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by ballaratcouple on July 20th, 2008

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Why do men find the idea of letting other men fuck or have sex with their women exciting?
Similary why do women want to watch their men do it with another woman or why do couples like to have a female join them in bed?

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  • by auburnplay on November 23rd, 2009

    auburnplay

    I LOVE IT...

    To watch the woman you LOVE having a great time with other guys fucking her knowing she is doing this with you right there with her is the most exiting thing of all.
    I love to see my woman penetrated by a man with a large cock and to watch him fuck her with all his might. He wants to give his cock a pleasure using my wife and she wants to feel him fucking her as if his life depended on it. Since your first fuck when you met, she will never feel that forceful fuck from you again. So give it to her with friends and others.

    I would say of the 30 or 40 guys I know and I think most are married, they all want this at some time in their relationship.

    It is probably the most common desire that any man in a long tern relationship would want.

    Just be sure to fuck those guys with all the passion you have and share every bit of the experience before, during and after with the guy who brought those cocks to you. Because as much as you loved being the fuck slut for a night and cumming more than you ever dreamed of, he was having one long orgasm along with you.

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  • by curiousyvonne on February 10th, 2011

    curiousyvonne

    I am a married woman, and fantasising about sex with strangers is not uncommon for women to masturbate to. I reckon then that most women would like to experience a little elicit sex like threeesomes, and so being watched or participating in such a scenario is very exciting.......at least it is to me! I have had sex with another man, and other women whilst my husband was present. It's a massive turn on and does NOT mean I don't love him or care for him. it's just the added excitement it brings to our relationship. And it works both ways too.......... watching him fuck another woman is just as exciting.........

    Try before you condemn !!

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  • by anon on December 8th, 2009

    anon

    I've actually talked to many of my married guy friends about this. Maybe it's just us, but we all agree that we want it, and it makes us all very horny! A couple of my married guy friends have actually done it and they loved it and recommend that I do it too. However, I have not been able to convince my wife. She LOVES the fantasy while I use a dildo on her! but won't allow it to become a reality. :(

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  • by good2know on November 24th, 2009

    good2know

    its a huge turn on for me and I personally enjoy watching her get satsified while she pleases the other guy or girl which ever it maybe.as long as she enjoys herself I have no problem with what ever she chooses to do

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  • by Bugs-Bunny on March 13th, 2009

    Bugs-Bunny

    First of all, this is certainly not all men and is probably something like 5% of men who like this. I do not know any men personally in my 40 years who openly said this, so to me it belongs in the fetish category of things - not regular stuff.

    However, for those who do, it is because it is totally taboo and they like to see their woman (or man) getting pleasured by somebody else. They like to see how they respond to different things and different cocks/pussies, etc. It is a mental thing, not a physical thing.

    And, to be honest, we have no place to say anything negative about it provided they do not step on our toes. To each his own --- let them go out and fuck their brains out in a gangbang if they like. Its their life.

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  • by Llamarama on January 20th, 2009

    Llamarama

    Scientifically speaking, the chemical induced feeling of being "in love" generally lasts a short amount of time in relationships which transitions to just the general love towards someone. The same can be said for the sexual aspect of the relationship. The intense sexual attraction a couple feels towards each other can fade over time, so many couples look to certain sexual practices to "spice up" their relationship. Some begin to use sex toys or partake in role playing, others reach out to other couples or singles to add something new to what would normally be the two same old lovers. It's just all about making things more interesting and more sexually satisfying. Hope that helped!

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  • by sunshine on December 7th, 2009

    sunshine

    adventure

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  • by dookie on January 22nd, 2009

    dookie

    Because women are sluts, and I like to see sluts like my wife get fucked!!

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  • by yellowpete on January 18th, 2011

    yellowpete

    I would love to watch my wife get fucked by another guy.I just am not sure how to ask her.She has flashed many times,completely naked with her legs wide open,giving a great close up of her tits and pussy.Mostly to truck drivers.I have seen how excited this has gotten her,me as well, and I would like to take it further.Should I start by doing the flashing and then letting them play with her tits and pussy first and then take it from there,or should I just ask her if she wants to do it.

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  • by mdyx69 on September 30th, 2010

    mdyx69

    I have been married for 5 years to a wonderful SLUT.. I love to see her get fuked by other guys and gals. She loves the same with me.. With females that is.. It is the most exiting thing you could ever do..

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  • by Larry on April 9th, 2010

    Larry

    We have been sharing with our friends for over 25 years - It's no longer exciting, it's just what we do on our weekends together. It's normal for us.

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  • by Doe_John on January 22nd, 2009

    Doe_John

    For me, I am not interested in sharing. While I did threesomes when I was in college, I do not want to see my wife with anyone elses dick in her and I know she doesn't want to see me with my dick in anyone else.

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  • by anonymous on November 21st, 2008

    anonymous

    i really don't think it is exciting

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  • by FelixTheKitty on October 13th, 2011

    FelixTheKitty

    I don't want any other guy near my woman. Shes MY woman. I'm the only one who gets to fuck her.

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  • by DJKsub on December 27th, 2010

    DJKsub

    i will never be with another man while my bf and i are together but He wants some strange and what He wants, He gets. Different for me as we are an M/s couple & it makes me weak in the knees that He enjoys making me watch! He is the best i've ever had so i love to watch another girl's face as He is getting her off, knowing how good she's getting it. And i LOVE to watch Him when she gets him off - LOVE it! For me it is completely natural and right that he should be with other women - and that i should watch.

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  • by rebellious angel on November 15th, 2010

    rebellious angel

    That's me. I don't want some bitch intruding on my time with my man. I don't need his dick in some random-ass twat. I'm not a prude. I love freaky shit. I do swallow. I do damn near everything, but I don't need a third party.

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  • by Mighty_Mouse on September 28th, 2010

    Mighty_Mouse

    I would be willing to place a bet on a few non-confirmed statistics.
    a. the average age of the swinger/swapper/open marriage --37
    b. there are more guys out there fantasizing about it than will openly admit to being excited about it
    c. there are less than 5% of women willing to share their life partner and more than 20% of guys who have shared theirs.
    d. of the guys who give permission for wife to go and fuck, they do it because they would rather know, watch, or participate than just suspect the wife is cheating.
    e. relationships (unless in college) dont start of with sharing or being open (

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  • by tasty on March 1st, 2011

    tasty

    dkslut - let mejust say this - you need to work on your self esteem. I promise you you will find it more exciting and become turned on when you r getting satisfied by a big fat cock or tongue sucking & licking your pusssy.........

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  • by rebellious angel on April 10th, 2011

    rebellious angel

    lol not me or my boyfriend. We'd get extremely jealous

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  • by whowantssome on May 24th, 2012

    whowantssome

    Share your answer...

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  • by melpoole on July 10th, 2011

    melpoole

    Having sex with another mans wife while he watches is a fantastic turn on for all 3 involved. I love to watch other men and women having sex with my wife. the sight of my wife with another mans cock in her mouth drives me wild.Watching her going down on another womans pussy is so sexy,she enjoys seeing me with other women and gives my lots of vocal encouragement. If we only had sex with each other it would soon become very boring I belive. melpoole141@gmail.com

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  • by Nibble nibble bite nibble on January 22nd, 2009

    Nibble nibble bite nibble

    Let's say I was married. I will not let my husband talk me into fucking another man. I don't want to watch him fuck another woman. And if there's a 3 some going on, it's me, him, and a dildo. I don't share well with others.

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