by Anonymous on August 15th, 2008

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My boyfriend says he fantasizes about having sex with women he sees or meets. Sometimes he even gets aroused. We live in a beach town where there are many almost-naked beautiful women. I look great myself. Will he act on this? Or is it

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by AnonymousGirl on August 16th, 2009
Well, your boyfriend sounds like an honest guy to me. He's not the first guy to fantasize about stuff like that and he certainly won't be the last. You need to decide if you want to put up with hearing about this or not if he goes on and on about it. Will he act on it? Maybe. Maybe not.
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by chelsea on August 13th, 2009
my boyfriend admitted to doing the same thing today. we are going to talk about it more tonight when i get home from work and i am going to ask him how far it's gone (ie has he actually jacked off thinking about these women). i asked him online what fantasizing means to him and he said "this would go better if we talked in person." i don't know what that means, but i intend to find out, especially because he hasn't been as interested in sex lately as he used to be.
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- relax men need sex, sex and love are seperate things. A man can have sex with other women and love u no less. is it right , not really but it is a mans way of thinking. who will be the best, the freakiest woman / the one he loves
  
  Your good he is being honest and being open with you. Thats very important. he probly will only fantisize, which is normal and healthy. Intertain this sometimes it will please him. try jagging him off while he is admiring another, this will pleasure him. remember he Loves you so he is not going anywhere, have trust and confidence in yourself and remain secure. this will insure he goes no where. and by u being so cool with him he will love u evenmore. Relax it's just a phase and as he grows older it will subside.. See u have to understand that us guys need variety oneway or the other. Sometimes to feel the walls of another woman is all it takes to realize that what u have is indeed the greatest. So relax he aont going no where. give him a 3some, shock him!!!
  
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by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 15th, 2008
In other words you are not enough for him..he needs "more" than you can give him. I personally would dump the dude ASAP. He has a bad case of adolescense and maybe that is who is he and who he will always be..terrible husband/father material..lousy role model. Why keep him? What good is he? :) Happy Friday! :)
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- You sound like a very insecure soul. It is very natural for anyone to admire beauty. this is nature & the reason u have a mate right now. You see handsome men all the time, do u run off with them? No, Why? because u love your partner. You probly still cool with your ex, does that mean u don't love your partner? No... SEX is what makes a healthy relationship even better. Let him look, find out what he likes, KNOW your man, then pleasure him. Give him what he like and make yourself the best ever. You sound insecure, hurt, taken advantage of, and weak! GAin strength in yourself and become free. Your EGO is crushed and needs help!
  
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  by NewGuy on October 30th, 2009
- I admire beauty/good looks. I don't fantasize about being with someone else. Now, I am 72. How old are you? Do you love your partner? I love mine and could not possibly imagine myself with another man. Admiring is one thing...fantasizing is something else. You say I seem insecure, hurt, taken advantage of and weak. Really? You don't know me at all so why would you impute all those negative qualities to an absolute stranger? Simply because you disagree with my answer? You don't take disagreement very well m'dear. Whoever you are, have a Happy Saturday! :)
  
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by rockdude on August 15th, 2008
Thisd is Rockdude again.
Your reply changes evrything. Even if you were the hottest girl in the world (I am not suggesting that you are not) he would be curious but his history of cheating and seemingly obsession with sex does not bode well for you. After all, he cheated with you, so a pattern is established. Please be careful to not let who you are and what you believe in be lost in the desire to keep him. He does not sound worth it so far. Good luck.
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by Anonymous on August 15th, 2008
Rockdude - Thank you for your answer. No, he doesn't obviously ogle. I guess I don't understand if he's happy with me and I look really nice, why want to screw someone else? He has cheated on me in the past, and before we were together, he cheated on his then girlfriend with me. He has lots of porn magazines and movies. Could he be a sex addict? If he is, does that mean he can't be faithful?
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- It doesn't bode well if he has a history - are there any other dudes that you have your eye on?
  Maybe it is time to set him free to have all those other girls if you want a faithful man.
  
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by rockdude on August 15th, 2008
All men think about haveing sex with women they see or meet. Not all the women but most. At least he admits to it which shows honesty. Is he pre-occupied with it or does he show you disrespect by ogling women in front of you?
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by laaayla on October 31st, 2009
Well, as long as it's open to discussion tell him his brother, cousin, dad, uncle turn you on too. And they make you all wet and tingly inside. Somehow I don't think he's going to like it. But I'd do it anyway. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander. Your boyfriend should keep his "fantasies" to himself. Your boyfriends a jerk. I'd replace him.
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by good2know on December 4th, 2009
its a guy thing ok no its not cause women do it to they just aren't as open about it.
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