatar R_Berue Aug, 27 2008 at 12:46 PM
Hi Wanbli!
+5! You and I are on the same page.
However,it seems as though I'm answering more Questions with pretty damn good answers and not even getting a "click of the mouse".
It doesn't cost the Asker anything, but a timy bit of time.
I ALWAYS thank folks for their points AND comments.
I even thank those who award points anonymously.
THAT's what ticks me off. Nothing in return.
Very truly Yours,
Ron Berue
Avatar Account Closed Aug, 27 2008 at 12:54 PM
Yes my friend but it is all those great answers and knowing that you have helped even one person is what makes it all worth while. I agree the points and comments are nice and cost them nothing but we both know that isn't likely to change. This is why it is important to help those honestly looking for help instead of the players.
Avatar R_Berue Aug, 27 2008 at 01:15 PM
I KNOW I help more folks than only the person asking.
I get great comments from folks who are interested in answers to that Q.
I'm just so puzzled why the asker gets some very helpful answers and fails to type a simple "Thanks".
This does require some additional thought on MY part.
Very Truly Yours,
Ron


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