ANSWERS: 62
  • Be confident. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. If she says no then maybe she is not right for you.
  • you dont have to push for a date! ask her if she wants to maybe go to the pictures or something fun like bowling then you can get to know her first properly one on one then if it is meant to go further it will good luck
  • That will work but I have a fear that if you do ask someone out in school then they might say no. When they say no then they might laugh, then tell their friends, then they laugh, then the whole school laughs at you. The what do you do?
  • firstly i would arrange a group day out, get your mates and her mates togather, then it wont feel so awkward.
  • don't forget to do your hw before asking her out, to make sure you might be compatible, or become friends first, then figure out all her favorite things to impress her when you ask her out.
  • Just go for it! If she says no, just opt for being friends, it really isn't that bad because you could still hang out with her! Trust me girls might want the friendship first and then POSSIBLY move on to a real relationship. I would know I'm 13. :)
  • With mines, she got a friend to ask me out on msn. :) One, I took aside at school and asked her out nervously and she said yeah. =D Other 2 asked meh out. LOL =]
  • Keep IT in your Pants!!!
  • I would advise you to wait unil you are 16 to start dating, you are a bit too young.
  • When you're a couple of years older I'll discuss it with you.
  • Im 13 will be 14 this month. Make sure you want to ask her out.For your own reasons, not peer presure. Be confident and dont change your mind 20 minutes after you ask her out. It really confuses us girls and leaves us crushed.
  • Wanna wee a movie Saturday after noon. There's this really cool movie and I wonder if you want to go see it............
  • Have no fear but be careful!
  • wait until your older and more mature.and when your ready.
  • dont!!!! You are too young for the torture young woman do to young men!!! (yes I am female so I can say that) But if you fell you must ask her out... be confident, females love that!
  • Say "What up sucka b****?! Go out with me!" =P
  • Be confident and don't piss your pants.
  • First learn to masturbate, then soon you will graduate. Good luck Grasshopper.
  • make sure you floss and brush daily
  • He might want to treat her like a friend and TALK to her and ask her to the movies; and if she asks if its a date the boy should say only if you want it to be
  • easy.... im a girl and the best way to ask out a girl is to simply talk to her for about a week and then graduate into saying "hey would you like to hangout on friday?" and if she says is this a date be like..."well i really like you and hopefully you will consider this a date"
  • I would say that you aren't old enough since you are hardly in a position to look for a partner. Wait until you are older and for now just enjoy people of all ages in good friendship.
  • ok, so your 13? dont have your friends do it. Thats totaly lame. Be your self, and dont act to nervous. Its always good to go out for a movie and pizza. Gon in a group, so if it goes bad, it wont matter cuz other people will be around.
  • haha. When i play, im afraid to hit the ball, i might hit my self in stead. :) mink farming? that sounds intresting. mmmm... halo. Thats a hard game, i always die when i play. Be proud. see your talented, at many things.
  • Don't. Teenagers dating breeds trouble all around.
  • Just try to look confident and look her directly in the eyes, while sparking a conversation with her. Then go for the question. Some girls like the nervous look though, they always tell me they like that I was nervous when asking them out. Like, you know...I'd kind of trip over my words, stuff like that. So it's not the end of the world if you think you did bad, it might work to your advantage. Just remember, you're still really young so don't get down on yourself if she says no. Just get back up and try again. A great girl will say yes. Ugh, I should take my own advice.
  • haha, smart one. Yeah, honors, i really dont have to work hard, its comes easy which is why i really dont think its a talent just a gift. Ping pong, huh who would have guessed. The bug thing where i live is snowboarding. lol.
  • well, im a 13 year old girl. write her a note. i'm sure she'll be flattered, and give you a good response. if she turns you down, make it seem like it's not a big deal. don't harrass her until she says yes. if she says no, just walk away like its no big deal. good luck! :]
  • Don't. The dating world is no place for teenagers.
  • just dont be nervous. be yourself. even though its inevitable that a 13 year old boy is going to be nervous... just tell him to chill.. trust me. the girl is about ten times more nervous than he is.
  • be yourself and don't hesitate try and talk with her first
  • just get to know her and then ask, and if your nervous write a note and give it to her. thats wat my boyfriend did.
  • whatever you do don't try to act cool. be yourself. and don't ask her out in front of a big group of people,thats totally embarressing for her and if she says no it's embarresing for you.ask her in private and be normal about the whole thing and relax.
  • KEEP UR BEST FRIEND IN UR PANTS DUDE!!!:] haha im kidding.. im thirteen and the best thing to do is to ask her to go to the mall or sumthing but bring like one of ur friends and one of hers.kinda like a double date.and then when the dates over pull her to the side.take her hand and ask her to be ur girlfriend....and then dont go changing ur mind like an hour later.puhh leaaseee!!!!! GOODLUCKK!:]
  • it depends on how well you know her. If you know her pretty well then give her a gift or something that she likes and ask her out when you give it to her. first if you dont know her that well, get to know her and watch for signs coming from her that signal that she likes you back. then make your move. of course im only a girl so i might be wrong because all girls are different when it comes to this type of thing.
  • Im on the other side of the scales,I have a twelve year old daughter,I can only say that his best bet is to meet Mummy before he makes a move on the Daughter,the old fasioned way is not always the worst way,above all he should take it easy and slowly,girls like that,they dont like a pusher,when he plays his cards right then maybe he will get invited to dinner,that means that he has been accepted as boyfriend
  • My advice is that you ask your mom... We live for that shit!
  • Right, this is what has normally happened with me. DONT go up with her when she is with her mates, it will imbarress her, and DONT go over when she is alone but you're with your mates, indimitation is NOT good. Ask a close mate to aske her close mate if she fancies you, if yeah then go for it, if no move on or get to know her better, if yeah then get youres and her mates to mingle, then take her to the side and say " i was just wonderin if you would go out with me?" if she says yeah then smile and say cool or summat, if no then shout to the close mate from before "yeah mate i did ya dare, you owe me 3 quid! therefor you dont get humiliated!!!:D
  • Just keep trying lad! No matter how many times you get shot down, Realize there is twelve more who think your cute. Thats the beauty of being young. Your in school. Its a Prime hunting ground so to speak. The more you try, the more comfortable you get. The opposite sex is nothing to fear. The sooner you learn that lesson, the faster your quality of life will improve.
  • just do it, you got nothing to lose, and you may as well get used to being rejected, after a while, it wont hurt and then you can ask any girl out, you may just get lucky some day :)
  • Don't plan anything, especially any catch phrases. Just go with your instincts. I winged it every time, 100% effective ;P
  • Confidence, confidence, confidence.
  • Well theres a couple ways. First if you know someone who's good friends with both you and her ask that person if the person you likes, likes you back. Tell them to be chill about it and make sure that person isn't someone who likes to gossip. If they say that the person you like, likes you too then just be like "Hey. So I heard you liked me and uh I like you too," and just nod and smile. OR You could ask a bunch of people (couples or just some friends because the couples thing could be weird and pressuring) to hang out with you. Then you ask the girl if she'd be your date or whatever. OR Write her little letters and put them in her locker(or whatever.. you might not have lockers. Hmm..) and be her secret admirer or whatever then after awhile at the end of the notes start putting like a first initial and or a last initial or whatever. OR You could just straight up ask her. That works a lot. haha well I hope I helped. NOW GET OFF THE COMPUTER AND GO ASK HER!
  • approach her with confidence and tell her youd like to hang out. think of something creative that she will have fun with and remember
  • to tell you the truth...i have bean looking at questions all day and i am also 13 wanting to ask a girl out......i think the best thing to do is this(or at least what im doin wen i see her) say this "hi (insertname) me and my parents are going to the movies on (whatever date) you wanna tagg along? you can bring a friend if you like....." thats what im going to do.....but after 1 or to movies with her (and her friend if she brought on) you can take her out by herself and go 2 a movie then go to pizza hut or something thats going to be my stratagy over the next few weeks.... if u have any questions email me at gamerdude.squire@gmail.com ill be happy to help. :)
  • Just be your self>>
  • DO NOT ask yhoor mate to ask her out because it becomes very awkward for the girl && be sweet about it but also flatter her body - i dont mean be rude/crude just say something like "i think yhoor gorgeous" at the end of it because girls ARE vain no matter how much they try to pretend their not - really - flattery goes a long way ;) x
  • talk to her yourself, on your own. dont be too cocky and just tell her how you think shes beautiful and kind. trust me, im 13, a boy asked me out like that and we went out for 4 months. good luck
  • None. 13 is too young to be asking girls out.
  • Like they say in the Nike ad - Just do it! It's one of those things you musn't overthink.
  • just remember to be yourself. ask her where you guys are alone, and if she says she'll get back to you, she's not interested. dont take it personal. just like you dont like EVERY girl that likes you, some that you like arent gonna like you back either good luck
  • Best advice? Don't take it, or yourself, too seriously. Be casual but be sincere. And know that, even if she turns you down, she'll secretly be flattered that you asked.
  • weeelllll..... first find out if she is interested. last thing you wanna be is embarrased in front of your or her freinds ;) if she is get .......... a condom? naaaaa too early xD if she is then see if she would go on a date like a movie, or into the local town center... then do tht again then ask you should have enuff confidence by then xD hope this helped :]
  • awww! sweet question.... okay well 1st of all u MUST do it in person....theres no better way to do it! 2nd, make sure its just u and her alone when u ask her out, bc u dont want her to feel pressured or anything while shes in front of friends 3rd, when u start to ask her, first tell her how u feel towards her and why. 4th, confidently, but not cocky, ask her if she likes u, and if she would like to b ur girlfriend TIP: u want to b sure of urself...so talk with confidence & get excited about what ur doing!! (but dont get too hyper or anything...i kno how yall lil 13 yr old bois can get...lol) just be urself and hope for the best... and..... if she rejects u, its not the end of the world. just politely say something like "ohh. well thts okay...=)" DO NOT, i repeat DO NOT b a jerk to her if she doesnt wanna go out with u...u never kno - she might change her mind... haha yeaa i kno this question was asked like 3 years ago - but who cares...i had a good answer! lol =)
  • Don't go all, "Hey baby, you lookin' good tonight!" unless the girl is some freak who likes stuff like that (which most girls aren't) Act innocent, scuffle your feet, look away, look back, and then ask. Be sure you know her and actually like her, don't break up on the second date - That's what makes girls who are feeling special go all ZOMG I WANT TO DIE. - Whatever you do, don't breakdance for the girl -
  • Begin by becoming her friend. Listen to what she has to say. Don't belittle her. Be empathetic and understanding.
  • Pull her pony-tails. 13 year old do that right?
  • ask nicely
  • just don't be scared and shy when you are a asking a girl to be your girlfriend
  • Be yourself,don't rush things or do anything reckless have patience trust me your patience will pay off.Be nice to her treat her with respect Umm like shes the only girl in your life ") eheheh Ummm yeah
  • Would you like to go to the library together?
  • i am a girl so this is how i would love it. if the guy asked me to go on some outing including the park or the school football game or another schools football game. when we get there him making me laugh and then right when i am about to go home him telling me he really likes me and him asking if i'll go out with him.

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