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  • WHOA calm down there. Seriously no one likes a person who leaves them 32 texts and calls them over and over. Its obvious he's over the relationship. Let it go and dont EVER leave 32 messages within 4 days again. 1 maybe 2 is sufficient
  • After all that effort on your part and still no response, you probably won't need to worry about making that decision.
  • no... unlesshe is had acaraccident and is in a coma but his parents cant get hold of your number ANYWHERE -and he has forgotten you completely.
  • um maybe he is hurt??? dont be so "pshycho" caus 32 txts screams psycho-stalker! he is probably fine but needs a break from you & by sending him so many texts n calln him like a fiend you are jus proving to him why he needed a break from you in the 1st place. also, he may be a gut-less jerk who is breaking up with u the "silent" way.. hoping you will get the hint & he doesnt hav to do the messy break-up fight. lame
  • Hah XDDD nah, he knows im no crazy phyco and his friend texts me back and says hes there, like hes asking his friend to answer the phone or something, but he wont text me back. The text messages that just haven't been answered by him that were directed to him was like, five over a four day period But yeah.. I was really feeling like he was letting go of me silently...
  • my boyfriend hasnt spoken to me since 8.30yesterday morning, he went to a concert last night so i can understand that and he's got work from 3.30-8.30 tonight. i've rung him 3times on his cellphone, twice yesterday and once today and i've sent him about 6 text messages. This has been a huge effort on my part, and all i can think about is whether or not he's trying to break up with me without actually doing it. He often leaves his phone at home etc, so this could be the reason, i just don't know. Im going to call him tonight at 9pm, so he will definitley be home from work, and then if his mum, dad or sister say he isnt there im going to say to them "look, i haven't heard from leon is two days, im really quite worried and i would appreciate him getting in touch with me, so heres my home phone number*incase he's lost his phone and cant find my number anywhere.we've only been going out for just over a month, and i saw him on the weekend and we had a really nice time together. im trying to stay positive butits really hard, so i can understand the position your in. my advice to you is to leave your phone, dont call him or text him for a further 2 days, after that you should ring him at home at a time you know he will be there and if his parents or siblings say he's not there then tell them what has been going on, because they will pressure your boyfriend into getting into contact with you. hope everything works out for you, im also hoping it will work out for me.
  • Everything you just described that you did would leave any man to stop talking to you. Calm down and get your own life. Hang with friends, go shopping, clean the house, do anything to keep yourself from picking up the phone or driving to his house. Wait for him to call, if he doesn't or hasn't called, it's over. It's hard and your heart will be broken but you will get over it trust me. Shoot go on a date or something and rebound! :-)
  • oook chill. i can c y he wont answer. he probably needs his space. wow thats too many attempts to contact him. sorry but thats the truth
  • I think you should stop texting and calling, and give him some space.
  • 3 things come to mind. 1)Chuck his sorry ass for answering all the opportunities you gave him 2) Check all the hospitals in a 50 mile radius- dont forget the morgues 3) Get a clue
  • Haha lol I think he's not calling because you're annoying leave him alone for a while geesh chill out!
  • Unless he's dead, it is obvious that he is not interested in a relationship with you. but like most people told you on here, leaving all those texts is INSANE ! in future relationships, try to control yourself ! Nobody likes an over protective and controlling partner. from a guy point of view- women who run after us like that are considered "easy"...that is NOT the image you want to give anybody. BE STRONG ! we like caracter!
  • check he's alive first
  • seems like he wants you to leave him.
  • Wow, that would annoy me and I'm not even a guy. Clingy and obsessive much? A guy only has so much time on his hands.
  • Did you not gather after the first 2 days or the first few messages that he wasn't going to reply? Yeah you could stay with him.....but sounds like he's ready to leave you.
  • Wow, 32 text messages. Holy overkill!. Perhaps he needs a break from so much communication. Just leave him one message and wait patiently for him to get back to you. If this is unlike him and you are concerned about his well being, just go to his house.

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