I am in a long distance relationship, and i really love my girlfriend but i think she is cheating on me with guy whom she claims is just a friend as a matter of fact she says she thinks of him as a brother... she also thinks he's a whore. wat do i do?HELP

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• Good answer :-) friends are friends. Sadly some people use that as an excuse for cheating which only hurts the idea that difference genders can be just friends. *Blushes* Though I do get some feelings of jealousy when my girlfriend talks about going to dancing competitions hahaha. Dont know why you were DR'ed for answering that way.

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  by Oddjob on May 21st, 2008

• Thanks LifeForce, I was a bit puzzled when I got downrated, though I guess everyone is entitled to their opinion. Im glad you agree with me. =) Different genders CAN be friends without it being weird, which is why trust is such a big thing in relationships. Haha. And I wouldnt worry about your girlfriend and the dancing competitions, since shes caught a pretty good person to be with. =P Ciao.

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  by Roselynn...unregistered text offender... on May 21st, 2008

• I have to agree when they ask a question that will get opinions why people would - an opinion is beyond me. Thats why I like the idea of people having to leave comments for why they DR. Oh I have an idea for a new feature in AB. ;-)
  
  Haha me worrying has become a joke that we laugh at. She knows when I truly am worried and when its more a cute worry (if that makes sense) because I just tell her. Once I asked her if her dance partner was cute and her reply was "even if he was that would not matter". She just loves dancing so I'm supportive with it.

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  by Oddjob on May 21st, 2008

• Its good that you are supportive of her and you both understand what is real worry and what isnt. =)
  I COMPLETELY agree that people should leave comments of why they DR, though that would certainly spur on alot more arguments here on AB. Hm. Could be an interesting thing or a bad thing, Who knows? =P

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  by Roselynn...unregistered text offender... on May 21st, 2008

• Well I know it wont happen if you are forced to leave a comment for any - rating but I just had the idea and submitted it. If the rating was -3 or greater they were forced to leave a comment but they can -1 or -2 with out having to so they can stay anonymous if they choose or give higher neg ratings but be forced to explain why.

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  by Oddjob on May 21st, 2008

• I trust you, though I might have to get between you two if I get uncomfortable. :)

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  by Dmitri on May 21st, 2008

• Between you two. lol which two are you referring, my girlfriend and I or Roselynn and I?

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  by Oddjob on May 22nd, 2008

• Neither, for I was referring to Roselynn and that friend of hers. :)

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  by Dmitri on May 22nd, 2008

• LOL. Your trust is much appreciated, maestrothief. =) Youve impressed me greatly.

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  by Roselynn...unregistered text offender... on May 22nd, 2008

• I trust you, but I have been known to lust after you too. :)

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  by Dmitri on May 22nd, 2008

• Whoa, lol ok TMI for me.

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  by Oddjob on May 22nd, 2008

• It is a joke, so be not dismayed, buddy oh pal. :)

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  by Dmitri on May 22nd, 2008

• lol ;-) I know its just funny or maybe thats because its 2am and I am tired? lol who knows. Guess I should go to sleep now. Have a goodnight.

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  by Oddjob on May 22nd, 2008

• Yeah, the time can change your opinion for sure. Night. (starts thinking of roselynn even before dreams)

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  by Dmitri on May 22nd, 2008

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• This is how my girlfriend cheated on me. She started talking with a guy 15 years younger than her and she said he was like a little brother/reminded her of her little brother. They kissed. She says it was just a one time thing, but she still talks with them at work and has lunch; her cell phone is locked and I believe in my heart she is cheating.

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  by MOON_LIGHT_88 on May 21st, 2008

• This is why I get frustrated. I have a guy friend that i could never even IMAGINE getting involved with EVER and yet tons of guys refuse to accept that.
  Im not about to dump my best friend so that you feel better...

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  by Roselynn...unregistered text offender... on May 21st, 2008

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