Your not alone my friend

First of all you are not alone. I am very sensitive and when people hurt me i react negatively as well. But am learning to deal with it. First of all look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful, loved, valuble, precious, smart, and that you are unique in all Gods creation, because no one can replace you. Even though it is hard, i stay confident and believe. Think about it for a while. No one has your looks, your style or your personality. If people keep hurting your feelings, it means that they are very jealous, because they know that they cannot look like you or be like you. Just like how you can tell yourself negative things allot of times, and believe it in your heart, you can also turn it around and tell yourself positive things allot of times and i guarentee it that you will see a difference. So whenever your feelings are hurt, tell yourself they are jealous. Because they have to be jealous if they could take time out of there busy schedule to talk about you. If they tell you that you are not important, you are!!!!1 because you gotta be sooooooo important that people just gotta talk about you.. If someone tells you for example that you are not pretty. Tell yourself, that you are pretty, and that you are valuble to society.......always remember when you go sleep there is always someone who thinks about you at night.....and dont live your life feeling sorry all the time, because you are telling them that they have power over you everytime that they talk about you........always remember. life is what you make it......and remember there's only one You so keep it on the right tract.

I don't consider myself too sensitive, but I tend to get hurt if people I care about are inconsiderate of my feelings. That happens sometimes. I just remind myself that most people are just out for themselves and more often than not they don't realize when they are being hurtful.

I was just asking myself the same thing, and by doing it, I found your question. I think many of us react negatively when we feel rejected, or hurt. The reason of being hurt can be imaginary or real. I just hurt someone I care for, because I felt he was not paying attention to me, by doing so, I hurt him. How I feel now? really, really bad with myself. Therefore I am questioning my own behavior and that perhaps my sensitivity and my reaction is one of fear. So perhaps is kind of a protection, but it lacks awareness, as so many thing that hurt us, are many times imagined.