ANSWERS: 13
  • If she is financialy secure and is the motherly sort, then I don't see a problem with it. Single women have been having and raising kids since the begining of time!
  • Meh, that's cool. I wouldn't think any more or less of her.
  • I don't think anything. Honestly, I would never judge an unconventional family. Family just means stability, love, support, and a healthy upbringing. If someone can raise a child well, then more power to them. I am not for limiting who and how others can love -- simply because it doesn't fit into conventional norms. The tragedy is the children born to the unfit, unprepared, ungrateful parents. Someone who chooses to give a child a happy life - I take that back - I judge that as awesome.
  • I have a couple of friends who did it and my attitude is pretty much so what. One case was kind of funny because her parents were really conservative Jews. They thought that if she was going to have a baby without getting married that the bank route was great because there was no sex involved!
  • Nothing in particular.
  • If she is mature enough to really be a parent to the child I would say rock on sista!
  • Really wouldn't have any thoughts one way or the other, its none of my business.
  • It's not something I would advise, but I probably wouldn't judge the woman for doing such a thing.
  • My wife and I have two friends who are lesbians. They had a sperm donor and went through invitro to get pregnant. For me as a man it would feel really weird as having a child is a very manly thing. Not being able to father a child is not a good feeling. Luckly I did not have that problem but for some men it is. Now if your a lesbian couple and there is no sperm to be had I'm sure its not as big of a deal. To me it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
  • thats good for her. what do you think about a guy donating his sperm?
  • I would say she really wanted to be a mother, and would therefore be a really good one. This is not an easy nor inexpensive procedure. If she is willing to take this big of a plunge, she will have no problem being a wonderful, caring, stable mother. I would hope for her, as I do all mothers regardless of their status, that she has supportive people around her to help and/or advise her with the child. It is not easy.
  • It is unusual however, it's her own business. She probably has her reasons for doing that...
  • I say never do it... I've done that and the results... CHILD SUPPORT $800 per month... Let the 2 women don't work out tuff for the guy

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