Sit down and talk more seriously about it and if she has friends she really wants to act it out with. Then talk to them and see what happens, Everyone Should Agree on the Situation!

Go slow..maybe try it on a webcam site so you two can see her interact with another man..easy and safe as well as anonynmous!?!

Gauge this: Ask your wife to be the story teller during your foreplay as she will fantasize and describe a situtation when you two get together with another guy and ask her to trail the whole story to your mfm sex scene. Have her describe in detail how the other guy is inserting his cock into her pussy as she is holding your dick and/or sucking you at the same time. Or she can describe in details how she is unzipping him in front of you and getting the guy's dick out and start playing with it. Gauge her body responsiveness how excited she gets and eventually how hard she comes when she climaxes. (I can tell my wife's come is soooo different when she comes with such detailed threesome story and as she is coming all over me as she is riding my cock, during her climax her butt her ass becomes so contracted and feels like rock under my hands during her come.) If you feel she is really more excited when there is this story telling and she climaxes so hard, then you know she wants it all the way in her bones. Then your issue would be to assure her that is also what you want and you love her so much! and you want this for her. You may have to beg her a little over a few months even before she "hesitantly" gives in. You need to protect her feeling as she is trying "not to hurt you" by not saying "yes" right away and jumping with excitement. She does not want you to feel like you are insufficient and she has been waiting for this moment so long. Let us know how it goes. You both will love it if done for the right reason and third party does not pose a threat emotionally t get in between you (this is the only must - or else you risk losing each other emotionally. But sex could be just a recreation if you both and the third party agree to just to have fun!

I know you included in your question the words "without asking," but I honestly feel that open and honest communication about this is an absolute must. You know what kind of question will be perceived as a threat, so phrase it in the most "I care about your feeling and want you to experience some mind-blowing excitement" way you can. Make sure to be sincere by explaining that it is indeed something you want too, so you're not trying to appear to be altruistic, but you do indeed want it to be awesome for her too. . She may assume you're only offering to do this in order to then ask for a FMF threesome. If this is so, don't do it for the wrong reasons, as you may get jealous in the attempt to get to the real prize. If this is not necessarily what you're after later, then tell her so. Tell her that isn't your goal right now and the MFM threesome is what you want. . She'll know if you're sincere and hopefully will realize it will fulfill your desires too. Best of luck and have fun, but select the man carefully and be safe!

Taking your question as you wrote it: . She would have to tell you at her own will and in her own time. If you aren't going to ask and you can't read her mind, that's all that's left. . If she writes in a journal or mentions it to someone else, then you don't have the context or her state of mind. She probably knows she can't read your mind either, you know. . Oh, yeah. If she spontaneously shows up with a guy without talking to you, turn it down and go see a doctor. Be nice about it. Tell her 'later' or something. Women don't wear anything where you can see it that they haven't checked out in private. It might be a nice surprise, but she's been careless. .

I have tried tallking during sex about this fantasy. Every detail. And she goes wild. We have done DP with vibrator when i was telling her about this fantasy. And even a couple of times she was telling me what the other guy is doing to her. I think she is realy opening to this fantasy. Any other advice?

My two cents is that having the fantasy may be better than actually performing the act. Bringing another person into things really can complicate matters.

maybe u couldtry a phone call while having sex and see if she likes that and than move on

Obviously, I'm late in responding to this question. I just now joined because my wife recently expressed the same fantasy to me. She said she wanted to experience playing with two hard dicks at the same time. She wanted to suck a hard dick while getting rammed in the pussy by another hard dick. I LOVED IT!!!!! I thought that was the sexiest and most erotic statement my wife has ever made - the statement made me so HARD -we've been married for 20 years. I told her that I was okay with fulfilling her fantasy. Her comment was so hot. She loved the idea, as did I, of being covered in cum. Ever since she made that comment, I've been wanting to make it a reality. Unfortunately, she says it nothing more than "talk" and "fantasy". She does not want to take beyond "talk" or "fantasy". I'd like to convince her otherwise.

im 22 and my girlfriend is nearly 20, i really want her to have 2 strange men fucking her while i watch, it would turn me on so much knowing that she loves it. she has always been very dirty in bed and she has mentioned it before during sex but is too scared to make it reality. help

go to cliphunter.com or megaporn.com or even youporn.com and ask her what she thinks about it and if she would ever want to do something like that