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by mkc153 on July 29th, 2008

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I can't trust anyone and I don't know why. My boyfriend is faithful to me, but I just can't trust anyone. I feel like people always do things behind my back and I'm afraid that I'll get hurt. Why can't I trust people? How can I learn to trust people

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  • by blacknine on September 18th, 2008

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    You will need to do something about this. Psychiatrist or something, if you want to lead a normal life. My wife (about to be ex) is like you and she has just thrown away 14 years of marriage because of this issue.

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  • by Hannah Jo on July 29th, 2008

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    A lot of people have trust issues. You just kind of have to let all that stuff go. When you start to feel jealous tell whoever it is your feeling jealous over how you feel. That will help you get it off your chest. If you feel uncomfortable doing that then get a diary and write your feelings down in there. It's always beter to get those feelings out rather than keeping them bottled up inside.

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  • by AnonymousGirl on October 20th, 2009

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    It sounds to me like you're paranoid. You can learn to trust people by allowing people to prove that they are trustworthy to you. It makes it a whole lot easier if you're willing to give people that chance.

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  • by skep on June 12th, 2011

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    If you are basically normal; the maturation process and added knowledge will negate this deep seated dependency and Egocentricism.

    In other words, grow up!

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  • by Corgingus on November 24th, 2010

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    Your inner self can tell you a lot about people. In life, you may have twenty close friends but you will actually have very few that you totally trust. It's called self-perseverance at the finest.

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  • by Ryan_S145 on February 5th, 2011

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  • by Roses1 on May 18th, 2010

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    Honey I have learned that you just can't trust man. It is Biblical. We are all sinners, who only can be Saved by grace thru Jesus Christ, but all are still sinners. Everywhere I have worked there has been gossip and backbiting. It is just part of life. Accept it and you will feel better. Always worrying about what people are saying will just make you sick. Catch yourself worrying and force yourself to think of something else or put some music on the stereo and sing to it. Keep busy and be productive. I have to force myself out of the habit of concentrating on others. We are not responsible for how they act. And to tell you the truth, we are all untrustworthy at times, yes you and me, we do gossip and stuff on occasion. ; )

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