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  • As you believe, so is it unto you. You've probably believed yourself unworthy so long you've become comfortable with the perception. Now you meet someone who looks through appearances to see the "real you" and it threatens you. The worst that could happen is, the relationship doesn't work out. At least you won't be wondering, "What IF?" Go for it. You only live once.
  • People fall in and stay in love with each other "warts and all". Love means overlooking or loving your partner's imperfections. That means YOU, too. You have to accept that you are imperfect and love yourself despite them, or even learn to LOVE them. They are part of what makes YOU unique in the world. If he's attracted to you, there's something there that he likes enough to either not notice or not care about whatever imperfections you have. Next time he looks at you, look back and smile (even if you don't like your smile - remember - he may, or he doesn't care.) Let yourself be happy with the way you look. Let him get to know the real you.

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