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by shauna4life on July 15th, 2008

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How should i tell my boyfriend that i dont want to go to his house again? im a shy person and when i went to his house for the first time his family is really loud and they kinda scared me so i didnt talk unless i was asked a question.

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  • by MoToxXxPrincess on July 15th, 2008

    MoToxXxPrincess

    Explain what you just typed, to him. Tell him about the previous experiance and try to get him to empathize with you. Ask him "haven't you ever felt like this at work/school, etc.?". However, on the counter of this, this is his family, and if you want to be with him, you will have to accept this. It's all about acclimating to your environment. Perhaps joining his family on a public outing, where they arent too comfortable to act completely as they would in the comfort of their own home, would ween you in slowly.

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  • by -O-uknow on August 16th, 2008

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    Avoid suggesting that his folks are ghetto.

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  • by Dancing Lady Limbs on August 16th, 2008

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    I think instead of telling him you don't want to go, you should make yourself go. The more time you spend with the family, the more comfortable you'll be. It's important to make sacrifices for those you care about.

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  • by Stu B needs no COAT for summer on August 16th, 2008

    Stu B needs no COAT for summer

    If you and he truly care about each other, you should be able to be honest and tell him directly...maybe this will be a good test of your relationship...

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  • by Jane on August 16th, 2008

    Jane

    dont give up. you'll have to get used to them, its overwhelming right now but once you get to know them i'm sure it will be ok

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  • by Nninee on August 16th, 2008

    Nninee

    Talk to him about it.

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  • by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on August 16th, 2008

    TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT

    if you can not handle his family and do not want to learn how to, I guess you only intend to be a short term relationship for this guy?

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  • by Anonymous on July 15th, 2008

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    Don't tell him that you don't want to go, just tell him that you were uncomfortable and let him catch the hint. Probably after you get to know him a little better, it will be easier to deal with his family.

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