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  • depends on the man. being less emotional men are less likely to slip up that women.
  • nope not unless one of the woman makes him!
  • He shouldn't be the one to decide....the women should both kick him to the curb.
  • I am not going to go into the particular, but we *always* have to make choices. Family vs. work is a frequent choice. Parents "traditional" values against friends "modern" ones. A person who chooses a double life give themselves more choices, and hard ones. But they are not intrinsically insoluble, in every case.People have managed to reach working accommodations in this area for centuries. Which is not to say that all people can, or should, be able to do so. But, for example, many wives might accept 3/4 of a husband, and financial security, as less bad than a divorce and an uncertain future with 0/4 of a husband. Others will say stuff the bastard, I don't need him. It is a very human thing.
  • I have no clue how a man (or woman) can betray their spouse and show no signs of guilt over their behavior. They are doing what they know would devastate the one they vowed their lifetime to yet they continue to look that person in they eye and love them. All while maintaining an affair with another. And IF the OW or man KNOWS their lover is married they too should be feeling guilty for betraying another human being. They did not take vows, however they KNOW vows were made and they are participating in the potential devstation of anothers heart and soul. The whole thing makes me sick in that it is such a sefish cowardly way to live one's life! OW & men out there ought to wake up to reality. What they are participating in is wrong and can never have a happy ending. Even IF your lover were to leave the family to be with you....it would be AFTER causing undeserved harm to a spouse and possibly kids if their are any. It disgusts me that people lower themselves to be part of suck a cruel thing.
  • No, he will not feel guilty and don't have plan to pick one or the other, he will try to keep both even if he get cought...
  • He may have twinges of guilt but they are covered up by the pleasure, I'm sure. As for love, I don't think if you are deceiving and lying to someone that you can say you really "love" them. Love is wanting the best for the other person and screwing them over doesn't meet that standard. He can maintain both relationships as long as no one is the wiser and are willing to accept what he can give to each of them as "enough". Likely he will feel no internal pressure to choose. If he were a self-motivated chooser, he would have chosen one woman and stuck with her. The pressure to choose will come from external factors like time, money, hassle, sex, etc. This goes for female cheaters too.

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