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  • WOW, THATS A TOUGH ONE.I DEFINATELY WOULD NOT STAY WITH HIM JUST BECAUSE YOUR PREGNANT, THERE ARE ALOT OF STRONG SINGLE MOMS OUT THERE, AND YOU SHOULDNT BE WITH SOMEONE THAT CONTINUES TO HURT AND DISRESPECT YOU.
  • This may sound harsh. You knew the relationship wasn't good, and still you got pregnant. It sounds to me like he has done this a few times. What did you think he was going to do? Most that cheat once, cheat all the time. You choose to stay in this relationship, now your pregnant, those are the consequences, from your bad decisions. You know what your options are, you can leave, or you can stay.
  • You have had the cheating happen before and lived with it. I'd say, live with it again. Let's face it, you have a bf that cheats. You aren't married to him so you don't really have much of a commitment. Just, a relationship of convenience. So you're pregnant. That can happen if you have sex enough regardless of the best birth control methods. The only method which is 100 percent is abstinence. Live with it, or get out. Two choices. I guess you need to make one.
  • sheesh im pretty sure that he would keep cheating, hey if he did it once and twice then there's more to come NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS. And if you stay with him how would your child feel later on in life living in that unstable home, having a father that cheats on their mother is hurtful, think about that. Sometimes it can screw up the child psychologically. IF it is a girl she CAN grow up hating men or end up with a guy that cheats on her. IF it is a boy, he MAY grow up cheating on his girlfriend because he thinks that he can get away with it like his father did and or think that it is normal. So think about that and do the right thing for you and you're child to come.
  • Geezzzzzzzzzz.. keep the baby, forget about this bastard. Being single mom is not that bad compared to wasting your life with a serial cheater.
  • Yikes! My thought has always been that once someone cheats, that's it, I'm done with the relationship. I could never tolerate someone disrespecting me like that, and I don't think I could ever trust them again. The fact that he cheated on you again doesn't surprise me unfortunately. I'd like to tell you that having a baby will make him change, and that he'll never hurt you again, but I'd be lying. A baby adds a new dynamic to things, and if he's not mature enough to handle a monogomous (sp?) relationship, he's definitely not mature enough to be a loving and supportive father. I say, raise that baby to the best of your abilities without Mr. I-Can't-Keep-My-Penis-To-Myself. Good luck girl! Peace.

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