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by STAR on July 11th, 2008

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My ex started doing drugs (cocaine) again after he broke up with me and got a new g/f who does it with him. Now I'm dating this awesome guy and just found out from a friend that he smokes pot a lot. I don't do drugs so I'm kind of freaked out. Advice?

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  • by Snowman on July 11th, 2008

    Snowman

    That's a pretty fundamental difference. Maybe look for someone else? Next time bring the topic up earlier.

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  • by rock on July 11th, 2008

    rock

    stay single

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  • by jangobean on July 11th, 2008

    jangobean

    He smoked pot before you met him and you still liked him.
    It depends on your feelings and attitudes towards drugs. It's great that you don't do drugs, but a lot of people do, and it doesn't always make them bad people.
    Are you afraid that he will persuade you to join him?
    If this is the case then you should tell him.

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  • by R.I.P. Gerald Malone on July 11th, 2008

    R.I.P. Gerald Malone

    Find you a man who doesn't do drugs! :)

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  • by jacktl on September 3rd, 2008

    jacktl

    I've done those substances and being in uni you come a cross a lot of it and a lot of ppl who do it. My advice to you is as follows.

    If you like this guy and he treats you right, don't worry about him smoking pot. Just make sure that he knows and that he knows that you know that doing whatever substance and harming your body is not an acceptable thing in the long run. It's just some recreational fun but that's it. So make sure that he doesn't over do anything and he keeps away from the more abusive and more harmful chemicals (cocaine IMO is more harmful and susceptible to abuse). Smoking a bit of pot isn't such a big deal, but like I said just make sure he doesn't over do it. I know a lot of couples where the girl doesn't do anything but the guys do but none of them have a substance abuse problem (at least not yet, that's the dangerous part, and if the person doing such substances has a brain, they will know it's just a curiosity experience and/or recreational and makes sure that just like alcohol, they wouldn't let the substances get in the way of their everyday life, which in this case is his relationship with you).

    My 2 cents.

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  • by sawzaz on September 3rd, 2008

    sawzaz

    Find someone with your values.This will create the same types of problems down the road.Good Luck..

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