Depending on how he does it, you can block websites using your internet browser with a password. If he doesnt know that you know, you can hide or throw away any magazines and he may not confront you because he doesnt want you to know...

It's called NetNanny....

You can't "stop" him. You can talk with him about how it makes you feel. You can ask him why he does it. You can ask him what purpose it serves for him. Tell him if it makes you uncomfortable. If you think he looks at it execessively or it is becoming a problem in your relationship, tell him. Looking at porn is fairly normal for most men. As long as it doesn't interupt his daily life, as long as he is not obsessed with it, or looking at scary stuff like violent porn, kiddie porn, etc, it is OK. Men are visually stimulated and have (in general) a higher sexual curioisty than women do. Their use of porn almost never has anything to do with their satisfaction level with their partner. It is usually a hobby or a stress reliver. It is an ounce of escapism. You can't "make" him stop. But you can find a comprimise, let him know how you feel and set some boundaries.

no prblem its normal happening in this age.

Threaten to leave him.

You can't. All you can do is sit down with him and have an open and honest talk with him about how his looking at porn affects you as well as your relationship. The more you try to stop him the more determined he is going to become to do it just becuse he knows it pisses you off.I should know I did the same thing in a relationship though it was not with porn. I lived with someone who had a serious trust problem and it pissed her off to no end if I even as much as said hi to my ex wife or any woman for that matter. It got to a point where I went out of my way to talk to other women just to prove a point to her that she was not my mother and she was being unreasonable in trying to control my life and tell me what to do. It became a contest. The more she showed me it was pissing her off the more I was determined to go out of my way to do it to prove to her I was not letting her control me. You might end up in the same situation with hubby if you let him see that it bothers you that much. Instead of trying to push him into stopping just tell him how it bothers you and makes you feel. Then ask him in a nice way if he could at least cut down on how much he looks at it. If he really loves you he will see how much this is bothering you and will try and not do it so oftenout of love and respect for your feelings

dress sexy rr around him when it is just the 2 of uses. it should help.

GOOD LUCK! This is a very difficult issue to deal with in a marriage. My ex-husband was addicted to porn on the internet. This became a huge problem in our marriage, as I began to feel insecure at times. I talked to a psychiatrist, who explained the "porn addiction steps to breaking up a marriage or relationship" to me and I didn't believe that my husband would be a "typical porn addict", therefore I thought he didn't fall into this "typical category" either. The porn addiction steps to breaking up a marriage or relationship, were taking over my marriage. Here are the steps and signs the Psychiatrist told me ... The 1st step consists of "normal acts" ... basically watching a little bit of porn with your partner for added pleasure to enhance the romance. (This is not considered to be porn addiction, if it stops here.) 2nd step becomes a lil' sneaky ... You aren't aware that your partner sneaks around to watch porn alone while masturbating.(This seems somewhat normal to me, but when your partner masturbates alone, this can cause problems in your sex life as well as your self esteem and/or personal insecurities.) 3rd step becomes an issue ... You are aware of your partners addiction to porn now and your partner insists that you're wrong. You catch your partner in lies constantly regarding sneaking around, watching porn and masturbating alone. 4th step is your reassurance and confirmation regarding your partners porn addiction. Your partner watches porn, while you're busy in another room in the house or while laying next to you in bed when you are sleeping. Your partner is watching porn on TV or sitting at the computer and viewing porn online. Never approaches you for sexual contact. While you are sleeping, your partner is masturbating while watching porn. If your partner has an internet porn addiction, this is the stage of the addiction where porn and live chat conversations come into play. It's a live, visual conversation while masturbating. THIS IS NO DIFFERENT THAN CHEATING! 5th step ... Your partner begins wandering, exploring and browsing the internet ( or in your city / town ). Becomes curious about other possible sexual experiences and encounters with others. Internet dating sites become more inviting and seem to be more adventurous at this stage, if your partner is addicted to internet porn. 6th step ... You see your partners denial. You lose all respect, love and trust. You've done everything you can to help your partner. You are exhausted from trying to repair your marriage or relationship. It's over ...

Theres nothing wrong with it,would you prefer he went to strip clubs?

Have you tried taking some pictures of yourself or having a friend take some pictures of you and give him those.

i don't think you can really stop him. and i don't think you really need to. he just watches it to get off every now and then. he just sees those women as objects. he sees you as a wife.

Look at it with him, make it couple time with your sex time, you never know it might spice up your sex life with him

You can never FORCE him to stop looking at it. If it makes you uncomfortable, confront him about it. Porn is just porn....if he can't give something that simple up, he needs help. :)

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You could either block the sites... or you could also show him you can be more interesting... Watch movies with him... Do things and suprise him, be exotic.....

you can't/won't...maybe you should be the one who asks your self why you hate porn...maybe your the one with unfounded issues that need addressing

I don't thimk you can stop him. My friend had done everything to stop her husband , but once in a while she finds a movie or two hidden in her house. I told her to make a porn of herself and give it to him, he liked it. It helped I guess cause she hasn't found one in a long time.

Don't pay the electric bill. That should do it........LOL....................+5

Yea, setup your own porn page only for his eyes only. Keep an open relationship. Let him know how you feel and go ahead ask him how much does he love you. If two of you can learn each others love language, you can bond him to you deeper. Ask him what needs (physical, emotional, spiritual) does he have that he feels are not met. Get him to do most of talking, then share your needs. After much discussion and prayer, GET IT ON. Do the self porn page with video and pics, then give him link to it. Set his homepage to it. A porn filter could be a great tool in the home. Man needs you to be all the "porn" he can handle, and remind him, he can't touch them girls.

You can't all you can do is get him to hide it from you if that is what you want.

If that's really you in your avatar, I have to wonder why he is looking at porn instead of you wearing nothing but rope and a smile.

if you cant change him why dont you start looking with him you might enjoy it. just relax dont compare the other girls with you thats one mistake women make... by watching it together might open new and interesting doors for you...learn and try new things

Have sex with him more.

Like this category says, it's an addiction. It takes his wanting to, no one on the outside can do it. He needs to see that his brain is getting altered and his emotional responses to real people, real women, is changing. If he cares enough about you he will try to stop so that he will be able to feel about you as he once did.

you cant. just embrace it. and on the bright side you learn a few tricks from porn to try in the bedroom! it works for me and my hubs! ;]

just sit with him & watch together , maybe he likes sex very much hope u do fulfill ur hubby's dream of having more sex , try to divert his concentration

kick his ever loving ass...i have recently dealt with this...

This is a very difficult issue to deal with in a marriage, or in any kind of relationship.I honestly could say that I know how it may have make you feel because I'm I have the same situation with my boyfriend. He is addicted to porn on the internet this has become a huge problem in our relationship,I have talk to hm in so many ways that I don't know what else to do but to. I have explain to him how much it hurts me. He tell's me that he is sorry that he doesn't do it to hurt me,and that is not me that I'm pretty and sexy to him, that thing is that he doesn't know why he doesn it --so he said. He always sneaks around me to watch porn alone while masturbating.He watches porn, while I'm busy in another room in the house or while I go to the store, and when I'm sleep. He hardly approaches me for sexual contact. He always tells me that he is tired or that he is old aready, which it make's me really mad, I tell him that why he's not tired or feel like a old man when he is watching porn. This have cause problems in our sex life. I catch him in lies constantly regarding sneaking around, watching porn and masturbating alone. All this have bring my self esteem down and/I feel so insecure. I see my boyfriend denial. That it has make me lose all respect, love and trust for him. I have done everything I can to help him. I feel exhausted from trying to repair my relationship. Please help me what else can I do to save my relation ship, I love him very much!.

Talking to him might help. I mean really talk, but only if you are ready to be open and hear what he has to say about it. The issues may range from personal insecurities to fetishes. If your relations ship is strong and you have true intimacy (this does not mean sexual) you will come to a conclusion, or you can live with that elephant in the corner till it steps on your coffee table and breaks it.

If you can't beat them, join them, watch yourself, with or without him, it might stimulate and excite you too, not all porn is bad, there's lots out there that's really good. At the end of the day watching porn is harmless compared to sleeping around. It can be adictive for some folks though, just treat it as a bit of fun on the side. The less of a problem you make it, the less of a problem and a big issue it will be. Best...

poke his eyes out.

Join him...;)

Pull out the camera, and make your own.

If he is willing and desires to change,send him to http://xxxchurch.com/ .Otherwise, you can find some resources there. It is a real addiction and a tough one.

CandyMandy- I understand your issue with your boyfriend. It tears at your self-esteem, confidence, and eats away at your very soul. This is because he is ADDICTED. It's NOT about YOU- it's about HIM. You can only tell him it really bothers you, especially the way it interferes with your INTIMACY (not sex). It is then up to him to make a decision- the PORN- or YOU. Period. That's IF he is addicted. If it bothers you and he is NOT hiding it from you, or it has NOT become a habit or has NOT interfered with your INTIMACY (again, not sexual), then how much are you willing to ACCEPT? My Best to You ; )

You can't stop him. That has to come from him. Telling him how you feel about it is important. If you simply are not able to live with his choices, perhaps it's better to move on without him. It's always good to be clear about this prior to marriage.

H-E-L-P the guy needs social help. you need to get him in to get some help and keep your fires burning. And if you don't you will loose him. There is something sexually you are not giving him that he is looking for in the porn. Help him...once you to figure it out togather you will have a better relationship

Why do you want him to stop watching porn? Does he watch it a lot (i.e. every day, without fail) or does he just watch it occasionally? If he's actually addicted then there will be little you can do until he realises he has a problem and wants to get help. Unfortunately that's the sad thing about addictions and I know it must be hard to cope with. If he just watches it occasionally, then where is the harm? Unless it contains illegal images then it's harmless. Men are visual creatures, and when they watch porn they simply see the sexual side of it. In the majority of cases they feel no affection for the people they see. For me it's a part of our normal sex routine. But I would have concerns if he was watching it alone every night or going out of his way to find seriously hardcore porn. And if it was illegal I'd be out the door.

If it is a huge problem that you are desperate to fix then just turn off your internet.

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You don't stop him...just become his little porn starr!!!!

I have to agree with ec-nal slob

Why do you want him to stop? If it's something he enjoys and it's not hurting anyone why not let him have his fun? It's not going to turn him into a wierdo pervert, or make him cheat on you, so what's the big deal?

Divorce him!

Dear Ms Koolxxx, Unfortuneatly you cannot make him quit, He has to do it for himself. You can confront him and ask him to stop. If he gets defensive towards you, he is dealling with issues you have no control over. He is looking at Internet porn because he is trying to Numb out from something he doesn't want to deal with. His acting out has nothing to do with you. He had this problem far before he ever met you, and he doesn't even know that yet. This is a mental disorder that can be "fixxed", but he has to be willing to accept that he is now using Porn as a drug to cover something that alot of "normal" people shrug off. I am an Addict and in a recovery program for my behavioral problems. Here is a Website that can give you an insite on evaluating your feelings that you have http://www.saa-recovery.org/ There are a couple of pages with questions on it that you can go through and test your fellings out on. If you come to believe your Husband is/has a Porn/sex Addiction, then confront him about how you feel when he is doing this. Do not be afraif to give him an ultimatum. You can suggest that you start seeing a marriage counselor because you are getting tired of him looking at that stuff and wasting so much time on the internet looking at porn. I have skimmed some of the other answers that you were given for your Question and agree with some and disagree with several of them. I will say this, DO NOT throw out and stashes of Porn he may have. This will only make things alot worse. That is something he will have to do on his own. DO NOT take seductive pictures of yourself to get him away from it, that is only enabling him and making you more of a Co-Addict. If you do think that will help, think it all the way through. If you have any aprehensions about this, then don't do it. You don't need your husband objectifying you then either. Here is a Website is for a support group for the spouses of Sex Addicts http://www.cosa-recovery.org/. This will give you some guidance on what else you can do.

There are several articles that you might find of interest in the "How to Articles" section of answerbag at the bottom of this page. Scroll down and click on the link, then type "stop looking at porn" in the search box.

Exactlly what is matter of them loooking at porn at least he'snot in someone elses bed!

Excuse me all?!!! I am a guy! I have myself fallen into that trap, but by the grace of God for the sake of myself, my future wife (who is currently my girlfriend :) ) I am beating that problem. PORN IS NOT JUST PORN!!! In terms of relationships, it is right up there with money and infidelity.. possibly cause it is sexual infidelity, for breaking them up. I have experienced the whole "oh its just something I do for relaxation every now and then phase." I have then seen it escalate to the denial of addiction, the flat out not caring and, in my case, fear and disgust with IT and myself. I do agree that you cant stop him. But you need to realize that this is sexual infidelity, just like the last stages where he goes in live chat. There is nothing fundamentally different. I found in my experience, that it was like a drug, where you deny its hold on you, then the addiction becomes more severe, leading to a need for more intense drugs and worse addictions and behaviors. It may start out as "release time," but it has a propensity to lead to sexual; selfishness, aggression, physical infidelity. I know that what he does hurts you, but PLEASE be sensitive towards HIM when confronting this issue. He will be VERY embarrassed and if he isn't then you need to consider marriage counseling if you aren't already. If he isn't doing this out of malice, then to him it probably is just a release. But it is a release that is wrong period. It cheapens your sex lives and your marriage. And it will most likely escalate if it continues. I suggest that you tell him you know, don't let this thing stay hidden. Drag it out(gently), squirming, and realize it for what it is. A marriage and man destroying worm. If I offend anyone, please forgive me, but I feel very strongly about the nature of porn. It has caused various problems, insecurities, and embarrassing moments in my life. I don't wish it on ANYONE!!! If you would like to e-mail me feel free ja_warria19@yahoo.com

Porn is not such a big deal. If you tell him that he can't look @ it, then he'll just do it behind your back. Try looking at pron yourself & see if he gets jealous. You fell in love w/ him regardless of his flaws. Looking is NOT touching. I WISH my hubby would watch porn so I can get some sleep once in a while. It's not the end of the world. he could be out cheating on you, going to strip clubs, or doing drugs. Porn is harmless. Build up ur own self-esteem & it won't bother u so much. I had the same issue when I was younger cuz I thought that my ex was more interested in other women than me. Then I grew up & realized that men will be men & there's nothing you can do about it.

Do something else when he looks at porn. Would you rather have him go about it behind your back? Didn't think so. Here's a little trick I used. Whenever my boyfriend looks at porn, I'll call up a guy. I'd chat with the guy knowing he has a crush on me and sooner or later..yup! O' boy gives me the time of day because he starts feeling threatened. Sneaky, I know. But it works!

my moma said to leave him!!!

get freaky with him as they do in the porn he watches

why don't you try making one with him. put on some sexy and do your thang

Shake your booty

This is another hard debate about right and wrong- hurtful-or being immune- relative - subjective.. I suppose only you will know how your own situation will end up. Many here will either tell you to bear and grin or loose him- there is a saying 'When you laugh everyone will laugh with you- but when you cry, you probably cry alone- and worst of all they'll say it's all your own fault (BUT it's got nothing to do with you EXCEPT FOR not Accepting Porns) So if it's advice you need and nothing else- do what's best for the sake of a healthy relationship- whatever you think it is- Accept it or Reject it.

why would you want to stop him? i dont know any male that doesnt watch it. my girlfriend told me about this site but i cant beilve the first answer got 49 pts at the end You lose all respect, love and trust.what! hang on that is in the extreme case im really sorry to hear that but in nearly 99% its completely harmless if anything its the other partner that has the problem because they have insecureities but why should your other pay becasue of them. if we cant watch porn thats like us men telling are partners not to watch the diet coke advert, the aero advert with the guy from the city and anything with a sexy man in it. ok yes there not having sex but its still the same just no where near as explicit. to cut the rate of prostate cancer we are suposed to sorry to be crude masturbate once a day. and i very much doubt that ever husband gets sex 7 out of 7 days a week. porn is harmless its fantasy i watch loads of porn as im 19 a young male but that does not mean i will cheat on my girlfriend at all! if anything porn just makes it easier because instead of thinking about it in your head we can just switch off and watch it. i dont watch it in a cheating or a spiteful way. you should just accept it as life x

Find some real activities he can enjoy and gain from. Would be better if the two of you can share such activities.

What is porn?

Put a hammer through the monitor?

If it is an addiction he needs professional help

that will never happen, I've tried that many times, but it just getting worst.. at first, he's going to say " ok.. i'm gonna stop" , but then.. he'll keep on doing it behind our back. the last thing that you can do is to keep his desire on you, if once he lost it, then it's gone.. believe me, cos that's what happen to me, he's been watching to much porn and surfing the net for hot babes.. until he lost his desire on me..

pawn the tv and sell the computer.

Why do you want him to? Men are visual, if he doesn't look at porn, he'd be forced to look at actual women.

Easy - kill him. If that's too drastic then just blind the begger and be done with it! Just kidding. Look, tell him bluntly you can't stand him looking at pornography - and if he dosn't stop then your filling for a divorce. It's best not to be too mealy mouthed about some subjects. Lay all your cards on the table and see what happens. Good luck!

Try watching it with him. It may spice things up

Maybe you can share with him in the begining and let him know that if he want to watch porm ,you want to watch with him and tell him that you can do the same as the porn movie and give him the satisfaciton, maybe you can do the same as porn movie try , this is not a bad thing you are doing this for your man and nobody will know but you and him . If you talk to him about to stop watching he will not stop he will do it behind your back . share it with him and maybe by the time he will know that you are satisfying him and he will stop by him self , remember :forbbiden is more wanted , put your self in his shoes will you stop. Use smart teqniques with him and trust me he will change , he just think that he cant get the same pleasure from you , show him that you can give him more .

find him a girlfriend

Hey try looking your own porn if there is porn for women lol i know there is guys gone wild lol do it in front of him!! see how he likes it and tell him if you can do it so can i lol im not being serious but it would be fun ;P

lol you can stop your hubby from looking at porn by making him look at you instead, that way he can think "i dont need to look at this i've already got a girlfriend for that"

Long as he eats at home :)

You can't. He won't. Period. He might tell you that he has stopped, but you will find out that porn addicts are the best liars there are. If you can find someone who managed to get their spouses to stop with porn addiction, I guarantee you it hasnt been for long, or without becoming a born again christian. The bottom line is, no matter how much you tell him it hurts you, he wont get it. Some men seem to think they feel differently about sex then women so it isnt cheating. But it feels like it, I know. He should care that you feel like that, and he might for a minute. But to think he will never go for porn again is only deluding yourself... Thats the bad news, the good news is... There are plenty of men out there who AREN'T addicted to porn and aren't so selfish as to think that should be good enough for you (to have a husband who is addicted to porn is better then to not have a husband... I dont think so). I had a boyfriend who claimed to love me soooo much, then I found out he was addicted to porn and at first it didn't bother me, then I kept finding it EVERYWHERE and he never really shared it with me. I did anything he wanted in bed but our sex life got boring because all he wanted with me was missionary, I guess he saved all the excitement for his "other girls". Yea. I put up with this for 3 years, even giving ultimatums, like me or porn, when I was at wits end with it and feeling VERY neglected myself. It does something to your self-esteem, and I am NOT an insecure or prude person in the least. He said he chose me but a couple of weeks later I found more porn, several dvd's, etc. I said Guess what? See ya. Now I have a man in my life that isn't into porn, but into ME, completely. It's awesome, we have the best, most exciting sex life and he gets everything he needs and I get everything I need and then some, we fulfill each other and he doesn't need to see some other chick getting banged in order to get off. We are totally into each other and that's the way its supposed to be. Dont go down the "porn addiction" road with this guy, believe me, its a waste of time and life can be better with out feeling the way that makes you feel. Your guy shouldn't need to look at other women getting it while you get what is ever left over.

hahaha, well, I was addicted. lol. I have recently seperated from my gf of3 1/2 yrs, but for the last year, there was almost no sexual activity, so I turned to porn. Then after the break-up (2 months now) I've not looked at any porn, I'm having too good a time going out meeting other girls, one of which I've started dating, woohoo. but, yeah, I'm not sure if porn addiction is the cause of break-up or the indicator that the relationship is not going well. You could try spicing up your love life. I don't mean doing things they do in porn, because most men realise that it's just on porn that people like getting cum in their eye, or some other perverted shit. But try making a night out of it, spend about an hour on four play, being all "suacy", make the mood. maybe buy some kinky clothes or sex toys. If he likes watching porn, he might like to see you pleasuring yourself with some toys etc. good luck, I hope it's not the end for you both.

you give him porn and he'll get bored... simple as that

How about you give him something to jack off too... then he wont have to use the computer, he can just ask you.

take this situation as chllenge.show some dirty porn he never ever seen.make it extreme to the point he hate porn.am i on the track :(

Poke him in the eye with a sharp stick then the other eye with a dull stick. I bet he quits then. ;)

Make your own Porn :)

i am sure some will disagree, but porn is as addictive as gambling...and as destructive , to family and self....these men and the porn habits, as we have seen in the media more and more, is a huge problem... it is VERY damaging to young, girls and boys alike...main reason: they never learn what real love is, they relate it to the sexual act only...they cannot differentiate the difference between real intimacy and the sexual act!!! even tv today is a very good "brainwash" to children...the soaps are explicit!! young ones have urges that too young to understand or handle ..it is EVIL what kids are allowed by parents to be subject too...even commercials..so sexually provocative..they learn at early age what turns them on in how a woman dresses and little girls strive to dress the same....there is no modesty.... my little brother has 2 girls,he does not allow the play make up, play heels and no Hannah Montana...no cleaveage or bellys showing in his house , ever, and his wife agrees...he almost throws up when he sees teens out half naked and even the older men "drool"...knowing it could be his...and being a man and knowing these older men have no more morals than to lust after a child!!it is just the norm today...we need real men and women, real mothers and dads, looking after the "welfare" of children.... BAN it from ur home...block channels from tv..an 8 yr. was watchin upstairs with 5 yr. sister and caught them mimicking the sex acts...i remember 4 boys ,nephews, knew where dad kept the Playboys, age 4 and up ,sneaking ,looking, giggling...but they learned a mindset,felt things not normal or good so young, and have had the stormiest relationships with women...no respect, they looked at women different from these influences..only 1 ,the oldest has had a good family and career!!! a GOOD book..tells of porn and what its doing to us: PORNIFIED..... he has to break his bad habit...u can't do it...and make EXTRA sure the kids are not EXPOSED

why dose it bother you so much? are you not attractive to him anymore? have you ever had an open discussion with him of what he would really like sexually? the same way women like to have fantasize about there friends husbands or how there husbands used to be, so do men but in a different way.

amnesia patient 2 doc: how can i recover me from this? doc: go home and forget about it. me: go through it, once u'll get bored with it. but it's 2 b ensure not 2 irritate others. best of luck!

become a porn girl yourself or stab his eyes out while he is asleep

you can't!! It's as simple as that! Either watch it with him or start dressing up baby, make it all about you instead of the porn!

well cuteness....here's the thing...porn is unstoppable...u cant stop it...it will take control of u and RIP UR MIND!! once u r addicted there is no treatment...if ur "hubby" wants to watch porn all day...then ur just not doin somethin right there sugar tits...

how long has he been doing this? from the pic, u aren't doing much to satisfy...which is expected...this truly is serious...HE NO LONGER SEES THE "act" AS LOVE,CAN'T RELATE THAT WAY ANYMORE...thats why this crap is satanic almost...especially for young boys...he cannot relate..repeat,he cannot relate......the hard part is other men saying, "do something" like u don't !!! this comes from the die hard porn guys or the ones who immediately start blaming u!!!from the looks of the pic ,he was already into this when married u or it slowly took over!& u helped.. either way, it had destroyed the emotional and togetherness of this in relations to u...it takes the "addiction" to arouse,he is not interested....as with all other addictions,gambling,alcohol,drugs ,they have to admit they have one..it is also like once a drunk ,always a drunk..don't take much to get right back in...known 2 women in their second marriages that have tried everything!!! i would have NEVER let it get started in first place...one got rid of her computer,but he kept sneaking in her son's room...this is what I kept thinking, this is a very immature, no self control character anyway...known men all my life, read the mags,but never in the past 10 yrs has it gotten so bad...its the internet!!boys masturbate, but GROW OUT OF IT....the grossest thing is when "u have children", i have had a few of my daughters friends say they got up at night and their dads were watchin porn and masturbating in the living room..!!! an 8 yr. old little boy of a person i know ,had snuck off up stairs,with 6 yr old sister...mom on computer with a kid in college in another state,telling she was a stripper,etc...they had porn up stairs,dad comes home..goes upstairs, little boy is performing oral sex on the little girl!!! in my book,that woman should be SHOT>..do u not see the damage that has been done here!!!it happens everyday now.....but think of this...are u gonna be dealing with this when he's 60?probably so.....this is immoral...u can't see it either or u would not be posting a pic looking like a porn queen urself.....he has the problem ? u helped...never minded men lookin at playboy, husband either,not allowed in home and never had a problem...after 5 yrs..he brought a movie one night..had no idea...i said no...if u need that ,then maybe u better move on...i was so hurt...but he got the pic....i am so glad i did, now that i see all thats with the men nowadays....just so much cooler marriages ,its 2009!!! no thanks, i like the old fashioned way..and the old fashioned MEN too...my husband wanting me..good luck:)justme

You can't stop him he is like Godzilla of porn now...so just pull up a chair and enjoy...you may actually like it.

how do i stop porn getting on my computer in the first place??????? my partner has gave me no sex for a few months now what can i do??????????????

Thats a tough one!

Dress like a porn star yourself or try something kinky to spice up the sex in your relationship

give him a treat in the bedroom! ;) role play or something kinky. tits out for the boys!

fuck him

JUMP HIS BONES THE MINUTE YOU TWO HAVE A FREE MINUTE ALONE- DO THIS DAILY- MAYBE ONCE IN THE MORNING & ONCE IN THE EVENING. TRUST ME. HE WILL BE TOO EXHAUSTED TO LOOK @ PORN OR OTHER WOMEN PERIOD!

you can't

POKE HIS EYES OUT- I'm not even being serious saying that. My point really is that other than sexing him up until he can't see straight or the monitor....you are limited really in what else you can do to stop a grown man from some thing he see's nothing wrong with doing (he most likely did this before he met you Im betting) Your two other choices are (i assume your done talking to him about it- trying to make him see your point?)....actually you have 4 other choices are PRAYER, DIVORCE,something happens and HE SUDDENLY CAN'T SEE-is blind, or YOU CHANGE HOW YOU VIEW PORN-and come to terms with the fact that men like to watch porn, women aren't as eager to view it, some women love it, some tolerate it, some hate it and feel threatened by it. but I can tell you that men who love their partner watch porn and still after watching it love their partner. men are more visually stimulated by porn-it's in their nature to start with. some develope bigger needs for it and some can take it or leave it. just because a man watches porn doesn't mean he doesn't love having sex with his wife. he isn't going to leave you because you aren't the gal he see's on the video. he will leave you because you are jealous, have low self-esteem, aren't confident enough in yourself to let his watching some porn be acceptable, and not made into him being some freak that everyone should hide their children from. He won't stay mentally together with you if he feels you aren't interested in sex with him, approve of him, like him, and you instead are just a BIG HEAVY BURDEN HE LUGS AROUND who only is good at nagging him, and you are cold and distant with him....like over this issue. He might watch less if you let up. found some soft porn you like to view yourself....opened your mind a little bit more in his direction. You don't have many options. it's not the worst thing a man can be doing. He could be out sleeping with other women, bringing home STD's, AID'S. OR spending his money on other women and bringing home nothing to your household. Beating you. Using drugs, not working, making porn while you are not @ home in your bed! Start looking at all he is that's good. It's worth a try. I've answered this twice now. I hope i have helped you out some?

If he is addicted to porn it will be very difficult to break him of this habit. To some this is the only outlet and he can't channel his feelings into just one women~~also he is checking out the guys and how they stack up to him or how he stacks up to them. Porn is as old as history ~the ancients had Kumma Sutra and in Japan sex is part of their relgious ceremony Just try to get some books on Sex Addiction and read up on your husbands case~~it is an addictio just like alcohol or drugs~~Good luck~~it is hard to make a person CHANGE unless they want too

Let him have nice time and in return it will be a bonus for you.

If you dont have kids be naked all the time for him, and do sluty things for him. Fuck his brains out morning and nite. Give him head any time u get a chance or jack him off when he dosent expect it.

You need to talk to your husband about how it makes you feel. Ask yourself - why do you dislike him looking at it? Does it make you feel inadequate? Or does it take him away from you? Ask him why he feels the need to look at it. Everyone is different, but maybe you two can come to a compromise.

Cheating doesn't happen only when you make a physical contact with another person. It happens when you despite having a husband or a wife fantasize about a third person. I wonder how can someone cheat by fantasizing about other people when you already have a wife or a husband you claim you lover her or him. thats fucking you are cheating your ownself but not her or him. life is too short be someone's forever and you will never be unhappy!

Don't even try, the more you protest the more hes gonna do it and behind your back. He's not an animal he's not disgusting. All men have porn period end of story, you need except it. Watch it with him even if it doesn't do anything for you its no different then when you and him are making love, your doing the exact same thing as the people in the pornos big deal. It could only turn him on more because you are sitting there next to him, Hes making love to you and only you right? I would consider yourself lucky at least he's just watching porn and not out with someone else. A guy watching porn is not the end of the world thats a mans nature.

Poke both eyes out..then say it's either your fantasy life or me. I went through it a bit early on then started a porn site and got sick of looking at it. Now I get more thrill looking at dead naked chickens at the grocery store.. No amount of trying to "satisfy" him will do much because porn is pretty much just plain disgusting and very few people would ever be willing to go through all the crap porn stars go through with camera crews everywhere, etc.. Some will or we wouldn't have a porn industry. Just poke his eyes out.. he'll quit then. ;)