girl that aint got nothing to do with your age* lol* , your a woman , we hit times in our life when we feel undesirable, go get a new outfit , your hair and nails done .... go out have a good time !!!! trust me it will work wonders , just be care free , i mean dont make it an every night thing , but you deserve to go out and enjoy yourself , the outfit and makeover part will just boost your confidence... !!!

I just turned 31 in July....and I have lots of life to live. Women get better with age........so we haven't even gotten to our prime yet. Don't worry....it will all work out!

I will be 32 in Sept. I have just ended a very long relationship and I have never been hit on more than I have lately, in my life. I AM thankful lol because sure, my self esteem was a bit lower being back out here in this dog eat dog world. My neighbor's son was visiting and I had him at my fence numerous times trying to talk to me earlier on today. I have known him ten years but was involved so we never talked like that but he is all puffed out today trying to mack. I am loving it but not encouraging it. I want time to myself. Not jump into seeing someone and hauling baggage with it. It feels great!! I am no super model or anything close but I am comfortable with myself. My friend and I were talking about this in my driveway until 3:30 in the morning night before last. She says men dig the vulnerable look and we laughed about it but it is not that. I do not look vulnerable. I hurt sure but I am feeling good about myself and doing more things that I enjoy so her theory does not work with me. I have a new outlook lately and it really does not include seeing anyone. I loved my guy. He has entered a detox/rehab place and while I would love to work things out.. I guess I have just reached a point in life that I never knew would come but I am very thankful for. I AM HAVING FUN!!!!!!!!! I am not sleeping around.. dating or doing anything with any guy. I am hanging with girlfriends.. getting pedicures.. heck, I just finished mowing and it poured rain on me at the end and I feel ALIVE and my age does not enter my head at all. I love being a woman period. I do not care about my age.. as of yet anyhow lol I feel strong.. healthy and incredibly sexy in my independence. I do not want to become so independent that I never marry but independent in that I can be single and happy while waiting til the right man catches my eye and I am emotionally ready instead of filling space with mr wrong. I think you and I are at a great age to learn how to live and find what WE want.. not what wants us. Them younger girls will be here one day as well. Wish them the best and pay attention to you and only you for right now. Go do things you never thought you would do.. not crazy.. just .. LIVE! Stop being scared. I cannot tell you how exhilarating it is. I know

I got divorced at 32 and remarried a guy five years younger than me.... and scored two college guys in the meantime. But that is another story. Seriously if my 81 year old grandma just scored a "younger" man, you really shouldn't worry so much about age.

don't buy into the media and what it says about women and age...you could be 80 and still pursued by men. but why the need for one in your life??