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I'm still looking for modesty in your question and I can't seem to find it...... Maybe that's the reason .
You sound too desperate and insecure...try being happy being single and as soon as you do, thats when guys will start asking you out.
By the way you describe yourself, you seem very into the physical aspect of your life. When in all reality it is some much more than that. Why describe how you look? Why not describe your personality? What you consider to be a "good" personality, may not be what others think a "good" personality is. You seem extremely shallow, because that is not what all guys look for. Why would it matter if you are fat or not?
Well, at least your high on yourself....... maybe a little too high? Maybe you're aiming too high?
What does big boobs and not being fat have anything to do with it? Anyway....maybe you are focused too much on what you have to offer and not enough of wanting to get to know someone. Be a good listener and a good friend and it won't matter what you look like, then you know they like you for you.
do u lie alot?
If you were that smart you'd know that it is a waste of time going looking for love - it'll find you when the time is right. You don't have a boyfriend because the time is not right for you yet - and by the way people with small boobs, plumpish and not exactly oil paintings find love too - it isn't just for the sterotypical bimbo you see in magazines ;0)
what do you need a bf for? it sounds like your already in love!!!!
Maybe you have Halitosis?
uhhh too busy taking inventory of your assets???
Define "good personality".
So far, you have yet to impress me, so I think it safe to venture that anyone who has actually seen you may be likewise unimpressed.... unless they just want to use you as a sperm dumpster.
Maybe you overestimate the appeal of your personality?
how the hell did this cunt get this many points?
You sound intelligent but by the way you describe yourself you may be in that category that someone described as intimidating. Let me give you some inside guy tips that may help you find a b/f. There are two types of guys, the everyday hound dog who hunts for your stereotype (nice rack, flaunts their stuff etc) simply to hook up and dump you right away. You can find these guys at your local watering hole if you're interested. Second type is the long term-looking to settle down decent type (wants a hot spouse, mother to have his babies type). These guys are hard to find as work and being financially independent become their driving force (sometimes no time for dating). I've been both types so I can speak from authority. If you flaunt yourself to attract attention to your breast assets, than you will be likely attract the hound dogs (funny trend lately...gals are looking for this lately in lieu of marriage). Dress appropriately, professionally sexy is better than slut sexy and search out an intelligent type where they tend to hang (upscale breweries and bars) and you will find a match. Then you need to let this guy court you appropriately. He'll know what to do. Don't be too anxious and see how it unfolds. Last bit of advice...if the sparks are there you'll feel it. If you feel nothing, don't add any extra fireworks for his part. Take a pass. You know what I mean later. Good luck.
What's your gender?
conceited
Because in your list, personality should have been first, not last!
have you tried craigslist, ebay or the corner of 15th and Wall
It sounds like your a bit full of yourself. Try a little modesty and don't rely on your boobs to find a guy.
Because you haven't met me yet? lol just kidding. I don't know, if you don't know the answer to that question how do you expect random people on the internet to know?
I would go back over your check list,you left out shallow.
A good dose of modesty is always a great help
Perhaps you're too modest.
maybe it is because you are too much of a bitch to realize that if you keep high on yourself. then guys wont want you.
so pull your head out of your ass and wake the fuck up!!!
shape up, quit being so blond about that.
not trying to be mean, but my god!!!
be nice.
be smart about a healthy relationship.
and be you, but just dont try to get any guys attention.
and they could just be scared if they tell you that they like you that you will reject them...
dum ass... =/
cause you just a wee bit full of yourself missy.
cuz u ask questions like this
maybe you dont have a nice ass
You may be trying too hard, therefore seem too desperate. Just enjoy life. It will happen.
Something else, though... Guys tend to be afraid of pretty girls, especially smart pretty girls with big boobs. They also can't really believe they don't have someone, already, so tend to stay away. You have to find some way - talking to a friend when the guy you're interested is near and saying you WISH you had a boyfriend... having THEM say they can't believe you don't have a boyfriend... something like that - that's the way my first girlfriend caught me! ;-)
Think about how you treat guys you DO go out with (assuming you date at least once-in-a-while) and see if there's a problem there. (NOTE: I'm NOT saying there is... Just a possibility and something you have to consider.)
It will happen. Relax and enjoy life. When you least expect it... ;-)
Lots of things could be a factor :
1) you live in a town full of Gay Guys
2) Men are insecure and you make them nervous.
3) Your looking in the wrong places.
4) you seem too confident, which men usually don't like ...stupid I know.
5) My last theory, at a bar, guys usually approach a few girls then go home with one if successful. If your Hot, they aren't going to approach you first, they will wait and go after a sure thing.
Don't worry a guy that is worthy will come along sooner than you think. Until then revel in the fact that your a total package.
Ask the people that tell you that you are pretty, have a good personality and big boobs why you don't have a boyfriend.They would know how you are better than I do.
Maybe you are a bitch
I think she just wanted a lot of points with that question, she got them though!!!!!
How did this bitch get so many points?
Because you don't bathe regularly?
Too much self confidence can make you ugly outwardly.
If you're so smart, then why does it seem that it's difficult for you to capitalize your "I's?" (I'm not trying to be abusive here, just pointing this out)
First of all, you seem to place a lot of weight on your physical appearance, albeit in a very shallow sense: "big boobs," "not fat" and "pretty." I might point out to you here that not all guys like big boobs and some guys can be classified as "chubby-chasers" for obvious reason. What I'm saying is that not all guys are attracted to the "norm" of what our society calls beauty. There are all types of guys who like all types of girls. What you are saying and the way you are saying it gives me the impression that you are either shallow, insecure, or very young. Or maybe all three. You also come off as a little bit pretentious (which is a flaw of mine at times as well).
As for your smartness and personality... well, it's good that you seem to realize that looks are only one half of attraction. If you aren't interesting underneath the makeup it can be kind of hard to find guys who aren't just out to use you for your body.
And why are you so caught up in whether or not you have a boyfriend? Is it because you don't have one now or because you have never had one before? Either way, it's nothing to worry about; I've found that when I am the least worried about meeting someone is inevitably the time that I meet some exciting new person that I click with. You just need to relax.
Respect yourself.
I'm sure you're intelligent enough to know that, despite general assumption, men might look further than mere big boobs for a serious relationship, and if that's all the allure you can give off, many might seem intimidated, even if you were just looking for one night of fun. :/
Because I'm taken already.
Sorry!
I give up yo...
simple...too vain
You don't have a boyfriend because you think all it takes is big boobs, not being fat, being pretty, and having a good personality. It is much more complicated than that. Try to get to know someone first, make friends first and see where the chemestry takes you. That is the makings of a true relationship.
Send us a pic and we see how trueful you are being ;)
Because it's not all about you.
probably because youre always bragging.
They're scared away by your amazing modesty
The funny thing is not every guy likes big boobs.
Plus you make yourself sound dumb.
And unless I see evidence of your big boobed prettiness I aint buying this! :)
People over the internet lie a lot.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I actually don't like big boobs and what you think is a good personality I might think is not so great at all.
You know what I find attractive?
Modesty and in that department my dear it seems you are lacking severely.
Intelligence is attractive as is someone I can talk to.
One more thing, if you love yourself this much how can you have any love left for anyone else?
okay. you sound like you'r really concieted. But that's because your insecure. get some self confidence and guys will come flocking. also, maybe try and smile more.
ok ok woop de do,
dont act like a slag, or slut, boyz mught see you ass a slag, or slut, no offence, i will say it straight,
get to know some one you like, not just for the sake of it
The way you describe yourself, you seem very desperate and you are way into how you look..and you're probably really nice and beautiful too! But you can't go desperatly searching for a bf..you have to wait until the right time and have fun while you're single!! beacause it's not all bad..When i was single it was alot of fun to just hang out with your friends, but don't worry..if you want a bf you shouldn't do all the searching..you should let him find you ;] (it worked for me) good luck!!
mostly depends on your attitude.
is the attitude wich attract males the most, try to read some books about it.
infact, the most scoring females are those who mantain a clear appearence but tend to send "subliminal messages" that, in the males unconscious, trigger the "go signal" response.
an happy ,laind back attitude is more likely to with this thing.
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Comments
True that
by Shell on August 28th, 2008
agreed
by Blink on September 1st, 2008
yup!!!
by Mystical Dim on September 26th, 2008
owned
by Blink on September 26th, 2008
uh huh
by rigby on October 9th, 2008
Nailed it in one.
by Arisztid on November 28th, 2008
to:lemon_icefor starters, does your name say anything about you?I may assure womankind that boobs, do not, a woman make. Beauty, is in the eyes of the beholder, AND, thank God that not all men are obsessed with boobs!Be nice. Be kind, Be friendly, be there for those who need friendship, not only towards great looking hunks.Don't rush...let it happen, God bless you, cordially,ac
by InGod'dHands on December 14th, 2008
No point in answering this is the definitive answer.
by wthing8 on December 16th, 2008
Thanks Everyone!! :-)
by Anonymous on December 17th, 2008
Owned!
by tiberseptim on January 24th, 2009
That could definitely do someone in.
by good spontaneosity on February 15th, 2009
haha..agreed.
by silencescreams on March 9th, 2009
maybe all the guys
think your too into yourself
& yes were is the modesty ...
oh & plzz dont brag about yourself alot of guys hate tht.
by breezy bee on April 3rd, 2009
girls hate that too...woooooo...big time
by Mystical Dim on April 3rd, 2009
she sounds so over confident, lower you standards!
by sxy bitch on June 13th, 2009
When u r not looking that when u will find someone.
by shorty on August 26th, 2009
..you mean when she's not looking in the mirror..
by Mystical Dim on August 27th, 2009
yeah!
by SeannaSaurus Rex on November 4th, 2009
i want to go out with u u r gowjus fityyyyyyyyyy lol who would want to go out wiv u????!!!???!!!
by Jasmine_darlinn on February 25th, 2010