i am sixteen and have only had one boyfriend, and i regret that, even though it didn't last very long. i wondered the same thing but i soon came to realize that someone will come along that will like you for who you are. it sounds stupid now but when you find the person you will understood why you had to wait for them.

You're only 14,that's why!:)

14 is way too young to be stressed out about why guys don't appear interested. Chances are, they are interested, they just don't know how to express it, because they are ALSO 14. Listen: just be yourself, love yourself, and the rest will come in it's own time.

your only 14 you have got plenty of time .Enjoy your life

well you said you're funny, smart, and nice, are you attractive? do you think you're attractive? what would you rate yourself from 1-10? what kind of guys are you going for, because if you're even minimally attractive, your personality should get you far, but I wouldn't worry about it, you're only 14, I'm almost 17, Great Personality, and very attractive(said confidently not arrogantly) and I've only had 3 girlfriends.

i withdraw this answer.. there is nothing wrong with you ok.. you're just normal..

Dont seem so desperate, stop wondering. Take a look at yourself and see what it is that you find physically attractive on yourself. Practice this exercise. The more you start realizing how beautiful, sexy, charming you are sooner or later people in general are going to notice that carisma and confidence you manifested from yourself. Another thing, dont even bother about having a boyfriend now, have fun go out, experiment safely. Well, whatever ... love yourself and treat yourself first. Guys see when women take care of themselves and the confidence coming from that will show like a light in the dark. Trust me.

Don't get all stressed out. Why do you need a boyfriend anyway: just for the sake of having one or because you really do have someone in mind. If it's the first, then that's really stupid, you have soooo much time in front of you and so many relationships you're going to wish you've never been through. And if it's the second - then I recommend you don't rely on the guy only and do something yourself. There's a lot I can advise you on that matter, but I do need to know if that's the case.

You're too old. Who the hell would wanna go out with a 14-year old who's nice, funny, smart and humble to boot?

Thats wat i thought im almost 15 but at the begining of being 14 i wondered why all my friends had, had boyfriend before and i didnt i came to realize im very picky about guys and im not looking for hot ones im looking for the ones that care so u may be like that too dont stress it hun if u like one of ur brothers friends talk to his friedn then if he likes u to talk to ur brother u never no he might be ok with it cus its his friend it would be easier for him to keep a eye on him and he wouldnt be hard on him sense he knows him i realized that wit my brother he was actually happy i picked his friend cause he new his friend was a good guy sooo dont rush into anything just take ur time look for someone who actually cares its hard for me cus guys always like the way i look so i cant find good guys alot

How many boys have you asked out? How many boys have said no? If none & none, perhaps you're too pretty and intimidate the boys; if that's the case, go ahead and ask them out; perhaps they'll be taken but perhaps they'll be avilable and they'll be thrilled to go out with you. Good luck sweetie!

Your only 14, I dont see why you feel the need to rush into relationships.

your 14... why would you want a boyfriend so bad? i understand at 16 but before that : /

"nice, funny, smart" ... nowhere did you say you were a hot sociable misbehaving flirt.

dont worry about it are you friends, or friendly with boys? do you make an effort, as in do you make sure that your hair look nice? do you wear make up? :)

Are you a girl?

First of all, change your attitude about asking "what's wrong with me?" There's probably nothing at all seriously "wrong" with you, but if you think in those terms you will *always* be able to come up with an answer. And that's a depressing thought, that will make you depressed and depressing. So change your attitude: What's right with you? You can answer that Q with a long list, too, and you can continue to make it longer just by finding things that are already "sort of okay" about yourself and making them better. It's just as easy to think this way as the other, and the results are diametrically different. You'll continue to be a better and more attractive person. Second, don't wait for boys. In other words, don't set yourself up as prey for "the right boy" to come along and find you. Chances are he's dealing with his own issues and may not even be looking right now. So take the initiative -- and be a hunter. You go find the right boy, instead. What you do when you find him is up to you (and him), but I recommend that you go easy on him, and don't pressure him into "a relationship", just the same way that you would want him not to pressure you into "giving up the goods" for him. Be kind and friendly to each other, and when the time comes for a breakup, as it probably will (your first love is very rarely your last), take it and dish it with grace and class and even if you can't "just be friends" afterward, because that's also very difficult to do, you can still be "friendly", kind and respectful of the person and the relationship you had and want to have. Start living life along lines like this, and I can practically guarantee that you'll be fighting them off with a stick before you know it. The final thing to keep in mind -- and this is pretty important, too, even though you may disagree with me -- is that fourteen is pretty young to have a serious boyfriend. It really is. You may think you're pretty mature, and compared to many of your peers I'll bet that you are. But you ain't seen nothin' yet. You really do have a lot of growing up to do, and that's a good thing. Don't rush it too much.

There is nothing wrong with you and everything right...you are nice, funny, smart and careful....there is no hurry....you can't get the childhood back...people look at adults funny when they run and jump in piles of raked leaves or sit around laughing till their sides split and milk comes out their nose.....t.v. and school promotes the fact girls have to have boyfriends to be popular...I say they are stupid...make time to find out who you are, enjoy sports, or crafts, or just hang with the girls....boys are all idiots and they grow up to be bigger idiots...sex is fun, but damaging to the mind and heart if done to young and inappropriately....there will be things you regret for a lifetime...keep your life simple as long as possible....being a grown up is really really hard...take your time getting here.

maybe cause you seem like you only want a boyfriend to be able to say you've had one. you wouldn't really be interested in them so why should they be interested in you?

At your age, girls have cooties.

Listen, ladies......this is not a race or a competition! You are very young and the guys around you of your age are much younger emotionally and cognitively. Take the time to 'shop around' in that you can see what you like, and what you do not like about a guy. Be very fussy and particular. Expect to be treated with respect.... Guys your age, generally speaking, don't really know how to ask...so if there is someone you are attracted to, make sure you make eye contact, smile and flirt just a tiny bit.....it'll happen one of these days.

Well 14 is young to be having a relationship especially if it involves touching, what I have seen is people are forced into a relation at a young age have kids and either stick it out with someone who is not fully developed or end upp losing the kid(s) to Government and being stuck on assistance the rest of their live due to not being educated. As a result of that these people live in projects and are subject to being shot, raped, drug addiction, prostitution and random arrest. . . Wait a while I know these are things that happened to my peers who were sexaully active in youth. . Safe Huggs.

P.S. Take a look at the type of girls that the boys are 'sniffing around'. Are they nice...it the same way as you are nice? Boys of 13 to 16 are usually pretty horny...and will often gravitate to girls who are NOT necessarily NICE, SMART, FUNNY. If you get my meaning. There are exceptions of course....just stay nice, smart and funny....eventually, you will attract boys who are LOOKING for just those traits!

There's nothing wrong with you. You're nice, you're funny, you're smart. And if you really are those things, they know that you're too nice to date and toss, which is what happens at that age. It's the nice, funny, smart girls who make keepers later. And the slutty, unimaginative, stupid ones who get used now and dumped later. Which do YOU want to be? And why do you want to go out with guys anyway? Wait until you're older and then take it seriously instead of just wanting to throw yourself around and end up throwing yourself out. Finally, the question shouldn't be "what's wrong with me" but "what's wrong with them".

maybe because you spend too much time on the computer whining about it and you dont get out there and meet people - join a club, go to the park, go to the library, volunteer... help others who cant help themselves! if you are smart, read to kids who dont have parents - if you are funny, make an old person laugh at the nursing home! there isnt anything wrong with you - you just want it all to fall in your lap instantly. find yourself. stop worrying. you are too young to go out with guys anyway. good luck!

what is wrong with you? I'll tell you what's wrong with you... you are 14 and think you have to have a BF. seriously. so many people damage their future relationships by thinking they have to be in one at all times. my wife sayes she knew for years before her BF dumped her that they would not get married, she just did not want to be single. had he not dumped her I would not have dated her... even still, 6 years later, choices she made for the sake of staying in that relationship have continued to harm us and just recently she came out with issues she has been hiding all this time that have nearly driven us to devorce. you are only 14, focus on your future, keep dating casual.

Your still young dont be in hurry at the right time you will find the right man.

Im 27 and only had a few GF, I have also only slept with one girl and that was a mistake and I wish I hadnt, and no there is nothing wrong with me, its just that I have learnt that marriage or relationship shouldnt be our goal in life, it shouldnt dominate us and it shouldnt control us.

Why do you want to date? What's the purpose? For me, dating was something you do to get to know someone better, to see if they are compatible with you for marriage. I never considered it a recreation thing. I got together with friends of all ages and we had a great time, but I didn't date until after I had found a young man I loved and we had decided that we were serious about each other. What's the rush. Why not work at becoming a good person, one with good skills and intelligence, a good worker and someone will come along that you might like in the future who is drawn to you by those good qualities.

I agree with everyone, dating is a mess you don't want to get into. My girl slept with someone else. It's just extra drama. But if you do want to, be a little flirtatious. I mean coming from a guy, there are so many things that can keep us from asking a girl out unless were sure that they will say yess

I'm also fourteen years old and my friends got the same problem. maybe it's just because you're pretending to be someone else. If you like a guy, make sure he likes you too, see if you have something in common. Maybe you're just shy in front of guys. you just have to show that interested in them. when you're in front of a guy what do you feel? and what are thinking?your thoughts could affect your actions and feelings. just try to stay calm when in front of a guy.

Who cares? My boyfriend didn't have a girlfriend until he was 17. His first girlfriend actually happens to be me. Stop wanting a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend and let nature take its course. It's much better that way anyway. Anyway, I doubt I would go out with you if I were a guy because I am not into people who want to have an s/o just to say they have one. If you want to be liked for who you are, you need to like other people for who they are.

I don't remember having many bfs at the age of 14. My little sister is actually 13 now and her father doesnt allow to have a "bf". Of course, she still tries to. I have listened to her and her friends talk about boys and how they are dating one this day and another the next. Honestly you are too young to even be worrying about it. At my age now (which is 18) I like to date but i won't get in a serious relationship. I personally don't believe in high school love. You have so much to look forward to in the years to come.