For those husbands that are emotionally involved with another man's wife, how do you justify doing so?
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I hooked up with a divorcee, mid-paper work once, and felt really bad about it. It was a guaranteed deal but I still felt awkward. I really don't get how people can rationalize it.
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You don't. While it may not seem like it now, there are millions of other perfectly wonderful, eligible women in the world. Searching for justification in this situation, will most-likely only prolong painful feelings.
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I don't think they can. I've always wondered how people of any gender can justify getting involved with a person who has vowed to be faithful to another person. Even if they don't care anything about his/her family ties, you'd think they would consider his/her character in being willing to betray another person that he/she supposedly loves. Who wants a person like that in their life?
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while i am far from the "women ought to be treated like cattle" in divorces and are the property of men, i do believe that men and women take their vows of marriage with God. any abridgement of these vows requires, again in my opinion, more than just a quick declaration by an overworked lawyer paid by the state. any partition ought to include God, somehow. men should never hook up with another man's wife, even if separated. women, in 70% of cases, are the ones who stray, not the "cheating man". our society still thinks of husbands who stray as victimizers and girls as victims and likewise it thinks of wives who stray as "needing comfort" and men who provide that comfort as cheaters.
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There is no justification, but I feel that something is missing in that mans' marriage..I have seen first hand many men marrying women not for love, but convenience then they can't take it with them and fall for someone else, there friends wife and so forth..Men and women must ask themselves do I love this person with all my heart before I enter a marriage..We all got to be honest with ourselves first..
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from a womans point of view you dont, you take vows for a reason just because its not sex doesnt mean its not hurtful. An emotional affair can be more damaging in some cases as far as I am concerned. IF you can talk to another woman you should be able to atleast tell your spouse that something is not right.
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