That's a tough one. This is also hard to answer because we don't know why the ex-boyfriend is your ex. Perhaps that will help you answer your own question, why did the relationship end with your former boyfriend? If you all loved each other and it was a healthy relationship, you would probably still be together, right? Many people make the mistake of starting a new relationship before they have allowed themselves proper time to get over the one that has ended. You're not alone, that's for sure. You have a many options, such as: You could dump your current boyfriend and try to reconcile with your ex. Do not attempt reconciliation with your ex while you are still actively seeing your current boyfriend, that's just not a nice thing to do. If it doesn't work out, then you have lost them both. You could, at the risk of hurting him, discuss your feeling with your current boyfriend and ask for some time to figure out what you want to do. Your current boyfriend might not like the idea and he could decide to just end his relationship with you. Or he might be very understanding and give you some space. Or you can simply resolve to move on from your past relationship once and for all and focus on your current one. From my experience, this has always been the best choice. Obviously, there are countless things you could do and these are just a few suggestions. Hope this helps :)

Stop. Contemplate. You would never want to hurt your current boyfriend right? Decide. Think hard. You will never be happy it you stay that way.

First, you must ask yourself, how do you feel about your ex-boyfriend. Why did you break up? If it's because of something that you did, or he did, in the past and it can be easily forgiven, then try to re-kindle things. However, be aware that the odds are against your relationship working out with your ex; especially, since it didn't work out before. Bottom line: Follow your heart, but use your head! Good luck!

im in the same situation. i really think what you should do is give your ex as much space as possible and try to avoid contact or conversations. ive been battling this for years now and it hasnt gotten any better. the best thing i can recommend is distance.