You didnt ask anyone out?

I don't know but you might be conceited? I don't know you so maybe not. It might be something else.

Well, at least your high on yourself....... maybe a little too high? Maybe you're aiming too high?

Maybe you're shy around guys? Or maybe its your personality? Maybe you didn't try hard enough. Some people may not see you as pretty or having a good personality. Different people like different things.

You sound too desperate and insecure...try being happy being single and as soon as you do, thats when guys will start asking you out.

Because you haven't met me yet? lol just kidding. I don't know, if you don't know the answer to that question how do you expect random people on the internet to know?

I know a lot of drop-dead gorgeous, smart, sweet women who turn heads but stay single, because they're either needy, insecure, conceited, materialistic, "trying too hard," or have funky hygeine.........! Or, it could just be that guys are very shy around you.

I am sure it wouldn't take much for me to find that out but you aren't saying enough :) Perhaps you don't have an active social life. Usually that is it. I'll give you a + and a few virtual kisses on the forehead! XXXX

You may be so smart/nice/pretty that guys figure you have men just falling at your feet and there is no way you would be interested in them. You may need to take the Initiative and ask guys you like out.

Have you thought of asking someone out or are you waiting for them to ask you? :)

Ask the people that tell you that you are pretty, have a good personality and big boobs why you don't have a boyfriend.They would know how you are better than I do.

Sorry, I'm going to need proof of these big boobs.

What does big boobs and not being fat have anything to do with it? Anyway....maybe you are focused too much on what you have to offer and not enough of wanting to get to know someone. Be a good listener and a good friend and it won't matter what you look like, then you know they like you for you.

I give up yo...

What are you waiting for? If you like a guy, get up off that thang and ask him out!!!

Maybe there's no guy who thinks that looks are only part of it, and smarts are what really matters.

I wasnt impressed with most of the answers to this question. Maybe a little jealousy I detected... Rock on girl, it will come, strut your stuff, and be happy! But, remember, looks arent everything, but, you could post us a pic here, and we could find you a suitable mate! In fact, I think Im falling in love... :) Hi, Im Chris, nice to meet you!

Define "good personality". So far, you have yet to impress me, so I think it safe to venture that anyone who has actually seen you may be likewise unimpressed.... unless they just want to use you as a sperm dumpster. Maybe you overestimate the appeal of your personality?

Lots of things could be a factor : 1) you live in a town full of Gay Guys 2) Men are insecure and you make them nervous. 3) Your looking in the wrong places. 4) you seem too confident, which men usually don't like ...stupid I know. 5) My last theory, at a bar, guys usually approach a few girls then go home with one if successful. If your Hot, they aren't going to approach you first, they will wait and go after a sure thing. Don't worry a guy that is worthy will come along sooner than you think. Until then revel in the fact that your a total package.

Maybe you have Halitosis?

Don't let "having a boyfriend" define you. Guys come and go. They don't really matter much until you find one that's special. THEN you can get concerned.

Because I'm taken already. Sorry!

SMART and big boobs, pretty with personality your a girl that needs to go to college there you will find someone who is just or even better

Don't worry one day you will find a man! I am having the same problems as you so you are not alone! I even have all the same traits as you except big boobs!

I'm not into big boobs... "the bigger they are the harder they fall." aside from that, how do you present yourself? are you open or closed? are you shy, outgoing, or agressive? do you ask them out? that last one may sound like agression but isn't necessarily. are you femenine? the way to a mans heart is through his stomach, ego, and senses. do you sound like fran dresher? have skin like an iguana? smell/taste wierd? maybe you lack ferrimones which we detect unconciously

Just give it time sweetie, your time will come!

All good things come to those who wait...just be patient

maybe you intimidate, but don't hesitate, the strong man who can handle you look will come, the right for you, keep doping your thing persue what makes you happy, it will take you his direction trust that, just cause u don't see it, don't mean it ain't there.

The fact that you know all those things are true, probably affects your personality and aura. Personally I find that woman who are attention seekers through their actions or there dress are less attractive to me then then others. Just Go out looking for Fun and a good time (not a man) and you'll be surprised ant what happens

maybe it's because you think you're hot stuff and that no one's good enough for you? hmmm? meh

I'm not trying to be funny, but have you thought that you might be a bit needy? I don't mean that in a spiteful way. Sometimes it can be one of the reasons. Are you that desperite for a man? Go out, have a good time, meet people, if something is to happen, just take it slowly, nothing good will come from a "rush in to it" sort of job if you know where I'm coming from. I hope you get what your looking for. :)

May Be you Have Brains!!!! . only 5% of Girls have brains and rest have bfs.So Enjoy being among those 5%.

I'm sure you're intelligent enough to know that, despite general assumption, men might look further than mere big boobs for a serious relationship, and if that's all the allure you can give off, many might seem intimidated, even if you were just looking for one night of fun. :/

Have a big social life? no? then you need to gt out there and get to now more people. shy? dont be! good looks? smart? = perfect you can knock people dead with that. you need to have loads of guy freinds too not just a tribe of women when you go out, guys tend to feel nerve racked when a gang of girls enter there prescence. maybe guys just think there no match for you. make yourself more aprochable ( no i dont meen dress like a slut) just get abit more freindly at the clubs social it up. right guys out there for everyone dont give up hun x

you simply havnt found mr.right yet, he'll bump into ya ;)

Heels + miniskirt = men.

You may be trying too hard, therefore seem too desperate. Just enjoy life. It will happen. Something else, though... Guys tend to be afraid of pretty girls, especially smart pretty girls with big boobs. They also can't really believe they don't have someone, already, so tend to stay away. You have to find some way - talking to a friend when the guy you're interested is near and saying you WISH you had a boyfriend... having THEM say they can't believe you don't have a boyfriend... something like that - that's the way my first girlfriend caught me! ;-) Think about how you treat guys you DO go out with (assuming you date at least once-in-a-while) and see if there's a problem there. (NOTE: I'm NOT saying there is... Just a possibility and something you have to consider.) It will happen. Relax and enjoy life. When you least expect it... ;-)

Touché. I'm bored with this now, I'm going to go find someone else to pick on. =) Cya later Jerv.

Got a picture?

its the boobs

Because you woke up?

How old are you,just how big are those boobs,On a scale of 1-10 how pretty are you,do you have a sense of humor,Where do you live????

Because you dont have my number :)

how about this: all of your attributes attract men but if its all you got, it only does half the job. And about your personality, are you assuming you have a good one or has anyone told you that? i think you should speak to the guys you know and see what they truly want out of women. but don't go changing for everyone. be who you are at all times, and then someone will come to you. and the number one rule: confidence!!! you will not gain something you are not determined to work for

Hi...I'm fearfulkitty. Do you like sushi?

do u lie alot?

How's your personality? I hear that guys like women with confidence, especially self confidence. Do you believe in yourself?

If you're so smart, then why does it seem that it's difficult for you to capitalize your "I's?" (I'm not trying to be abusive here, just pointing this out) First of all, you seem to place a lot of weight on your physical appearance, albeit in a very shallow sense: "big boobs," "not fat" and "pretty." I might point out to you here that not all guys like big boobs and some guys can be classified as "chubby-chasers" for obvious reason. What I'm saying is that not all guys are attracted to the "norm" of what our society calls beauty. There are all types of guys who like all types of girls. What you are saying and the way you are saying it gives me the impression that you are either shallow, insecure, or very young. Or maybe all three. You also come off as a little bit pretentious (which is a flaw of mine at times as well). As for your smartness and personality... well, it's good that you seem to realize that looks are only one half of attraction. If you aren't interesting underneath the makeup it can be kind of hard to find guys who aren't just out to use you for your body. And why are you so caught up in whether or not you have a boyfriend? Is it because you don't have one now or because you have never had one before? Either way, it's nothing to worry about; I've found that when I am the least worried about meeting someone is inevitably the time that I meet some exciting new person that I click with. You just need to relax. Respect yourself.

yeah, sorry about answering twice. something happened to my PC

Just bide your time, its good to be selective, and you obviously are.

put up a pic of yourself, then I can tell you why u don't have a BF :)

I am impressed .come on I am Also ready.

You sound intelligent but by the way you describe yourself you may be in that category that someone described as intimidating. Let me give you some inside guy tips that may help you find a b/f. There are two types of guys, the everyday hound dog who hunts for your stereotype (nice rack, flaunts their stuff etc) simply to hook up and dump you right away. You can find these guys at your local watering hole if you're interested. Second type is the long term-looking to settle down decent type (wants a hot spouse, mother to have his babies type). These guys are hard to find as work and being financially independent become their driving force (sometimes no time for dating). I've been both types so I can speak from authority. If you flaunt yourself to attract attention to your breast assets, than you will be likely attract the hound dogs (funny trend lately...gals are looking for this lately in lieu of marriage). Dress appropriately, professionally sexy is better than slut sexy and search out an intelligent type where they tend to hang (upscale breweries and bars) and you will find a match. Then you need to let this guy court you appropriately. He'll know what to do. Don't be too anxious and see how it unfolds. Last bit of advice...if the sparks are there you'll feel it. If you feel nothing, don't add any extra fireworks for his part. Take a pass. You know what I mean later. Good luck.

If you were that smart you'd know that it is a waste of time going looking for love - it'll find you when the time is right. You don't have a boyfriend because the time is not right for you yet - and by the way people with small boobs, plumpish and not exactly oil paintings find love too - it isn't just for the sterotypical bimbo you see in magazines ;0)

By the way you describe yourself, you seem very into the physical aspect of your life. When in all reality it is some much more than that. Why describe how you look? Why not describe your personality? What you consider to be a "good" personality, may not be what others think a "good" personality is. You seem extremely shallow, because that is not what all guys look for. Why would it matter if you are fat or not?

Because I don't know were your are at!

My guess would be you aren't really looking for someone special, it sounds like you just want a boyfriend. Man hunting isn't really a weekend hobby that will help you into a healthly relationship. However, if you are dead set on finding love check out the singles scene in your area, at least you'll know the guys you meet there will also be looking for someone. Keep in mind that you don't have to say yes to a man just because he asks, not only do you as a person need to meet his needs, he needs to fit yours.

too much make up.

You do now!

if all what you said is right, then i think the problem is in you not in others.

Maybe you are too picky. My son was for years. Maybe you don't fequent the right places. Maybe you aren't pleasant to men (too outspoken).

Because out of a bitter twist of fate, all the men you meet are turned on my stupid, ugly, flat-chested women with the personality of a dishrag. Trust me, you will find someone you deserve.

Manda, if you live in a big city that's what you typically see so I'm basing my answer on that. It sux that reality shows are blowing relationships out of proportion and it shows out there. Too much hype on the b.s. of trying to impress with bling and material wealth and the fun part is slamming the feelings when things don't go well. This is too deep for AB and what lemon ice was asking.

You haven't called me yet! ;)

Lower your standards.

maybe you dont have a nice ass

OMG...are you my twin?

because the only confidence you have in yourself is basically physical...plus the smart thing...the older you get the more you physically deteriorate..so..stop looking and stop thinking that looks will get you a guy...he will come to you...trust me

i dont know but ill tell u something listen to ur heart when its calling for u and dont listen to his looks his bank account

Too much self confidence can make you ugly outwardly.

hello over here lol

Its good that you're confident but sometimes guys can feel fretened if you're too outgoing learn to show your softer side sometimes and never go looking for love;theres nothing wrong with being single, enjoy it but if the love is real it will come to you good luck

You're too into yourself, and in too much of a hurry. Slow down and put some more focus on other people.

Cause you worry about it too much.

because you're trying too hard.. all those qualities dont have anything to do with having a relationship.. maybe if you get to know people you will have better luck.. try and sit down and have a decent conversation.. (not about how big your boobs are or how pretty you are) an adult conversation.. dont judge men on their looks either.. you sound like the kind of person who would.. and you cant just go searching for love, love finds you

May I have a picture please? :) Your looking to hard. In time, the right one will come along and sweep you off your feet.

cuz u ask questions like this

A good dose of modesty is always a great help

Modesty is the key word here. Noone wants to date a girl who's full of herself unless she has some kind of quality which will make them accept it and live with it.

A little bit of vanity never hurt anybody but maybe you are trying too hard.

cause you just a wee bit full of yourself missy.

uhhh too busy taking inventory of your assets???

cos your obsessing too much about it???

Maybe alot of men find your beauty intimidating,OR you could be sending out the needy clingy vibe.

I'm still looking for modesty in your question and I can't seem to find it...... Maybe that's the reason .

It's because you're too vain :)

You sound like a lovley women. I being a man also look at a womens heart. because thats what I fall in love with.

It sounds like your a bit full of yourself. Try a little modesty and don't rely on your boobs to find a guy.

Do you talk to guys? Do you ask them out?

You hold yourself up too high, and not everyone buys that, could it be your face, perhaps?

I am the same as you and I had them barking like the dogs that they are..Maybe your facial expressions are to serious..

Add self esteem to what you have, it'll solve the problem/-

hell i'm a cute girl and have a good personality sometimes i wonder why i don't have a boyfriend but i do reject alot of guys because i don't feel the chemistry with some of them. if i dont have a guy right now maybe i'm not meant to but i just go on with my life and if the right guy asks that i feel comfortable with then we'll click. when the times right you'll find someone

Maybe you're hanging with the wrong guys or maybe you have too big an ego or similar. I couldnt see any form of charisma or personality which you may need to work on. The good guys dont just like tits and ass

do,t worry we all r here for u.

maybe you really don't want one.

Well, one thing for sure, you don't want to get a guy because you have big boobs. It will happen when it happens, just be patient! :)

because life is like handful of sand under water.

try not to seem so availible. give a guy a hint of intrest like saying hi or sumthing. jus dont put ur self out there so much. guys like to fight for there stuff. so make em fight to be with you (not physicly lol) but yea. jus try talkin to a guy and make him seem like ur interrested in him. jus not alot or that will scare him away

have you tried craigslist, ebay or the corner of 15th and Wall