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  • if he knows our taken, and hasn't crossed any boundries, act like you don't know anything. He hasn't made it known to you, you don't need to make it an issue
  • Many years ago a best friend and I vowed to never fall in love with each other. that was about 1979 or 1980. What that did was make us both into big fat liars; She is married to a guy who really loves her, My wife and I are about to celebrate being together for 20 years. The long and short of it is yes we both loved each other very much in different ways, and at different times. The advantage of this is we have both had a life long friendship that has had its ups and downs. The hard part was not sacrificing the friendship for a temporary relationship. Is this the right answer for everyone, no. The reason I bore you with this story is that if his feelings are not strong enough to make him say something, then he is not ready to deal with it yet, and It may just be a passing and fanciful crush. It may be a mechaination, or manipulation by your friend well intentioned or otherwise. Your relationships are between you and the b/f you and the friend and you and the best friend. don't let someone else get in the middle of those. Boyfriends / Lovers are replacible. Some best friends are Once in a life time.

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