obviously if he goes all over some other girl he wasnt worth your time anyway, you cant hold on to him forever let him have his independence, his space and freedome, if he dosent cheat on you while your away hes worth keeping.

send him hand written letters in the mail. keep the friendship warm, at least.

Long distance thing probably isn't going to work, especially during the college years. It's over, you should move on.

perhaps it might be a healthy choice to explore your college surroundings.. i understand that you are short visioned right now because of your emotional connection to him. but like many other teenagers in your situation who believe they cannot find better.. there is one thing that you should understand. and that no one is better than anyone else BUT there are people who are more suited for your needs. perhaps you should explore this new world with open arms and not a closed heart. after seperation you will feel a loss... perhaps for a few weeks but eventually you will find that it gets easier and easier.. who knows.. u might find someone who you want.. and you might want them to touch you.

Are you willing to have him and keep him? I know a woman who once waited for a guy for ten years. Are you sure that he is The One for you? There are other guys out there.

Well, it all depends on how deep a connection you have with him. If you love each other then you should at least make an attempt to see how things go when you are at college. You meet all kinds of people when you are there, and its guaranteed that you will meet guys there and he will meet girls there. Your level of commitment to each other, your trust, and your love for each other is what will determine if you can last through that kind of experience. You are young and theres a whole life ahead of you. If you can't trust him now then it will just get harder in the future when you are in school. But don't base breaking up with him on a fear that he wont be faithful. Maybe you subconsciously fear your own unfaithfulness? You could have a serious conversation with him on how he feels about the situation and at least him have the chance to defend himself. If he cares about you then he probably wouldn't want you to break up with him because you don't want other women around him because theres millions of women out there and you can't prevent any man from talking to other women. Have a little faith in your relationship, it doesn't sound like you have much of it at this moment.

Hanging on to a teenage love while you are molding a significant part of your adult being at college will be very difficult. You will be traveling 2 very different paths for at least 4 years. The one upside is having a guy back home will keep you focused on your studies which is why you are in college in the first place.