A few months ago I accidently flashed a guy . It turned me on and I stopped wearing underwear or bras with my skimpy clothes. I like to flash guys I want to b with. My ex/bf saw me, says I need counseling. Is it wrong to show sex. interest in men?

I do it all the time! I like to show the guys and girls Im interested in my body as way to let them know Im interested in knowing them better.

Have fun, get it out of your system. Just don't be a tease and like you said only flash a guy you want to be with.

If you tease the wrong guy he can turn out to be a nut job. Just be careful and have fun with life, life is too short enjoy it.

Nothing is wrong with you however I think you might find that it will be better if you at least make it seem like an accident.

IE I think even some guys, if you are hot, are a little turned off if you suddenly just spread your legs for them.

Make it look like you slipped up. Cross your legs and let a little show by accident. It can be a turn on for you too this way.

I was in starbucks one night sitting on a tall stool and I crossed my legs... I didn't realized that my butt was kind of showing cause I was on the edge of the seat. I must have sat there for about 10 minutes before a female friend of mine that works there walked by and whispered, "Jen... you are kind of exposing your butt!"

I could see that two guys had been enjoying the show. It was kind of a turn on for me for sure.

You are fine; it's your boyfriend that needs counseling. Men are supposed to be attracted to women, and vice versa. It's nice for either party to know they attract interest. Your boyfriend is insecure and that is an issue. To my mind, if my wife wants to flash, and she does, and have sex with a guy that's great. I want her to be happy. I don't want to share love, but sure will share sex. They are totally different.

You have to ask your self, did a little flashing hurt anyone? obviously not, have fun,I'llbe watching out for you

No! Nothing is wrong with you. I think it's shows that you are comfortable with your body. Like others have said be careful who you flash. Also I'm sure the reason your ex/bf isn't happy is because you aren't flashing him.

This kind of sounds like sexual addiction to me. Many people in my SLAA group have exhibited this behavior which lead to worse. The main question to ask is, how does it make you feel after wards? If the answer is empty or lonely which makes you want to do it more or more intense actions, then you are a sex addict!

Not a fun answer I know but I'm trying to be helpful.

I wouldnt say it is wrong... but if you are doing it all the time to different men you might be seen as kinda sleezy so i would just be careful that your not making that kind of reputation for yourself. Oh and make sure the guys you flash you definently want to go further with and they dont have a gf or wife... :-D

LOL just becareful you dont flash any crazies wholl folow you home and rape you eee!

it is not wrong, but do take care not to get in a situation that puts you in danger.

No you dont need need counseling its normal just make sure you only flash guys that you only interested in taking it to the nest step with

Long may you enjoy yoursels.......
I am a great believer of a NO underwear life. I dont wear any or own any.
My wife never wears a bra unless its a shelf one for a particular evening out!
My FBuddy does not own any underwear at all. She loves being able to 'accidentaly' flash people wherever we go.....We have a great time and it has improved ALL of our sex lives.
You keep it up girl........XXX