Have you ever been scare of your future? I just ended a relationship that was really bad and I am mostly ok. But sometimes I try to Plan ahead in my life and I can not figure out where I'll be, or want to be, lets say in 5 years.
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People always say, when you've been through a trauma, not to make any big decisions. I think they're right. Maybe you need to give yourself a bit of time to get over the relationship before you start looking ahead too far. When you've healed a bit, the future will start to look brighter. Just give it some time.
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In the context of personal Management,since you have planned 5 years forward, you only just have to work the plan. There will be some variances against your plan, at least you would know much earlier to rectify.In your plan it would be good that you also have contingencies so that you would be able to anticipate line of action should anything goes wrong.Any deviation from your plan must be noted for possibility of failures or success depending on your set goals and the risks that you are willing to take. If the risks are part of your plan as possibilities,then it would be better than the unexpected risks,since the risks had been identified and calculated.Therefore possible losses would usually be marginal.In summation ,why should you be afraid of the future if you had put some effort to plan it? Go for it with confidence.
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When a relationship ends its a big fall emotionally . You had bonded with someone for a while and it will take time to get your emotional strength back. You need to heal. Trusting God for the future will help just saying I put my life in your hands. He orchestrates things into our lives. Look at this as a new beginning and its ok . For maybe that was not for you and something different will come when God thinks its time. Find out who you are and what you like to do. Love up on yourself and let this be a time of growth for you. Let this be a time of a different outlook that if it was to stay it would have. God knows your future and has your best interest at mind. Trust and just ask him day by day for what you need.
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I don't think anybody can accurately plan where they'll be in five years. Besides, the plans you make and where you end up are two very different things. But things will turn out ok in the end if you do your best.
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Wherever you go, you're you. And you know you, so you'll be okay. The greatest thing I ever did was let go.
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When I came down with cancer from exposure to Agent Orange when I was in Vietnam, and then my ex-wife filed for divorce, I went into a psychological tailspin. I wasn't so much "scared" of my future as I was indifferent to it.
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Take one day at a time- find beauty in everything you see and do. People will no doubt at some point of time dissapoint you-we all have that one time or another, but its human to err, divine to forgive and a miracle to heal and become wiser. As time goes on you will know what to do when the right time comes.
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