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  • It means he has someone else already lined up to go out with. Sorry!
  • It could either mean he doens't wanna be with you and has someone else in mind. Or... It could mean that he is probably not doing well in his life and doesnt wanna bring you down with him. He wants you to make the most of your life and be able to do whatever you please without having to worry about him.
  • Depends completely upon his general tendency toward being honest... or not? In other words... You are either really really hot and he is... Not so much... or He is a player and that is a line.
  • Why 2nd guess it? Why not take it at face value? It took me a long time to learn to listen to what people tell me about themselves and to believe it. Find a man who is good enough for you, you'll be much happier.
  • It means he thinks you are not good enough for him. Sorry to say.
  • "I want out."
  • He may be insecure and unsure of himself. He wants to provide you with everything, because he loves you, so much. He might also think that you could so so much better than him, there are smarter, sexier, richer men out there.
  • It means he's dumping you
  • He's saying I'm trying to break it to you nicely that I want to move on. Another less likely answer is I have no self esteem and I need to crawl in some hole somewhere so I can hide from the world. Do you believe that one? Not very likely.
  • i think he might be insecure and is one of those guys who wants u to feel sorry for him and keep him almost like a guilt trip
  • He wants to dump you.It's the old,"It's not you,it's me."excuse.It's been around forever.
  • what it might mean is that he might feel that he isnt the right person for you.He might feel like your a stronger person then he is.Or he might just say that for an excuse cause he might not want to be in the relationship.
  • it means that he has a low opinion of himself. It also means that he has low self esteem and puts you uup on a pedestal.
  • Flat out means he's bored and done with you.
  • He doesn't want to keep putting in the admirable effort that you are. To put it delicately, it's just an ass holes way of telling you he's stopped caring.
  • It's a nice way of saying he doesn't want to be with you anymore
  • Said in earnest? Depression and low self esteem. a person suffering from depression feels worthless and unable to cope with dependency from others, feels as though they are useless and unworthy of you. As the saying goes, you have to love yourself before you can let others love you. But dont give upon a person with depression, it is the illness talking. Seek guidance on how to cope with the feelings and emotions both yourself and your partner are going through and try to understand that it is not you, its his lack of self worth that tries to push you away. ... having said this, some guys are schmucks and will use this line as a 'get out of jail free' card ---it should be pretty obvious... THAT guy, has the opposite problem, an over inflated ego. MB
  • one of two things 1. he has a low self esteem and thinks of you as a goddess and thinks you deserve better than him. 2. he is being nice in a let down.
  • It means that he's just not into you.
  • Probably the most common dumping line in history...used by both male and female cowards who don't have the courage to be honest.
  • i'm afraid it probably means that he doesn't want to be with you anymore for some reason but he's chosing not to tell you the real reason.....i'm not sure why people even use that "line" anymore~it's too shallow but that's just my opinion :)
  • he's not interested in you and this is the best way he can let you know.
  • He either thinks very highly of you or He wants you to move on
  • You're high maintenance. He can't afford you.
  • I've personally never known it to mean anything else besides a gentle way of saying "not interested". In affairs of the heart, people generally want what they want. How the other person might feel is generally of secondary importance!
  • It means he's dumping you.
  • He's a cop out! He is using himself to tell you he doesn't want to be with you. But he is trying to let you down gently.
  • He doesn't want to be with you and he's chicken to tell the truth.
  • It's not you it's,.....well,.....it's you. It's a cowardly way of saying it's not working out.
  • it means that he is insecure
  • it means he is insecure
  • My man has said that before, and I honestly think that he truly believes that I could do better... I think its an insecurity on his part, and I just reassure him that he is the one for me... maybe in some situations its his way of letting you off easy, but some men do still have a soul.
  • It means he doesn't want to hurt your feelings but he needs space away from the relationship. I've never had a guy do that before. If someone left me it was because I was a brat.
  • I'm tired of being good enough for you, doing so takes too much effort. Honestly I want to feel loved, but do not want to have to give love. It's too much trouble. Sorry babe!
  • One of two things: Either he's being honest and truly believes he does not measure up to what you deserve, or he simply wants to end it but is trying to find a way to make it as painless as humanly possible for you. You should appreciate it either way.
  • If that statement is followed by "...so I think it is better if we split up", then it's probable that he just wants out and he is trying to be "nice". On the other hand, if that statement is followed by...."and I feel so happy that you are with me", or "and I can't believe you are with me"....(or something of the sort), then it means he sees you as a wonderful person whom he doesn't really deserve...
  • He probably isn't good enough for you. He probably has a guilty conscience about something he has done or wants to do.
  • Either he's trying to be nice if it's said in an offhanded manner, or he may need some work upstairs. Beware the latter, he'll be a lot of work.
  • Yea, I think the guy just doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore.
  • -Maybe he doesn't want to be with you,and it's a polite way to say goodbye. -Maybe he feels that for some reason you are too fantastic to want to date him. -Maybe he is deeply in love with you and love is blind!!!:)
  • He's probably telling the truth for once in his miserable life.

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