For the guys: Do u guys tell every girl who gives u a blowjob that she's really good at it? Every guy I've given a blowjob to says how good I am at it, but I dont see how someone could be bad at at. So i'm wondering if guys just say that to every girl?

Not every BJ I had was that good. But I thanked every time.

We do say this to every girl as curtesy

I never say I received a "bad" blowjob! But a good blowjob is when she makes me cum, an excellent blowjob is when she swallows my cum! An added bonus is when SHE says "thank you for your cum" which has happened more often than once!
Of course, I thank her, too.

I feel its my responsibility to teach a girl how I like it and push her boundaries. I like to be in control anyway, but once I do sit back she already knows what I like.

As long as u dont use ur teeth ur good
how many guys have u given blowjobs to?

if i feel that she is not good at blowjob i might tell her something but in a kind way..and we could discuss it..but not with offensive way..and its not the end of the world if she can't give perfect blowjobs..any girl can learn..

I have actually been told I was sucking too hard or I was "overly enthusiastic" about it, so not every time do they say I was great. Enough guys *have* said it though, so I must have learned my lesson and I think I know just what they want me to do. There's a right way to rough with their cock and a right way to be gentle. Knowing comes with plenty of practice (but Be Safe!)

Not always. The reason a guy will say that to a girl is because if he tells her she is bad then she wont do it anymore. If she inst good then most guys will just say it was good but not say anything else afterwards.

Honestly, some women do not know how to do it. Some are good. Some are absolutely amazing! A "bad" blowjob is a great gesture on her part, but it isn't always the greatest thing in the world. So no, I for one do not tell every women that they are fantastic.

No! If it's good we will tell you it's good! Personally, if it's not good, I won't say it was bad but I won't tell you it was good either! I guess no comment = not good!

For me to give an honest answer, you will have to blow me, and I will let you know,

A bad BJ is one where teeth are involved.

I never criticise a girl's cock sucking technique if I want her to ever suck me again.

Believe me, some girls are not very good at it, but bad head is better than no head.

Oral is like dessert, they are all good. Of course some are better that others, but its just what we needed at the time. Some times to finish off a meal, other times to just go for a dessert, night lunch or a snack. One will not go to a friends house and when offered "brownies" say "Oh no, I just eat lemon meringue pie for dessert". You also never rush when having dessert, its always savoured, and often eatin with passion.
And then, some don't like dessert as much as others (as with oral). Not every Hostess will say whether there is dessert after the meal (they might want a surprise for you). And some will warn you that you might not eat to much dinner, as there is a dessert later.
Then there is a platter of different desserts, and you get to pick... WOW!
One can wish for lemon meringue pie, but when given a Brownie? mmmmm, its all good!!!
One can rush through a meal (as with a quicky) but you don't rush a dessert or an oral.
And remember it's most satisfying for the Hostess to see you've eatin it all, even if it takes a while.
Enjoy your dessert folks!

I don't remember there ever being a"Bad" blowjob (and I have had MANY) but there are memorable ones and not-so-memorable ones. I NEVER fail to thank you for it however!

The best ones are those that are slow and lovingly done...and I REALLY mean lovingly. I can tell when you do it with love, and really enjoy doing it. That's when I get the absolute most pleasure, because if you don't like doing it, it would be less pleasurable for me.

Take your time and do it by MAKING LOVE TO MY COCK. Don't forget my balls, they are part of the experience as well. And don't just bob up & down. Use your tongue, taste me and caress me with your tongue. I know that not all girls can deepthroat me, but please try to take as much of me down as you can (BTW guys, NEVER force it down her throat! NEVER!)

A good blowjob is not difficult to achieve. Just remember that it is the same when we eat you .... you want it slow and loving too.

honey, a bad blow job is better than no blow job so if he has any thoughts of getting the next blow job he is going to tell you you are great. What would happen if he told you that was a horribe BJ?

honey, a bad blow job is better than no blow job so if he has any thoughts of getting the next blow job he is going to tell you you are great. What would happen if he told you that was a horribe BJ?

Bad blowjob? that is a myth,they do not exist, some better than others, but never any bad ones

I never told a girl she was good at it if I didn't really think so - unless she asked, in which cases I've said it was great. Like others have said, you can't really say anything else. The worst BJ ever is still pretty f'ing amazing!

When I get my first b/j from a chick-if she isn't that good I teach her how to give a great b/j. If she doesn't deep throat, or is unsure, I let her take me in a little at a time, and reposition us both so she can do it better. Man- I love my hard-on getting licked-from balls, up shaft to head, and the longer the b/j takes, the hornier I get. Next, on to great fucking. But I always make sure that I reciprocate by eating out the glorious pussy!

There are no bad blow jobs. Every time you get head is a learning experience for both parties. And just the feelings and visual clues alone should be worth the price of admission.

Absolutely not! I will not flatter her just for the sake of flattery, but of course I will not be unkind either. The reality is, however, you probably know how good you are if every guy you've given them to is telling you that. There are indicators that don't lie.....as in how long it takes to get your mouth filled and how much you get.....not always, but in a cross sample, you 're probably experiencing plenty of semen and wobbly knees....or you're sucking superficial liars who are trying to get something else! My guess is it's the former, because I wouldn't go out of my way to give praise if it wasn't due....so you must be good. And yes, there are those who really aren't into it and don't do it well.

It's definitely a courtesy thing. Girls are more likely to continue giving you blowjobs if you tell them how awesome they are at it. So maybe its a self-fish thing. Who knows...

There are some girls that are not good at giving a bj. If a woman is not giving me a good bj, I won't tell her that. I'll give her some compliments on what she's doing right and immediately after that try giving her some gentle "tips" on what I like as she's performing. If that doesn't work, I'll just tell her that I really want some pussy (which isn't a lie... I always enjoy vaginal over oral sex anyway) and then start getting us into a position where I can penetrate her.

Personally I would never tell a girl (or guy) their blowjob was bad. Instead I would say something like, let me teach you a few new tricks on how to make it better. If it is a guy, I would give him a BJ and just do to him what I like.

Believe me, there are many levels of expertise and, yes, I'm sure 99% of guys say it's good no matter what.