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My wife regularly uses corporal punishment to dicispline me and enforce boundaries. When I was younger and out of control she was ready to leave me after nothing worked to control my behavior. A trusted friend of hers came over and recommended using harsh spankings and whippings to punishment me when I misbehaved, just as you would a teenager. Faced with this I reluctantly agreed and within minutes I found myself over her friends lap getting the worst hairbrush spanking of my life on my bare ass. My cries for mercy through my agonized sobbing fell on deaf ears. She taught my wife how to implement this in our home and although I have had to suffer through countless severe belt whippings and hairbrush spankings I know this is for my own good and I have given her no other choice. She does it because she loves me. When I feel sting and welts and the eventual iching all over my bottom for days afterward, I have a great deal of respect and a healthy fear of her that strengthens my love for her.
yes .. women do spank men .. my girlfriend makes me pull down my pants while she sits on a chair or the edge of the bed and i have to lay across her knee for a very hard long spanking .. or she makes me stand while she uses the riding crop.. i love being a bad boy
She sure does, 2 and sometimes 3 times a week. She has a good strong sturdy chair that she sits on and calls me over. She tells me what I did wrong and verbally reprimands me for doing whatever I did. She then has me take my shirt off, amd lower my pants and panties (which I wear 24/7). The verbal lecture continues while I stand there with my hands behind my back. Finually, she orders me accross her lap and with any one of her impliments (ping pong paddle, heavy hair brush, leather strap and sometimes a cane) she starts BLISTERING my HIDE. Depending on the instrument she uses will normally dictate how many swats I get or even the severity of the offense. Thirty to forty swats later I am crying and begging her to stop, so she usually continues for 10 more then has me go to the corner with my hands behind the back of my head and with a quarter for me to hold against the wall with my NOSE.....DON'T LET IT FALL. While this corner time is happening, she usually watches T.V. or plays some games on her computer. Corner time is about 45 minutes. When its over, my wive usually holds and hugs me while I am crying and THANKING her for her time that she gave me to correct me. At this time I feel closer to her then any other time of the day or night.
Ladies, PLEASE do this to your husband and you will CLEARLY SEE A BIG DIFFERENCE IN HIM,
and guess what,,,,his love for you will double by leaps and bounds. GOOD LUCK
I spank my husband on a regular basis. It is purely discipline and no lead in to sex. A good trip over my knee is the only thing he understands and since I am physically stronger than him and its no problem taking him by the nape of his neck and putting him over my knee. I use a 12 inch paddle on his bare bottom which brings on the tears in no time and trust me gets results in his attitude. So ladies I personally recommend you treat your hubby like a naughty boy and paddle him good. You will love the results. R
Yes, wives do spank their husbands but usually the initial spankings begin with the husband asking the wife for a spanking.
We (men) often find it easier to take a spanking than the cold shoulder. It also makes us more accountable and respectful. If a man asks you to spank him give him a real hard spanking to let him know that you are capable of spanking and will demand respect. He will forever be in your service. This may seem against your natural instinct not to cause harm but in the end you are showing your man that you love him and accept him. A firm hard spanking that gets the point across but isn't cruel. He will listen to what you have to say during and after the spanking. It is just the way men are wired and yes it has certain sexual and erotic underpinings. So, if you are craving certain sexual services or domestic chores right after the spanking is the time to lay the law down.
Good luck ladies.....and don't be afraid to spank! It works!!
Typically my wife will order me to my knees and slap me across the face. I generally obey her well so it's not typically necessary but the right to disipline is essential in any D/S relationship IMO.
MY WIFE SPANKS ME ABOUT ONCE A WEEK FOR JUST ABOUT ANYTHING.I HAVE TO LAY ACCROSS HER LAP NUDE AND SHE SPANKS ME UNTIL I AM IN TEARS.MY MOTHER IN LAW WALKED IN ON US ONCE AND MY WIFE HAD HER TO WATCH. WHEN MY WIFE WAS DONE I HAD TO LAY ACCROSS MY MOTHER IN LAWS LAP,STILL NUDE,WHILE SHE SPANKED ME TO TEARS.
erm...yeah.
but only if they are into that
stuff.
I recently asked my wife to spank me on a regular basis, i do not get spanked for bad behavior (but i think this is about to change) but i get a reward spanking for doing the housework, shopping , etc. The spankings i receive are quite mild at the moment(otk with hand) but i fear this is about to change as she has ordered a cane, tawse and paddle as well as a new wooden hairbrush which will all start to arrive in the next few days, so gentlemen "be careful what you wish for"
My wife spanks me nearly every day to make sure I do my daily chores, and if not done to her liking get extras next day and another day of no orgasem.
my wife gives me an good hard spanking over her knee>I have to brush her hair for an half hour,and then she gives me an good spanking.
yes they do I know as my wife spanks me about 3 times a week. She is very happy with the results as my behavior has changed for the better
my wife spanks me when i get her upset.. i have found out it is better to get a red hot bottom instead of hours of arguments followted by long periods of silence. sure my rear hurts bur it is over and done quickly and soon forgotten.
my wive will give me a good hard spanking with a metal spatula in public if i am real bad she always carries it in her purse just in case my normal spankings last about an hour somtimes more if she is really mad! when i get spanked it is ALWAYS bare bottemed an HARD then when we get home or already at home, just to keep me in line shell tell me to strip and lay on tummy on the bed ill listen bc i dont want another spanking then once im on the bed shell spank me again then shell give me an enema to keep me in line and in to scared to tell her that i dont like it but if she stops ill stay with her any way and ill be good what should i do? so yes wives do spank their husbands.
Husband has never asked me too, if he did I would without hestitation
When my wife wants a vigorous pounding when we are having sex she gives my bare bottom a thoroughly good, hard smacking - the harder she spanks the harder the pounding she gets. Have to sleep on my stomach afterwards though.
Yes, some wives spank their husbands. My wife spanks me a couple times a week. Though it always leads us to sex my wife has the green light to spank me to relieve stress and frustration. As others have said it is better to have a red bum and move past it than a could shoulder and/or silence. Don't be afraid to spank if he goes along with it!
Of course they do!
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Yes my dom-wife/owner spanks me every day to remind me of my status as owned property. My daily maintenance spankings are usually given with a leather paddle. More severe punishment spankings are administered with either a thick leather strap or a riding crop is used to target my exposed anus and butt crack.
As a matter of getting along better my wife and I have a domestic relations contract. All discipline is administered on my bare botttom while I lay over several pillows under my hips across her bed. The pillows raise my bottom so she gets very good direct clean hard strokes. She will discipline me twice each week, 25 very hard swats with a wooden paddle (18 inches long ( handle part is 4 of these 18 inches), 4 inches wide, and 1/2 inch thick Oak) she had me make for her every Wednesday and 40 very hard swats every Saturday. If I act up, like I did last Thursday at the store, she told me I would get 50 when we got home. Well, one of the grandkids got sick before we returned home so she went to watch her that evening. Since she was unable to discipline me the day I got out of line, I received the 50 very hard swats the next evening plus 20% interest per day for each day they were delayed. The 60 really hurt and the very next day I received the 40 regularly scheduled so it was 100 in less than 24 hours. Sunday it was hard to find a comfortable sitting position no matter how many pillows I used. She smiled and said if I got out of line the same way again, I would get 75. No way, I am being very good from now on. My the way this month, so far I have received 320 swats and it is only the 24th. This discipline had made me stop and think before acting several times, so it really does work.
I've been happily married for 25 yrs. and spanking has grown and grown. It used to be a few swats before sex but as we have got older I like her to do it properly and more leisurely. We still have great sex afterwards and partly that is because of the spanking. I am still head of the house so it is only a bedroom thing and besides it is what I ask her to do. If she asked to spank me that would be great but we are where we are and it is our secret.
My girlfreind spanked me all the itme. SHe sometimes uses her belt. A lot of times I can not sit down for a couple of days except for when I have to. She makes me sit down sometimes.
My girlfreind spanked me all the itme. SHe sometimes uses her belt. A lot of times I can not sit down for a couple of days except for when I have to. She makes me sit down sometimes.
I am a woman who spanks her husband who is an alpha male that needs to be kept in check from time to time. He is spanked for violating my rules an for bad behavior. I believe the mental aspects of spanking are as important as the physical part. We have a spanking ritual that incorporates scolding, shaming, and some form of humiliation.
Establishing control mentally of your man before, during, and after discipline is important. It can be quite simple most of the time. My husband isn't a cross dresser so panties are an important part of controlling him. Just mentioning panties makes him embarrassed and beet red with shame. Also, the tone of voice you use combined with panties creates a submissive little boy mindset. I use mostly a maternal tone. Once you have have him in that little boy sub space he's putty in your hands.
Prior to scolding and shaming put your yourself in a dominant postion over him. Make him kneel before whether your are sitting or standing. This creates a submissive position for him.
It's always good to expose his secret in public. But be judicious about when, where, and how often you do this. It's not prudent to fully expose his secret in your local area. You can hint around the subject so others may not take it serious but he knows full well what you mean. When out of your local area it can be no holds barred. When needed or as added punishment verbally express your intentions when in public. Even negative reactions will be a great embarrassment to him.
Recently we rented a cabin at a resort. On the way to the resort he became bull headed about a couple of issues and even engaged in some low level road rage. He was informed he'd be disciplined when we go to the resort. At the resort he was immediately put in panties and told he was going to be spanked. He could wear nothing else inside the cabin and had to wear them under his clothes outside. We were there for 3 days but I did make good on my promise to spank him until the 3rd day. It was a sunday and all the other campers were leaving but we there until Monday afternoon. While the other campers were packing up I opened all the windows and curtains. Then ordered him into the back bedroom. With him kneeling before me with his panties at his knees I began to loudly scold him. I loudly described his earlier behavior as childish and he would be spanked like a lil boy since he couldn't control himself. He had to repeat what I told him and I made him speak up so others might hear. Then he was made to lay over the end of the bed and his spanking started. I scold while spanking so all those outside could hear me asking questions like who's in charge, what did you act like etc. There could be no doubt in anyone's mind outside as to what was going on inside the cabin. My scolding, the spanks resounding off the wall and him sounding like a lil nine year old all added to shame as others could hear. After I was done spanking him he was made to go outside and clean up around the cabin. I watched the other campers either smiling or sneering at him. But it didn't end there. Unfortunately for him I get a kick out of embarrassing him.
I usually take pictures of his spankings as a reminder and we had reservations to go horseback riding after his spanking. Prior to taking off on the horses I asked the guide to take a picture of us on the horses. I handed her our camera but forgot to take it off the view mode. Sooo, the first thing she saw was his beet red ass with his panties around his knees. Both young adult female guides got a good giggle out it. As we rode they took turns asking him if he was sore yet!??
His punishment continued that evening he had to wear white swim trunks with bright pink panties under it. You couldn't see much until the trunks got wet. Then you could see the pink ruffles very well. Fortunately for him there was only one other couple in the pool but the female notice and got a wry grin on her face. He husband must need glasses as he didn't notice.
As we go ready to leave the next day he had to turn in the key at the check out counter. I was done with punishing him and he had a clean slate. However, his shame went on quite by accident. Unknown to him the check out girls had been restocking towels in the adjacent cabin when he received his spanking. They had a clear view through the opened curtain of me spanking him. They saw his pantied bottom, the kneeling, then his little boy like gyrations as he was being spanked. They commented saying: "I see you must have been a bad little boy but you looked cute in your panties though!"
Just thought I'd share...
yes, I have experienced this as well. Mainly from older ladies (girlfriends) than myself. it didnt take long to end arguements and change the actions which led to my spanking. However, grounding, extra chores, or earlier bed time came with the spanking. If more ladies used spanking than divorce would decrease.
i wish mine Would
I'm 65 and my wife is 62. She began hand spanking me about two years ago as a new foreplay exeriance. It was playful and fun. Then she stopped for some reason. A few months ago, I mentioned to her that I wouldn't mind her doing it again. She told me she stopped because she began having urges to "punish" me by spanking me much harder and more often.
When I told her I was alright with that, she said OK, but to remember that I asked for it. That night she gave me a pretty serious spanking with my wooden hairbrush. Shortly after, she ordered a paddle online and now uses it exclusively.
We now have spanking sessions several times a week. In fact, she has laid down a rule of no sex without a spanking first. And the spankings have gotten progressively longer and harder. She tells me that I'm a bad boy and she is going to keep spanking me until I learn to behave. I never complain, although I do squirm around and grunt a lot.
I actualy enjoy it, especially the anticipation when she tells me to expect a hard spanking after dinner. Another plus is our sex is great now. Better than ever.
I think they but a few.Just because it's always been a taboo for women to hit their husbands,it is rare.
She sure does. She has a big wooden paddle and it is not playing around by any means.if I argue or make her mad, she makes me strip and bend over the bed she usually gives about twenty five swats as hard as she can make them. I usually cannot sit easily afterwards
I've asked my wife to spank me, but she says I haven't been naughty enough.
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