I saw a comment here that too many people on AB express self-pity, self-loathing etc. I personally feel it's better expressed than not and a forum like this allows anonymity if wanted. What do you think?
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I don't know. It seems like if they wanted help or attention they could go talk to their friends or even see a shrink. But they do it over the internet and that's what kind of puts me off personally. I don't think AB was created for people that need attention so much as just asking honest questions. If it truly makes them feel better though, eh, I still think they need to take it somewhere else...
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If it helps, fine with me. I personally am on here more for humor or once in a while to actually get an answer
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We all have those moments and it's good to be able to express ourselves when we do. I prefer friends and family for help when I need it, but that's just me. The only time I see this as a problem is when the self-pity or self-loathing is obviously the individual's entire identity. That's all they ever talk about here and it goes on for months and even years. That type of person is not getting the kind of help they need on AB. This is not good for individual and it kind of wears some ABers down after a while. Obviously the more important issue is the former. AB should not be used as a substitute for proper counseling.
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I agree.
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