My ex boyfriend used to badly beat me, i thought i was away from him but he is making lies upto his new girl friend and she and him are both sending me abuse and threatening me. What should i do? I havent done anything to deserve this!!

I'm not a psychologist, psychiatrist, counselor or member of the clergy.

PLEASE excuse me. I don't mean to hurt you or offend you.

YOU weren't anyone's property. AND I HOPE you'll never be any one's personal property ever again. You didn't have a bf. You had an immature, self-doubting, self-centered, egotistical, controlling, slave driver and dominator.

He wanted to tell you EVERYTHING! Now he has a new gf to be his "accomplice".

What to do.

How to do it.

Where to do it.

Who to do it with.

When to do it.

Why you should have done it only with him.

In all honesty, if you don't have an open and frank discussion with him very soon - to totally end the relationship, you won't have anything resembling your own personal life. If that former relationship hasn't done it already, it might drain you of your self-confidence, self esteem and pride.

Before having that discussion,
Call, snail mail or e-mail a friend or relative to make sure you have a safe place to go to for an extended period of time.

Ask that person or someone else to look into local programs for those ladies who are mentally and/or physically abused.

Ask that person to inquire about a restraining order. I don't know if there is such a thing as a "blanket restraining order" against more than one person, but if you have to, get two restraining orders

I heard about it and saw enough of it.
I was never mentally or physically abused, but I know of quite a few people who went through it.

Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it!

VTY,
Ron Berue
Yes, that is my real last name!

Sources: Because you asked.

Some personal observations and opinions.

"THE University of Hard Knocks"
also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"

I would also contact the police. Try to save any voice, text, or email messages as evidence. I would explain your previous abuse to the officer if there are no reports. They have no right to do this to you. Please be safe and good luck to you.

call the cops,that is also what you should have done when he used to beat you.

call the police

This is when you pick up the phone and call the cops.
+5

Ive heard of something called 911. I think u should call it and try it out.

Report them to the cops

calling the cops does nothing you have to do it yourself change your email phone number and talk to him ever again he wont change sadly... my ex boyfriend almost killed me. please this is a msg to anyone is a violent relationship you think things will get better they only get worse.