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Lots of questions! First "lets just be friends" means that he doesnt want to date you anymore. Just friends, not boyfriend/girlfriend. Yes, it's ok to keep on calling him, you're still his friend. I don't get by what you mean in the third question, but talking every minute is too much. Every hour hmm bit too much. Every 5 hours it's ok.
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I feel that he likes me and I've sensed that he's just afraid to get serious because of his previous bad experiences. I just don't know what I could do to help him get over that and not be so afraid. IS there anything i could do?
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It might just mean he's not interested in anything more intimate than "just friends". So you can call him as much as you want to -- he's your friend. If he can tell you he just wants to be friends -- he can also tell you that he'd like more or fewer phone calls. I agree with the other answer -- he may not be truthful with you. You have to judge whether he's in break up territory or if he's just setting a boundary. I'd say, call him and ask him these questions direct -- that should give you the answers you're looking for!
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Just to let you know....some guys feel that after you've done intercourse he has you in a bag!...well let him know that once you guys are broken up theres no more sex and all that good stuff. You cant have your cake and eat it too. which means you cant have the best of both worlds. but its okay to be friends but nothing more.
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It depends on your relationship with this guy. Was there any kind of romance between the both of you? If there was, by saying "let's just be friends" is an indication that he isn't interested in you anymore. If this is the case, I would not call too often. If you're still up to it, call only twice a month just to ask how he's doing. If your relationship was just friendly from the begining, call once a week. Anymore than that would probably be bothersome. By contacting him occasionally, you're gesturing that you want to keep a friendly relationship. If he wants the same from you, he will return that gesture.
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If you accept the terms of 'just friends' you will be sending the message that you accept being only a friend from now on. Meaning no romance, sex or passion. If that's what you want then make the call, but if it isn't then don't accept it and stay away. If there is any chance of anything further he will contact you. Let the bird fly away, but leave the cage door open.
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