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by Bobbymar on September 19th, 2004

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Recently I was cleaning my teenage son's bedroom and I found a stash of adult incontinence diapers. I know he isn't incontinent, could it have something to do with infantilism?

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  • by The Kat Attack on December 14th, 2007

    The Kat Attack

    A. If there is nothing other than diapers that you found then he could just be a Diaper Lover commonly referred to as DL. My husband and I are DL's and it's just a fetish from diapers not children or infants. It's just a sexual satisfaction derived from the feel of the diaper or just using the diaper. So he's NOT in the least bit a pedophile. If you found anything like pacifiers, onesies, or baby bottles etc. then he may be a AB or TB (Adult baby or Teen baby, respectively)

    B. If he is a teenager then why are you cleaning his room. I couldn't imagine the harassment I would have endured it my mother had found out about me. Please respect his privacy as TB/DL's are often "closet TB/DL" because society can't accept the idea of a sexual attraction to diapers.

    C. If you get the time, thumb through ADISC.org. It is a forum site that I am a member of and you will see that most of us are just your average teens. But the site is very informative.

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  • by Esteban-- Smart ass Pumpkin on November 12th, 2006

    Esteban-- Smart ass Pumpkin

    It Depends.

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  • by Shiekra on February 14th, 2006

    Shiekra

    He could be using them to prevent mess from wet dreams.

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  • by The_Professional on November 22nd, 2006

    The_Professional

    It could.

    It also could be that they make great car wax applicators.

    It could be the wet dream problem mentioned before.

    It could be that he is experimenting with getting away with it. During long tests or out with friends. The worry of not making it can be a stressor for teenages even when perfectly continent.

    It could be that he has a similiar kink to infantilism - See www.wetset.net message board. They are usually pretty good about helping with advice.

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  • by altgirl84 on October 17th, 2007

    altgirl84

    Possibly. And just a side note on that, to clarify to people who get the term confused, infantilism is NOT a sexual attraction to infants; its the sexual attraction/arousal from being 'treated' like an infant.

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  • by babyal on October 1st, 2009

    babyal

    treat him like a baby there is nothing wrong with it at all its perfectly normal
    feed him diaper him change him bath him dress him take him for walks in his stroller put him down for naps in his crib put him in his crib at night
    wake him up in the morning
    its perfectly normal -1
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    I am 44, paraplegic and a full time adult baby. both bladder and bowel incontinent through injury. I wear diapers 24/7 sleep in a large cot. I do not have or use a wheelchair. I have a very large stroler, and crawl on my belly around the house.
    I LOVE MY LIFE. Let your son find his true self

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  • by momsteenbabychris20 on March 15th, 2009

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    treat him like a baby there is nothing wrong with it at all its perfectly normal
    feed him diaper him change him bath him dress him take him for walks in his stroller put him down for naps in his crib put him in his crib at night
    wake him up in the morning
    its perfectly normal

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  • by MG1942 Has a Life Penguin on January 18th, 2009

    MG1942 Has a Life Penguin

    Could be a World of Warcraft nut who can't tear himself away from the computer to go to the toilet. The first time I heard the term "Poopsock" I got the major whim-whams. Google it.

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  • by janacide on January 19th, 2007

    janacide

    This may just be a joke or something he has planned for playing a prank on a peer,I would just let it go if I was you,and just keep an eye out in case it is more serious than that,but even if it is,what can you really do about it?

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  • by zwatcher on January 18th, 2007

    zwatcher

    this is delicate ground
    1. he could have it for something unrelated to wearing them

    2. he could be testing YOUR reaction; he may feel you are invading his privacy

    3. he could be experiencing night time emissions as others have said

    4. is he in college? it could be Hazing related

    the important thing is that what ever he is doing, he is your son and you should give him unconditional love and respect.

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  • by Nick_Ghost on December 5th, 2004

    Nick_Ghost

    I would give him a few weeks. If he doesn't get over it, encourage him to stop. later in his life, he will doubt his mascalinity. Or he might be using them for "roleplay". If so, I am not sure what to do.
    -nick

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  • by goodhealth on August 27th, 2009

    goodhealth

    May be he is going through a wetting problem have a open talk with him and find out what could be wrong.

    http://www.looted.com/

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  • by Brad1522 on May 4th, 2012

    Brad1522

    If he wants to b a baby treat him like one you put a diper on him and make him wear it around use them till ther all gone if ppl c him in a diper he will stop all that real fast kno body wants tber mom treating them like a baby if this dosent work I'm sorry mabey he has sum real problems

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  • by Cory123456 on September 30th, 2011

    Cory123456

    Possibly, but it could be a weakening bladder, too. Some individuals lose control at a young age (or never develop it) and have to go back to diapers.
    My son is 14, and he NEEDS them day and night. The good news is your son CAN find comfortable diapers and he WILL get used to wearing them,just like my son has.

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  • by jonathonmirza on February 1st, 2011

    jonathonmirza

    i agree with the treating him like a baby option, but i also agree this is delacete ground. Im an Adult Baby myself so i know the ropes here as do many who have awnserd. The weekend will be a good time, but you do need to time it right, free your sceduale and all, and when he comes down for breakfest (if you can get him to come down for breakfest), while your both eating at the table, just cashualy ask him why he has diapers in his room, dont take his awnser for granted, dont look him straight in the face, just continue eating as if it were a normal question to ask, and at the next mouthfull then look at him while he awnsers, judje his awnser by the couler of his cheeks, weather he is looking at you or not, the dialation of his pupils, weather he is still eating, is there visable signs of persperation, did he drop anything when you asked the question, did he fall of the chair when you asked the question, is he stuttering, has he gone quite, the more of these kind of signs that you can look for the more accurate you can judje his response, his cheeks may turn red anyway as it would be an embarising question for any teen to be asked, but if he does like wearing them they will probibly look like sata clause, and you will most likley see fear in his eyes, he will probibly stop eating as well. He will most likely try to fob of an excuse for having them if he likes them, but there will be a long pause, first from shock then from trying to think how to respond to you. If these signs accoure this is your cue to ask him equaly as cashualy "do you like wearing them" again he will be shocked but you will most likely get an honest awnser this time eaven if he dosent awnser you straight away he will awnser, because he feels he has a huge wait of his chest, he dosent have to worry about telling you because somehow you already know., in time he will ask you how you found out, but that wont be for a while right now if he does like them he will be shocked that you know and will most likly put one on as soon as he gets to his room for comfort. To verify this you can count how many there were on the friday night and how many there are on the satiday afternoon. At this stage he probbibly still feels like he is the only one in the world, and still feels shame and guilt and the need for secrecy. You finding out has broken his secrecy in a way he never intended, and when he comes to you and tells you weather he likes them or not, the next question you need to ask him is, do you want to be a baby or a big boy, again you will most likly shock him with the question, but he will probibly awnser much more quickley, if he says he wants to be a baby, then it would be emotionaly and psycologicaly harmfull to try and treat him as a big kid at the moment and you should treat him like a baby for a while, and let him wear his diapers, and play with baby toys, and feed him, and lulabys and bedtime storys, give him a blankie, and a paci, let him drink from a baby bottle and you can feed him baby food, depending on his size and wear you live, you can get him a xl childs footed sleeper or an adult footed sleeper and the same for onsies, cribs and strollers would be a diffrent story, you would need an adult crib, or an adult stroller, as with AB furniture weight and size is a concern, also it is not nessiceraly a good idea to take a teen out in a stroller dressed as a baby, as there are to many misconceptions and people would probibly mistake it for child abuse. Your son will let you know when he is ready to grow up, and the sooner you let him be the baby that he needs to be, the more chance he has of growing up emotionaly and psycologicaly. Paranoia is embedded is international society so i already know you think im some perv trying to turn your son in to an Adult Baby, nothing is further from the truth, but what im sugesting, and indeed what many of us are sugesting is the only option you have. If your son says he dosent want to be a baby, then he is most likley a Diaper Lover, and uses them of sexual stimulation. He has an attraction to the diaper itself regardless of who or what is wearing it. Beyond that on the subject of DL's i would say talk to a DL for more advice on the sexual aspect as i am Anti-sexual and have no experiance with it. On the second question if your son says no straight away he is most likly using the diapers for some reason unrelated to infantilism and you have nothing emotional or psycological to worry about. In this instance i would say get him checked out by a docter, a urologist and also get him tested for STI's just incase its a mucus he is leaking. Does he have accsess to paracetamol, ibuprofen, nurofen or tylonolforte and other over the counter pain killers ? would he know the dosage of them ? or how to take them ? A teen with an STI might not know how they have it, or how to get tested, if they are leaking mucus they might be embarased, might not want to tell anyone, they might not know what else to do.

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  • by robertmasters on December 21st, 2006

    robertmasters

    Of course it could be. It probably even is.

    That leaves the question of whether it is for his own use, a partner's use, or just stashed for a friend.

    Another possibility is that if he is going to some of the EST like seminars where they have you sit without getting up to go to the bathroom, he might be taking it in for that.

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  • by JUSTNORMAL on December 21st, 2006

    JUSTNORMAL

    It is either he is bed wetting or like others said using them when he goes to sleep, or when he masturbates or something. You certanly dont want to embarrass him by asking, unless you think he is approachable, then ask but in a very casual non accusatory way.

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  • by datesha on February 6th, 2010

    datesha

    Talk to him about it.
    www.adultbabychat.co.uk

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  • by WhyamIhere on August 15th, 2007

    WhyamIhere

    I would think so. Sorry.

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  • by blackhart666 on October 18th, 2009

    blackhart666

    yes it could be that he like AB how hard was it for him potty trained
    he could be in to pee
    or could be using them on his gf or bf
    lots of possble reasons
    just tell him you not upset but want know what his interests be supportive you get down on him you loose him

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