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by Sexyrabbit on August 24th, 2008

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I am in a long distance relationship..My s/o called last night to tell me they were at a bar and being hit on. Why would they want to tell me this? I am 100% faithful to my s/o and they know it.

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  • by Anonymous03 on August 24th, 2008

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    he was probably a bit buzzed, was enjoying the attention from the women hitting on him because he was lonely, and to further make you jealous because he might not be getting enough attention from you. either way, he was being incredibly insensitive and inconsiderate.. long distance relationships are difficult.. i would ask him yourself why he would tell you such things when you'd never do anything like that to hurt him. if he gives you a good enough reason and he's honest to you then try to understand his situation.. tell him how you felt when you heard him say those things. if he tries to BS things.. leave him because the hurting is only going to get worse.

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  • by STAR on August 24th, 2008

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    did he say anything else? was he still being the same person or did he have a different tone in his voice? long distance relationships are the hardest thing on the planet and what i learned from the one i had is that people change, and when you see them all the time it is ok for them to change because you see the changes and you change together, but when you are apart and they change, you dont even notice this and then you end up getting hurt because of their mistakes. i stopped trusting people after my last long distance relationship.. it was horrible how i started dating one person and then with distance and time a whole other person dumped me and broke my heart. be careful, if you have bad feelings you should look into them because there is a chance that you are right.
    best of luck (and sorry for being so negative but that is my advice on long distance relationships... i had a horrible experience)

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on August 24th, 2008

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    I think he wanted your "permission" to get laid.

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  • by science_geek on August 24th, 2008

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    To test your reaction and determine if you were worth not doing what they were obviously considering doing. Besides, how would you know what they did or didn't do if they didn't share the data with you?

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  • by Carrot and Stick on August 24th, 2008

    Carrot and Stick

    Either to make you jealous, or because your s/o was struggling aloud with remaining faithful to you. In any case, it was very insensitive of him. You should ask him why he thought it necessary to mention that to you, and let him know it made you question his motives.

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  • by rebellious angel on March 11th, 2011

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    I think he wanted to show you that you should be proud of him for not reciprocating

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