ANSWERS: 5
  • I'd probably have to know more about your situation, but my guess is that he was probably embarrassed that you dumped him so he wanted everyone to think he dumped you first. Why he was afraid to be loved? Well, guys don't like to be smoothered by women and sometimes we can be smoothering. Women are more emotional and most men can be detached when it comes to the emotions. They think being a tough guy is what makes them a man, and being lovey dovey is not tough.
  • I know what you are saying. I dated this E5 in tha Army and he said he was ready for a relationship and that he had strong feelings for me but then broke up with me. They do it because they get scared, and dont want to feel trapped. Its not that you did anything wrong they just spook easily i guess.
  • Sometimes our version of loved and cared for comes across as clingy and smothering.I did that mistake.They are not emotionaly availible to return the favor. We have to learn that we did the best we could for them and heal and move on when we can.
  • People are rarely really afraid to be loved and cared for...it's simply that they would rather be loved and cared for by someone else.
  • Well could you immagine that conversation between two guys? So uh why'd ya dump her? "I was really affraid to be loved and cared for by someone." Oh..........So can I call her?

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