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by Anonymous on August 24th, 2008

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My girlfriend and i want to preform anal sex. neither of us have done it before and any information would be great. i want to know if poop will come out on my dick? how should we prepare? is there a way to make her clean? will it hurt her?. thanks!

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  • by manish on September 27th, 2008

    manish

    Dont eat anything one day before anal sex and a night before have some pills to clear bowels that will do

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  • by Funny Stuff on August 25th, 2008

    Funny Stuff

    That's great that you have a partner that likes to try different things like anal. My advice to you is go slow. You both need to find a comfort level. Try using a gloved finger or two first... this will help loosen her up and relax her anal muscles allowing for larger and deeper penetration. It will be uncomfortable for her at first, but again, go slow, go easy.

    As for the cleanliness thing, a condom is the best way to go, regardless. But you two may want to consider trying an enema on her just prior to beginning. There will definately be less mess. But cleanliness is not just for her... make sure you are clean, too. Remember, she has as much riding on this as you. Most importantly, have fun.

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  • by bagkhan on February 17th, 2009

    bagkhan

    You both are ready, try it, but dont ejaculate inside her anal, better cum on her back.

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  • by tigerhrezik on February 18th, 2009

    tigerhrezik

    MY Gf and I are going through the same process now.
    But I have gone through t with other girls before.
    first, lube is the most important thing, dont think spit or pussy juice is enough.
    second it's much better if she takes an enema before, she can do this the night before so as not to ruin the mood.
    skipping this step could cause you to "pack it" and that can get uncomfortable for her over the next few days.
    next and my personal favorite, I always buy a butt plug a little smaller than my penis and have her get used to having it in her ass.
    you can leave it there for hours at a time and it wont hurt anything.
    as a mater of fact my GF is in bed sleeping with it in now.
    last I prefer the first couple of times to be sitting down and let her sit on it at her own pace.
    there's nothing like the feeling of cumming in her ass the first time.
    Have fun!

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  • by LuvLiving on September 24th, 2008

    LuvLiving

    you both have to be really in the mood....play with her a lot down there so she can relax...licking is good for that.....inserting one finger, then two...LOTS of lube and be very attentive to her to her pain meter, go EXTREMELY slow

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  • by Nibble nibble bite nibble on August 24th, 2008

    Nibble nibble bite nibble

    Condom and lots of lube. It will hurt her at first, but shouldn't afterwards. If it does, even after doing it a few times, have her go to the doc, make sure everything is okay. Make sure nothing is being ripped or whatever. Happy times!

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  • by CatyGeeky on June 27th, 2010

    CatyGeeky

    Ideally it should be performed 2 hours after her last evacuation and she should clean herself properly by having an enema and then washing thoroughly.
    Go slow. Be patient. Have lots of foreplay. Play with her anus gently, kissing and licking. Then when she's ready try inserting a very well lubricated finger. Watch her reactions to see if you're not going to deep too soon. Let her relax and learn how to relax her sphincter.
    Take your time playing with one finger and when she's ready try two.
    Let her relax and only try to insert your penis when she's ready.
    It will hurt in the beginning. It always do. But with experience she will know how to accept this pain knowing that pleasure will follow soon. She may even start to enjoy the pain as part of the pleasures of anal sex.

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  • by bassie on August 15th, 2010

    bassie

    LUBE, LUBE LUBE!!
    And if you are grossed out easily I would suggest a klisma (bowel cleansing) for the girl.
    Hope this helped!
    Enjoy!

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  • by Sexytimelover on February 7th, 2011

    Sexytimelover

    In my opinion anal sex is fantastic! I cant believe i had a sex life that didnt involve the anus!

    I opened my girlfriend up to the idea by just applying a small amount pressure to the sphincter once your girlfriend is getting close to orgasm. this will drive her wild! dont actually penetrate, but you'll find by this point she is so relaxed it wont matter and will turn her on even more. BOOM she now likes you playing with her anus.

    After some time of repeating this, you should be ready to go to the next step, light penetration. Again, if your girlfriend is on top i would say this is better, have her lick your finger and then repeat the usual but this time when she is VERY close to orgasm gently insert your finger. when she orgasms your finger might even be swollowed up anyway! BONUS!

    OK! now for actual anal penetration. best preformed in the doggy position i find. If you can, give your girlfriend AT LEAST one orgasm (pref 2)! then go down on her and get your face all covered in her love juices! lick from the clit, up, into her pussy, and then all the way up to her anus. and then back down. repeat this a few times. spending a little more time with your tounge at her anus with every stroke. REMEMBER AT ALL TIMES, it's about teasing the idea of her anus being used! and pre-lubing her withough her realising it. once she has orgasmed a few times her anus will be easily accessable, with or without lube, pussy juice and spit will be enough! Now i have found that going in with a semi/3qtr hard-on is better, loosen her up and get yourself more and more turned on doing it, you'll soon have her begging! still need to go slow for her, maybe spit down onto your cock a few times.

    maybe i'm crude i dont know, but this has always worked for me, and i have always garaunteed an analy induced orgasm after several vaginal orgasms.

    More tips:
    Include the clit as much as possible.
    Take it easy on her
    Make it FLUENT! by this i mean dont put too much enphasis on it, you want it to be "casual" you dont want her tightening up on you!
    ORGASMS are a must! she must have a few orgasms first, this will cause her anus to almost prolapse!
    You only need tones of lube if you haven't prepare her properly... and you know what, if you havent given your girl AT LEAST one orgasm, you dont deserve the pleasure of her ass!
    Sex is in the mind, its about coaxing her mind, not her body. control the head, you control the body!

    hope this helps!

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  • by bttmstr on April 14th, 2010

    bttmstr

    Ahh, the good times spent in the ass... I have done this with many girls, just be in the mood, cocaine works best here (lol)... as far as sticking it anywhere goes. (JK!) I've been lucky and only got shitted on a couple times, dozens of times its all good. You don't want to go in if the gal is gassy at the moment as that means she may need to drop one soon and you'd only be pushing it back... Best do it after a complete, normal size dump has been recently already dropped, that will mean the pipes are clean at the moment w/o getting the ice cone with chocolate and white cream on top........LOL. Ahhh...Live and learn... The other usual alternative is you just do it without asking questions and once it’s in DON’T take it out, just bust a nut then wash and take a shower… COME ON, BE A MAN, IT’S ASS, YOU MAY SEE SOME BROWN, who cares… it feels great busting a nut in there. Cheers ;)

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