How should i tell my boyfriend that i dont want to go to his house again? im a shy person and when i went to his house for the first time his family is really loud and they kinda scared me so i didnt talk unless i was asked a question.
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shauna4life
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Don't tell him that you don't want to go, just tell him that you were uncomfortable and let him catch the hint. Probably after you get to know him a little better, it will be easier to deal with his family.
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Explain what you just typed, to him. Tell him about the previous experiance and try to get him to empathize with you. Ask him "haven't you ever felt like this at work/school, etc.?". However, on the counter of this, this is his family, and if you want to be with him, you will have to accept this. It's all about acclimating to your environment. Perhaps joining his family on a public outing, where they arent too comfortable to act completely as they would in the comfort of their own home, would ween you in slowly.
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Talk to him about it.
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if you can not handle his family and do not want to learn how to, I guess you only intend to be a short term relationship for this guy?
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dont give up. you'll have to get used to them, its overwhelming right now but once you get to know them i'm sure it will be ok
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If you and he truly care about each other, you should be able to be honest and tell him directly...maybe this will be a good test of your relationship...
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I think instead of telling him you don't want to go, you should make yourself go. The more time you spend with the family, the more comfortable you'll be. It's important to make sacrifices for those you care about.
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Avoid suggesting that his folks are ghetto.
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