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  • When was the first day of your last period? You are USUALLY fertile approx. 12-14 days after your period starts. However, a girl could get pregnant at any time during her cycle. Spotting can look like anything, even a normal period. Sometimes it looks like brown peas. Why are you not protecting yourself? With all the cheap or free birth control out there, why not take advantage of it. Babies are selfish, expensive little poop machines who NEED two NORMAL parents to grow up properly. Why would you want to do that to yourself before you are ready???? If you are not pregnant, you better than your lucky stars. If you are, you are in for a serious life changing event, whether you keep the child or not. Good Luck.
  • Baby is on the way. Hope you have a crib picked out.
  • Get a pregnancy test at Walmart or Kmart and take it. Then make an appointment at your local Family Planning Center to have an exam and a doctor-performed pregnancy test, maybe a blood test. Family Planning is very low cost or free, depending on your income. Make your boyfriend wear condoms because if he disappears and won't take responsibility for the baby, it will be YOU taking care of that child and shouldering 99% of the responsibility. That child comes from your body, therefore it is your responsibility to make sure birth control happens. Don't let him have all the fun then run when a baby is made...it's not fair to you and not fair to the child Let us know what happens with the pregnancy test. Good Luck!

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