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by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on August 25th, 2008
"Forced Sex" scenarios that are mutually and consensually agreed upon by the principles involved are really quite common, perhaps more so than you think. It is absolutely crucial that the boundaries are established and agreed upon beforehand between you both, including the use of a "safe" word or phrase, its meanings and the course of action required when invoked. Having done that, then all that is left is to decide the where, when and the how. As an enthusiast of forced-sex play with 20+ years of experience, I can tell you all of my partners have enjoyed it immensely. What your gf intuitively understands is that the total experience will be stronger, more intense than what she already knows from "vanilla" sex. You're very lucky. Although it is a common fantasy, its still difficult to find a partner who shares it, much less willing to let you play such a scenario out. I write short-stories with bondage for sex as the central theme. Perhaps one of them might provide the blueprint you seek, or at least get you pointed in the right direction. If so, I would be glad to send you some; my email is on my profile. In any case, good luck. I think you'll find just the planning alone will be terrific foreplay.
by littlegreycells on August 25th, 2008
that is REALLY strange. why would someone WANT to be raped??? i know shes your girlfriend and that, but that is pretty strange. i wouldnt do it if i were you.
by altgirl84 on August 26th, 2008
Traveler had some great advice. Ask about any limits she has; for example things like slapping around (could be face, or any other part of the body) ask if she's ok with that. Certain kinds of talk (tone of voice I think has a lot to do with it, make sure she's ok for you to speak in a rough harsh tone if you're thinking about doing that). The kind of force you'll use (and the act she'll put up with trying to 'resist); will you grab her, force her down, tie her up, throw her around in any way, gag her, etc. Ordering her to do certain things would work too. Ask her about appropriate names to call her if she's into name calling. Talk about any outfits/costumes if you'll wear any (sometimes in a rape fantasy/scene the guy may wear a ski mask for example). And with the forceful sex, as others have said, make sure she knows a safeword in case it gets too hard for her to take (and if she's gagged, agree on a signal in place of a safeword, for example tapping her feet 3 times, making a certain noise 3 times, blinking her eyes 3 times, etc). Hope that helps :)
by Kitty Kat on August 25th, 2008
Listen to Traveler, he knows what he is talking about!!!!!!!!
by wozzy666 on August 27th, 2008
Yup been there done that , me and my mate did my now wife, pillow case over her head tied to the bed and double teamed was amazing she knew it was gonna happen but didnt know how or when, my mate was well made up aswell lol
by Red Archer on August 25th, 2008
Yes, the safe word is a must. Other than that go with your gut feeling. An ex of mine was really into the rape fantasy and we used to act out several different types. It was some of my best sexual times.
by Ray on August 25th, 2008
I wouldn't go there personally.. sexual deviance can go too far, way too far.
by Anonymous on December 7th, 2008
Anal. Rape.
by Mesia on August 25th, 2008
You need to set up a safe word in case things get too bad for her. Other than that, I don't know what to tell you.
by The-poison-girl on April 12th, 2010
I am a girl that shares this fantasy and me and my boyfriend have done this a few times and it's been great, we do like to be man handled a bit but some girls like it rougher than others it really is important to have things like that sorted out before hand and to have a safe words cus sometimes guys can get carried away as long as you have that sorted then there wont be any fights :) hope this helps...have fun! ;) x
by Anonymous on May 12th, 2010
There are a LOT of women who fantasize about being "raped" - there's something about not having any CONTROL or CHOICE and being FORCED to have sex that turns them on ! ( Not in REAL life - just as a fantasy ! ) My ex-wife had that fantasy and we fulfilled it together ( HER fantasy was to get "raped" by a LOT of guys but because I wasn't comfortable with her being FORCED to have sex with several men we ended up doing a consensual gang bang to satisfy her fantasy ) and my CURRENT wife sometimes gets in the mood to feel "forced" to have sex with me. When she's in that mood I'll tie her down to the bed ( both arms and both legs tied to the bed posts ! ) and I "force" myself on her so she has no CHOICE but to have sex with me. She likes it occasionally - and it DOES seem to satisfy that desire to be "raped" when it arises - there's certainly nothing wrong with fulfilling mutual sexual fantasies !
by wildcard6 on January 13th, 2012
I am going with someone who, in her words, likes to be "treated like a princess in public and a slut in the bedroom." She relayed a fantasy to me, and I fulfilled it for her last weekend. She sleeps in nothing but her underwear bottoms, so it was pretty easy to do. In essence, I woke up, lubed myself up good to minimize any discomfort, and then....
Ripped the blanket off of her, tore her thong off, and shoved myself into her good and hard before she had a chance to wipe the sleep from her eyes. She was shocked and horrified for about 5 seconds, and this was quickly replaced with her being so amped up and turned on that she had a cascade of orgasms.
Why she likes it is beyond me, but she does and I aim to please!
Bottom line, give her what she wants, but talk it out beforehand. Then, do what she wants when she least expects it. Most important: have a safe word or phrase arranged as Traveler advises. And have a course of action planned if she says the safe word.
Have fun!
by michaelgodhead1634 on December 27th, 2009
get a few men round and gang rape her, fuck her arese mouth and pussy u just watch
by something else on December 26th, 2008
i'm a female and this sound kind of hot. she sounds kinky so tie her up. do whatever you know turns her on but dont say anything seductive. if you choose to say anything say something like "stay still" or "dont scream." if she like anal, flip her over on her stomach before you tie her up and thrut extra hard, remember, for this time, SHE IS A PIECE OF MEAT AND WANTS TO BE ONE. If she is ok with it, rip her clothes like an animal. she probably likes to be man-handled so scratch her or slam her against a wall, pull her hair and bite her.
if your bf/gf wanted to act out a fantasy with you and it wasn't your cup of tea would you do it anyway?
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I so want to enjoy that!!!!!!!
by Kitty Kat on August 25th, 2008
And I so want you to.
by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on August 26th, 2008