talk to him... being in a good stable happy relationship is all about communication.

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well you can rummage thru his things. Guys are dumbasses and think that they will NEVER get caught. He'll leave something in his pants pockets/wallet or in an email or some trinket in his car. Im not suggesting you invade his privacy but all bets are off when/if he steps over the line. Remember, all's fair in love and war. Alot of times the lad will get ambitious and leave clues in his emails. He'll more than likely forget about sent emails or he deletes an email and it stays in his deleted box. Also check phone records. As a side note, you women always know when guys are cheating. Trust in your intuition. Its in the eyes. Look for specific clues like in way he stops being intimate with you or is distracted alot or is secreticve about his whereabouts. Perhaps he comes up with elaborate stories that are questionable? It sounds like he has already given you a reason to be suspicious. I hope it is nothing. But maybe you should confront him and watch his eyes. You see if you ask him a direct question like "Are you cheating on me?" But come out of the blue and ask this question after you have softened him up a bit. Watch his eyes...more than likely he will divert his eyes away from you. The truth is in the eyes. They never lie. If that doesnt work you might have to hire a private investigator. I really do hope you find some peace in all this.

Either you follow him or have a friend follow him. Or Call Cheaters and let them find out for you. If he is they pay.

Listen-In On Cell Calls Read Text Messages - Cell Phone Spy Undetectable!-Works With All Phones www.CellSpyPro.com 1. "I'm not in love with you anymore." 2. "We are just friends." 3. A sudden need for privacy. 4. “I need some space to figure my feelings for you.” 5. Regular work habits change. 6. Spending a large amount of time on the computer. 7. Secretive phone calls and more time spent on the phone. 8. Behavior that just doesn’t add up. 9. Your Own fears and suspicions

Have you ever tried talking to him? NOT arguing...Not accusing...Not with bitterness! Ask him for a time you two can sit down and talk where you and he have some time to discuss this. Expect him to get defensive but you stay calm and not argue or fight. Insist as you talk this is of a concern to you and how it can be worked out to both of your satisfactions. Cheating is not good because it is lieing but it has been going on almost since the beginning of the human race but is more prevelent today because of the societies we live in and it isn't just the men but the women as well...almost evenly by percentages. In the olden days, wives expected their husbands to have misteresses. They liked it because they didn't have to worry as much about having more children. Polygamy was also very prevelent. Today, there are alternatives to cheating this is through open marriages, Polyamorus relatinships, and even swinging. If you take time to do the research you will learn these things elimenate cheating and can make the marriage stronger between those involved. Polymory is the better of those I have named. They come from all walks of life including many in the clergy and Christians and religious persons to those whom never have seen a church interiour. Polymory is not bad...but is usually very good. Here are some places to start learning about this, it takes time, opening your mind, and learning. If you go into this and a discussion with your husband with knowledge you will not only eleminate your husband's cheating but make your marriage better... http://www.libchrist.com/ http://www.contra.org/lifestyles/poly/ Good luck and I hope you research and understand my advice....it has come from much research and time.

Look, its pretty simple. Get a list of his cell phone records, his text messages, and pay attention to how he is acting. Lack of a sex life with you is also a pretty good indicator. If there is a specific number that shows up over and over, call it, see who answers, then confront him. If he gets angry and defensive, he is cheating. My thoughts have always been, unless you are super paranoid, if it looks like a dog, walks like a dog, and smells like a dog, its a dog. Goodluck.

tape the worlds smallest camera to his forehead. Or try trusting him and maybe even asking him calmly. :D

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