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by Freaky_Chick on October 31st, 2006

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I'm 13 and I think I might be suffering from depression. I'm always crying and I've thought about suicide. I told my mom about it but she said there's nothing wrong with me. I've asked her to take me to a doctor but she said no. W

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  • by Stableboy on October 31st, 2006

    Stableboy

    Its not unusual for kids who are becoming teenagers to have bouts of depression. Sometimes they have trouble getting family members to take the problem seriously. That doesn't mean your mother doesn't love you, but it doesn't make things easy, either.

    Adolescence is a hard time: your body is changing, your mind is changing, your friends and school may be changing too. You're expected to grow up, and may not know what that means. There are all sorts of things that cause stress.

    Its very important that you find someone to talk to who is wise and a good listener. Often that means a counselor or therapist, but a family friend, clergy, relative, or other adult can be helpful too. You may find that friends your own age -- while they want to help -- are going through some of the same things and have trouble really listening. Lots of people will want to give you advice, and often that's not what's needed.

    There are support services available for depression in many counties which are operated by the Social Services agency. A look through the County government section of your phone book might be helpful. If you keep your eyes open and keep looking, there's a good chance you'll find someone who can provide the support you need.

    Good luck.

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  • by Anonymous on November 25th, 2006

    Anonymous

    Dear FC,

    If your mother will not help you, then get help for yourself! There IS something wrong yes, and it can get out of control and you could hurt yourself possibly. And that is not necessary.

    If you feel the school counselor is good and you like them, tell them all of this, and ask them to help you because your mother will not. By law, they must help you I believe. If you do not have a counselor you like or who you feel will help you, when you are by yourself or with a friend you can trust, call 911 or the Fire Paramedics and ask them to please take you to a hospital because you have had thoughts of killing yourself, & you want help but your mother will not help you get it.

    Another option if you have any firneds who drive, is to have them take you to a hospital emergency room and ask to talk to a counselor or nurse or doctor because you have been depressed and thinking about hurting yourself-suicide. They MUST help you there, and you will get help whether your mother will help you get it or not.

    Good luck to you, and please keep in touch with us here! Hospital nurses and doctors have alot of great ways of helping you quickly, and that is personally what I would suggest if you can get to a big hospital emergency room safely.

    TTUL OK?
    TC

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  • by Mini_kilt on October 31st, 2006

    Mini_kilt

    If you don't feel your mom has helped, try talking to a teacher or counsellor at your school, maybe a friends parent or any other adult, there are lots of ways to feel better, and LOTS of people go through this same thing, I did. If you can't find help through an adult, try here
    http://www.lvol.com/lvlc/imphone.html

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  • by ravinman on October 31st, 2006

    ravinman

    FC, Are you currently planning to commit suicide?

    My heart goes out to you as I can remember when my daughter died from a drunk driver accident the way I felt ...must be similar to the way you feel...very helpless...but, you know...things do get better the and better...

    When we experience the very lows in our lives the highs are just that much better...Be Patient...PLEASE...

    Please call collect, I found this on the internet for you...

    Crisis intervention hotlines that accept calls from the suicidal, or anyone who wishes to discuss a problem, are (in New York City) The Samaritans at 212-673-3000 and Helpline at 212-532-2400.

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  • by staffie on December 20th, 2006

    staffie

    hi there im so sorry to hear this. This happens to a lot of people because unless you have been through depression yourself you cant really begin to know what it is like, therefore most people will tell you to snap out of it or "get over it" but its not as easy as that. if your mum wont listen matbe you could chat to some1 you trust like a family member or teacher. i know its hard because ive been there myself but with a bit of help you will get there and be happy again like you was before. i hope you really do find help because life really can be good again i know ive been there
    take care :)

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  • by curiousKristy on January 4th, 2007

    curiousKristy

    If your mom won't help you, you need to help yourself. Talk to a counselor at school or talk to a teacher if you feel comfortable.

    You can get through this, accept help from others and be honest with yourself.

    I hope you get some help.

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  • by -Ben 10- on January 1st, 2007

    -Ben 10-

    Hey FC,,,

    Don't worry about anything.If you think positively everything will get on well nicely.Pour out your depression or sadness to your friends whom you like the most.

    The problem with you is that you are not sharing
    what you have in your mind and you are confusing yourself.No need of any doctor .am I right?

    Don't be always remote.Life is running.You may have to overcome many difficulties and obsticles in your life.

    If you shift your house or change your school don't be depressed.Have an habit of writing in diary or rememberance notebook

    Always mingle with others ,talk freely.

    All the best..........

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  • by bowlinggreen on January 1st, 2007

    bowlinggreen

    I'm sorry you're feeling this way. When I was young I would cry very easily. Being a teenager is not easy because emotions are very volatile and you are also at an age where you're realizing how much bullsh*t there is in the world. This is called disillusionment. Life is a spiritual journey and sometimes it's very hard, and other times it's great. Often it is just in between, kind of in between. Someone to talk to about your feelings would be the best bet. A doctor may just prescribe pills and making the decisio to take them should not be made lightly. In young people such as yourself, antidepressants have been known to make things worse. Generally, it's best to try other things first. Do you keep a journal? Do you have a trusted counselor or confidante? Please do take care of yourself, and if you are feeling so bad that you think of suicide, please call a hotline. These people are trained to speak to those who are feeling down and they are very compassionate. My heart goes out to you. Happy new year!

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  • by lannab on January 14th, 2007

    lannab

    okae dont do anything you will regret later and life. live life to the fullest but dont do anything to hurt yourself. your 13 gezz. you shouldnt feel this way. maybe something happen you just need to talk to to someone about. believe me i cry alot but crying sometimes help. but dont cut or hurt yourself.

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  • by ... on January 1st, 2007

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    FC ....I understand the depression. I had it as a teenager too. It was especially bad after my parents divorced and concentrated on their own problems so I had to deal with it myself. I found solace with good, stable friends who cared about me and their parents who knew I was going through a tough time and cared also. Please take the advice of the ABers here that have provided you some ways to cope. I think they all have given excellent advice that you can use. Please remember that there are a ton of ABers that want you to be happy and safe and we are waiting to hear from you!

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  • by Thomas_Edison .. oh so sexy on January 1st, 2007

    Thomas_Edison .. oh so sexy

    hey im sorry this answer is a bit late. But I saw the question and I knew I had to answer it. I have had a great home but have been constantly depressed for the last 3 years. In the middle of 2006 i overdosed on panadol at school. That morning I thought no one cared about me. That morning a little later I knew that there were people there for me. Teachers are great but not the best. But I found comfort talking to counsellors online. In australia here we have this site called kids help line but I dont think you can access it. I know how you feel when people suggest councellors but its a good way to head. they arnt physcopaths they are down to earth helpful people. I still feel suicidal now but I know that there are people out there for me. and thats what keeps me alive. So look out for people, but if you cant find anyone can I be there for you?

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  • by Shelby on May 30th, 2007

    Shelby

    You don't need your mothers permission to talk to someone about the way you are feeling. Every school has counsellors you can talk to. Even your favourite teacher would be more than happy to help. Your mom shouldn't be dismissing it, as it could be a serious issue.

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  • by dhubsith on January 14th, 2007

    dhubsith

    I hope you are feeling better by the time you read this.

    I would not be 13 again for ANYTHING.

    There are many, many good sites on depression, if your environment doesn't seem to have trustworthy people abounding. Put "depression" in your favorite search engine and start reading.

    I have used some of About.com's forums and felt positive about the experience.

    If you keep searching for help, you will find it. Use it when you find it.

    In one way, your mother is correct. There is nothing "wrong" with you. That does not mean that you don't deserve help and support. You deserve it!

    Adolescence is difficult. Often adults forget just how difficult. I hope you soon find or have already found comforting help already.

    Best of luck to you.

    Journalling is an excellent idea.

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