ANSWERS: 13
  • Sounds like: "Why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
  • Suprisingly I agree with the last person who commented. However, I wouldnt put it like that. I'd say you need to figure out if he wants you around for more than a "f*ckbuddy" if not seriously consider moving on. Men will use woman if they can. Men are sick creatures sometimes... both sexes can be though. Protect yourself and your heart. However, sometimes they can just be afraid. If he seems to really want to be with you a lot of the time and you dont see him with anyone else, then maybe he isnt ready just yet but will be soon. I had a similar experience with a guy one time but eventually he became my boyfriend when he was ready.
  • i think he is forgetting a few words there. you arent just 'friends' you are 'friends with benefits' i dont think it is a bad thing. but you are clearly confused about your feelings, and his feelings, and the relationship in general, so thats not good. i'm not saying he doesnt like to hang out with you. you did say you only get sexual 'sometimes' so you are probably a little step up from a botty-call. the important thing is: are you ok with that?
  • He wants to be your friend...and likes the benefits...but doesnt want a relationship. If youre happy with this situation, than I guess..keep going on with it, but eventually, it will get hard not to be attatched to him, and every time he just calls you friends, it will hurt even worse. I say lose this situation and just be friends. And make sure that it stays..just..friends. Best of luck. ~+~
  • It is definitely a friends with benefits kind of relationship. I would say that you should call the sex off or get serious with him.
  • He could be using you. But if you're having fun too, then it's up to you. This situation can get complicated really fast. So if one of you gets attached then you should brake it off.
  • That's is what they call "friends with benefits". Personally, I think that's a bad situation for a girl...but some girls are happy with that arrangement. It sounds like you are not though. Maybe it's time to make this relationship platonic? Sorry. Good luck. btw, how will you feel when he meets a girl that he wants more than just as a friend? Please consider YOUR feelings here--you matter.
  • HE MIGHT BE SCARED OF COMMITMENT OR HAVE SOMEONE ELSE
  • cut off the benefits and just be his friend....or talk to him and tell him how you really feel if you want more
  • Believe him. He is trying to be honest with you, so that you don't expect anything more than "fun" from this relationship. Take his word for it: you are just friends and he isn't expecting things to move beyond that.
  • Sounds like your his "jump off". You can do better...you deserve better!
  • Ever hear the expression, "Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?" GOOGLE it.
  • Friends with benefits. (g (fwb) Friends with benefits You have no relationship other than someone to call when you want to get laid.

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