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by account closed. on November 28th, 2008
They are more mature... most are not AS afraid to commit....men are like wine, they get better with age :o) A man with salt and pepper hair looks distinguished. They are more likely to express more feelings and less macho attitude.
by wthing8 on November 28th, 2008
Money...Although in your case I suspect it might be superior intellect
by rebellious angel on July 3rd, 2011
not me. my man is only two years older than me
by ladyshakespeare on November 3rd, 2009
nope, i have never been interested in older men at all
by Piratebooty on November 3rd, 2009
Well, I always seem to get the guys younger than me, but if I were to go for someone older, it would be for the feeling of security and the hopes of them being more mature in all ways. I think any girl that is too young and going for an older man is looking for a daddy..same as an older man looking for a younger girl is looking for someone he can manipulate.
by lukewarm on November 3rd, 2009
I have to admit, this subject has been on my mind for a while, mostly because of friends my age dating girls my daughters age. Personally, I passionately believe that it is a parents responsibility to act in their kids (regardless of age- but how you act differs with age) best interest. No way some old perv is dating my daughter. Think this is an immature outlook? I am curious as to why you would- in this world of technology, freedoms and internet- can you not find someone with common interests and beliefs that is not old enough to have spawned you? Are you searching for something or what. And to the perv- Karma!
by Lady Alathia of Vulcan on November 28th, 2008
Not all women are, but I'm one of the ones that is... so I'll offer my expert opinion.
It has nothing to do with money. At least, not with me. I've been dirt poor my whole life, and money just doesn't mean much to someone who's never had it.
I was attracted to Jason at first - because he had interests. Not just hobbies, but things that he felt so powerfully about that it seemed they were part of his soul. And when he (for example) has his hands on a guitar, it's as if it were an extension of his body that he had lost, and with which he was rejoined. Most of the boys closer to my age did not feel passionately about anything, except maybe World of Warcraft. And, IMO, sole obsession over the product of someone else's talents is childish and stupid.
I liked him further when I learned he was fond of reading, and had as many non-fiction books in his library as I did. Being able to sit for hours and discuss things we have read about Bronze age weaponry, or the Knights Templar, or the mysteries surrounding the Nazca plain... it was very refreshing.
He took care of his mother for years, through her insanity and medical conditions. He works hard and takes pride in his work. He is always willing to sit down and learn - he doesn't have the attitude typical of other people I know: "I'm better than you, I know more than you, revel in my awesomeness"
I guess, in short, I was attracted to him because he was, indeed, a grownup.
by Claudio on November 28th, 2008
It's human nature to go after secutiry and experience.
by skyshroud on November 28th, 2008
"I love you...Daddy."
by scubaduba on November 28th, 2008
I would say because young women (18-late 20s) are tired of dealing with the boys in their own age group. They see older men as more mature, more grounded and level headed and as being true men and not boys.
by Theby on November 28th, 2008
I was never attracted to older men. I ended up marrying someone 20 years younger than me.
by guardman 22 on July 3rd, 2011
because they are mislead into thinking a older man is more mature and therefore a better guy.
sorry to burst the bubble if a guy hasnt matured or got his shit together by then he may be very much as bad as the 20yr old guys.
for example a guy who spends all his money on booze and moches off his friends and is 30yrs old. he is a loser especially if he acts like a high school kid.
i suggest that everyone adhere to this little quote.
a player is always gonna be one, a abuser will always be one and a man who lives like a boy and acts like one is going to be that way. the older a person is especially guys the more set in their life style they are
by Rinky Dinky Do on November 28th, 2008
What's a 'wemon'?
by N I C K on November 3rd, 2009
I recommend you read into Freudian theory, it will answer this and many other questions.
by pouncey on November 3rd, 2009
Well maybe because of maturity. Usually Immature men date younger women since women around there think that there childish. I see that a lot mainly with guys in there 20's dating teenage girls.
by SoulFire on November 3rd, 2009
They are more mature, men tend to mature slower then women. Women want to settle down and older man are usually ready to. Older men tend to show more confidence. Women look for men who can protect them and provide for them. Young men tend to be in the party stage and not concern if they blow their whole pay check on booze.
A woman's first male role model is their father so they tend to look for someone similar.
Ladies: What do you like about you boyfriend?
by unknown on January 28th, 2012
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Ladies, what will you do to rate a guy on a first date whether he is going to be a potential partner?
by Mr.Cr on January 26th, 2012
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In the movie The Ugly Truth, what advice does the guy give about how to attract women and what women want, not including the ending?
by superbowl2012 on January 26th, 2012
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This is for women.If five men were left on the entire world
who would you choose to be with?
by melo. on January 24th, 2012
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How many women like it when guys pass them/leave them notes? Esp. in high school and college.
by squiggles1 on January 15th, 2012
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