I think this is not fair. If s/he says s/hes unhappy with you then you shoudnt have to try to make him/her hapy. you have done what you can and if s/he doesnt appreciate it it is his/her fault. let the new person try and make him/her happy, it is not your job anymore. go out there and have fun with YOUR friends and try to get over your ex partner. i know it is hard to let someone you love go when it is not by your own choice, but after some pain you will realize it IS possible to leave exes in the past and move on and be happy (at least its what ive been told, im still trying to get there) good luck!

I would end the friendship.

hey, im sorry i took so long to answer, i was writing to you yesterday but my internet connection went down... so, let me tell you what i think... first of all i want to tell you about something ive learned from previous relationships... promises made to our s/o while in the relationship are broken when the relationship ends. you promised your ex you would be her bestfriend forever.. well let me give you some examples of things that ive promised to my exes and you should see what i mean. i promised my ex that i would love him forever.. he cheated on me and dumped me for the other girl, i dont love him anymore... i promised my ex i would be the mother of his children, do you think i should keep my promise (same guy who cheated)? etc.. at the same time, he promised he would wait for me to be able to move to his country... he was cheating all the time.. he promised he would always be there for me, and i havent heard from him in months... so i think you see what i mean... promises made during relationships usually end as the relationship ends. I think it is very very sweet of you to think of her this way and to so concerned with her wellbeing but to me it looks like shes not interested in you at all... she wants you there just in ase she slips with this new guy, and by the sound of this it doesnt seem like you did something all that bad to her... shes not making up her mind because in a certain way she still wants you there.. as backup, and i think you deserve soooo much better than that... if someone were to move out, who would it be, you or her? start making those arrangements and dont worry, i think that if shes able to find a guy to take your place then you should let her try to find friends to replace you as well.. lets se how she does with that one! in the mean time i suggest you keep youself busy with YOUR friends and who knows, maybe youll just see how much fun you can have without all the drama! hope i have helped... tell me how things turn out or if you need anything else im happy to help!

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