(http://www.sexaa.org/) Sexual addiction can be a serious problem. Sex Addicts Anonymous® is set up to assist. Follow the link above.

I will give you a tip.Never say 'no'.Whenever he wants to have sex do it.No complaints,no arguments,no talking you into it.Explain to him that sometimes you do not need to have an orgasim."This one is for you honey"whispered in his ear would be fine.I bet the fights will stop.The short fuse in your other questions will be gone.Good luck.

I think I have this problem with my girlfriend :( She thinks the only thing I want is sex, I love her more than anything but when it comes to our relationship I'm more sexually active than I have been in previous ones. I hope I dont have a problem...

take him on the Sally Jesse Raphael Show, her mate will send him to boot camp lol

Sounds like a sex addiction is a good possibility. Counseling for both of you would probably be beneficial and if he won't go, you should still go alone. This situation is obviously interfering with the quality of your life and should be dealt with.

I am a gay "wife" and I make myself available for sex at all times. Its the role of a wife to be available to her husband for sex. That is the role we play in our lives. If your husband will do it with a man, send him to me. I will wear him out.

Maybe he has his ego tied up in his sexuality? Perhaps he needs to peform often to feel good about himself? Why do you deny him? If he wants sex and you are not in pain or half asleep, you should give it to him. Does he take the time with you and give you an orgasm? We need more info from you. From looking at your past questions, there is a lot of stuff going on like the strip clubs, porno, cheating....

After reading your questions history and the fact they all seem to be based on you being in a marriage in which you obviously dont want to be a part of anymore. YOu have three children and for the sake of them it is better to leave then to stay first off. He obviously is mentally and emotionally abusive towards you (he blames you for everything and makes you feel like it is your fault and you are now starting to believe it is) I would not be suprised if he is in fact cheating on you when he is out on the road during his job, might be the reason he took the job so he would have an excuse. You need to leave this marriage, you and those kids will be much happier because they know when you are upset and hurt and confused and that hurts them. IF you are happy when he is gone imagine how much happier you would be if you were gone.

Your sex drive just does not measure up to his. To bad you can't try viagra

His problem is not getting enough, easily solved with you being the solution.

My husband used to be liker that, so was his father. Every single thing you said, they would turn it into something sexual..His father didn't do that with me, but I always heard him,and she had 14 pregnancies!!!! anyway, after 25 years, I said no more, Ive had it. I have done everything for you no matter how I felt, all the time, everytime. NO MORE. If you don't like it, leave. He's still here, and he did change. I think the more you will take that crap the more he'll keep it up. Mine always got made,or said I HAD to, I believed him. Anything we talkerd about turned into a sexual talk, with him talking. I started to hate him. It was never funny or enjoyable, ever. Now he says nothing..I think mine just thought that's all I was put on earth for, just like his father thought of his wife. What a mistake.

I have the same situation, but visa versa, im hardly ever satisfied, i just have to deal with my man not having the same sexual drive as me, really sucks, but i have consulted my doc years ago, i thought i had a problem because i always wanted some, she said that i have a great and healthy sexual appetite!

i think you need to leave this "person" imediately.

I think that's just a man for you. I have a problem like that as well. When my man gets mad, I usually just ignore it and let him cool off, or I just give in. If it gets to the point where he throws or hits things, maybe he does have a problem.

First off there is no such thing as a sex addict. Second, Why did you marry him? I know that sounds like sarcastic question but let me expand on it. But it is not. Is it a possibility that you are not getting the satisfaction from sex as you did in the beginning. And I am not blaming you( so don't o there either) Simply put do you talk? How often do you talk? And Do you both ......LISTEN TO EACH OTHER......? It sound as though the communication leve has taken a nose dive. And now the both of you are suffering from it. SEx is not about the physical it is about the mental part of a relationship. We all tend to believe that sex is half visual/ half physical, But in reality that is so far off and it is do much more than that. Your desire and his comes from within your mind, the desire to be with him and he with you. It sounds like he is confusing intimacy, the issue is that something happend to make your desire fall and his need increase. Maybe he (as most men do) is of the belief tha the more that you have sex ( along with the variety of sex oral,anal, whatever) that is will force those feeling to return to you. We never consider the avenue of conversation, comunication. Making love is an artistic expression in the physical form of our affection for one another. Or the need to be love, even if it is simulated ( prostituion, strip clubs, porn) what ever gives us comfort in the knowing that we are not alone, and that some one no mater how shallow or short lived cares enough to share the most intimate thing that two can share SEX. Some intervention would probably be in order. A guide to help get you back on track and rekindle those feelings of passion that more than likely you spent most of your time doing in the first place. These terms used today pertaining to addiction are very misleading and hurt people more that help. As I am always saying the issue is not the act the isue lies on to of your shoulders. Contained in there are your wants, needs, desires, and most importantly ," Why you have them?" second, " What has to occur to get them met?" Making love is not a 90 second experience, and if you are mising outon the good part ( nd most women do ) simply due to the fact that you were raised with, " God girls just don't do that!" Remember those same good little girls and boys never went into detail about what hey liked to do, because I really was none of your business. I addition the things that they old you were taboo may have been their most wantd fantasy, and did not want you to enjoy what they could not. So talk to him you both have to open up experiment. But communicate trust each other. Make up code words that mean stop and adhere to them the both of you. But comunication should be your main focus. To understand each other and build on your reltionship with each other.

Maybe he just wants more than you give him hence his unsatisfaction, No I don't think he has a problem I think es friustrated with his wife and doesn't verbally know who to express himself, maybe you should try some new things, or work on some old things..which ever.

Anyone that gets mad, when they cant have sex, has a problem.

he could have EED. i forget what it stands for but my bf has it and he Always has an erection. he is very sexual and will get upset if i say no but he usually just goes off and jumps in a lake or builds a fire or something to take his mind off of it.

sexual addiction is a real addiction. It usually has nothing to with the relationship they are in right now, but they live a secret life as well. It is like any other addiction. It has too do with not being loved or emotionally when a small child. alot of sexual addict come from families with problems such as alcohol. there are specialist treatment places. there is also sex addict anon. goggle sex addiction and the info is a plenty. I have a family member who is going through counselling now for sexual addiction. It is a real thing and a addiction, it is different to just a healthy appetite.

um I think you can alredy tell... because he gets mad when you say no, and everything has to be about sex?? than yes because if he wasent so obsesed he would at least understand when your tired and dont wanted or something. because I'm gioing to be honestwhen you wanted and the other person says no it is agrivating but no reason to get over pist off

I have the same problem it seems to go along with his other addictions,drinking,smoking pot,porn. I've tried to discuss it. Meet him 1/2 way. Sex 3-4 x a week wheather I want to or not. Still not good enough for him.He will pout and sleep on the couch if he doesn't get his way. Needless to say we're getting divorced. If you want to be with someone like this you're going to have to submit every time and still I assure you he will not be happy. I've tried that too. I've decided my happiness is just as important and I can't be happy with someone who is perpetually unsatisfied and insatiable.

Until you beeen in this woman's shoes, you have no right to comment! I have the same problem, and it is a problem. As soon as he's done, he wants to do it again and again and again. There is never no satisfaction. The female ends up with honeymoon cystitis, and he don't give a damn.

It's likely, given your history of questions, that it's not a sexual addiction. It's much more likely that it's sexual abuse. Yes, wives can be sexually abused and even raped by their husbands. BTDT with my ex. You need to get rid of him.

You bet he has a problem. He probably is a porn addict also. I have the same problem. He doesn't care how sore I am, just as long as he is satisfied, which we all know, doesn't happen. There's never no satisfaction. All you can do is say "NO" when you don't want too. It's your body and he sure the hell doesn't own it. I will never put up with a situation like this in exchange for companionship. Because you are the loser!

give him some lube and a porn .maybe get on your knees in front of him and help him out shit

Jerrdude27 you are an asshole

How would you feel if he stopped wanting you? Take your pick.

Does he get angry and yell at you when you don't have sex with him? If he does he is a jerk. You are a person, not his personal sex object. Don't let him act that way. Put him in his place. and remind him he can use his hand while your at it.

Give him some laxative: He will think more about his ass than his shaft.(LOL)

How old is he? In my late teens/early 20's I was insatiable with the needs for sex/sexual release..etc Was it an addiction? NO, it was hormones and the lust I felt towards the wife. As I grew,the wild abandon sexual behaviors slowed down,the hormones took a break,so to speak. The anger might be from your approach to this very sensitive subject,a man doesn't want to be labeled as an addict,,especially towards sex,,,sex with their wife no less.

I so know how you feel--married 13, 2kids---i take sleeping pills and have been awken to well you know--i have caught him twice looking at porn on the net-he denied it the second time--bs. Everytime i confront him he turns it around on me-every two nights like clockwork-if he doenst get it quick enough he throws a trantrum-what have you done?

Look back at the beginning of your relationship. I would wager that you had lots of sex then and did not think it a problem or an addiction. It is important for men to have their sexual needs fulfilled. Generally, once women have achieved their goals of marriage and family, often times their mate's needs suddenly take a back seat. Am I wrong?

Great-get raped and give him more--my husband is 38 he needs to grow up as you other smartass's shold, life does not revolve around sex and marriage is a atwo way street-if you dont have anything but hateful comments that are unhelpful-then keep your mouth shut--what i go through borders on abuse-i guess you guys must know what i am talking about-thank you for those who are being helpful. NO-means NO.;

How much is everything? Maybe for you is too much and maybe for somebody else is not too much. Why don’t you see the other side of the problem? Most of the ladies like to talk most of the time about fashion and cosmetic products (which for most of the men it is a boring subject) do they have a problem too? There are so many factors that influence the sex drive such as food, medicines, hereditary factors, tests and so on. If you think it is a problem then you should get a professional advice.

Ok....I dont have an answer. I was checking if you ever got one. I am in desperate need of help. I love my fiance so much, BUT I can never satisfy him. He is very sexually driven and even if I give it to him 5 times a week he will have somthing to gripe about. I dont know.....he gets very angry and frustrated when he does not get it when he wants and even becomes mentally abusive. He has never cheated and always tells me that I should feel lucky that I have him to want me all the time. Its not that I dont want to have sex with because I hate it. He always wants to please me and will do anyting to do so, BUT I just have so many resentments toward him in that area. If he would just allow my body to want him it would come naturally and physically better. He has admitted he MIGHT have a problem, but how do u get help? He says he is a normal 26 year old at his peek, but everyone of my friends husbands dont treat them that way. I am hurt and confused and need some kind of help on the subject.

You have to be thankful for this . I think if you dont give him what he want he will think about cheating later. Everyone has things that he or she like or dislike in sex , and in your husband case i think what he is doing is very normal for a guy . Try to love his way and let him know what you like . Usually men copy what do you like by the time. You can initiate the lovemaking by showing emotion and then in the middle of the intercourse it will speed up and you give him what he is fantasize about .I wish that my boyfriend ask me for the same thing because he is only emotional and he like the very traditional way and this is not turning me on most of the times emotions not enough there must be some action in making love .

no it doesnt mean he has a sexual addiction . he likes sex and gets hurt or feels rejected when u turn him down because he loves sex with you thats why he gets like this

From the movie Annie Hall: Woody’s analyst: How often do you sleep together? Woody Allen: Hardly ever! Maybe three times a week Diane’s analyst: Do you have sex often? Diane Keaton: Constantly! I’d say three times a week

God my husband is addicted to Computer. God bless you.

Just give him what he wants. Know woman in there right mine would say know to something like that. and if they do they r wierd!!!!!!!

once a month is not plenty even for a low male labido... how much does you give that is not enough?

I love sex myself and see nothing wrong with being an addict. He was probably that way when you married, you have probably changed.

this is more about control and domination than it is about sex. If yu are having sex frequently there is no reason for anger, EXCEPT that you have DEFIED him, rather than becasue you denied him. When he gets angry, what does he do? If he becomes verbally abusive or forces you to do it (through verbal abuse, threats or sleep deprivation is a big one) then he is an emotional rapist. The emotional rapists prefers that sex be about control, he wants it that way.

Well, then I must have one too! If I don't get my nookie from my fiance, I get hurt feelings. The difference is I sulk and stick my bottom lip out. He may not be satisfied because he is wanting a little more from you or for you to make things a little kinkier. If you are doing all of these things and he is still not satisfied, then tell him you can always go find a man that appreciates you. Does he look at porn a lot?

anyone that get angry, has a problem. He should be thinking about your feelings not just his. I would have to agree,,,,, he does have problem and if he doesn't get help. he may do something he will regret later.... you need to protect yourself

I would definitely say yes, he has a problem. I can understand getting frustrated "IF" you weren't giving it up (especially being his wife), but getting angry is something on another level. You must ask him, what is it that he really wants?!?! Evidently he wants to act out some of his fantasies with you and in reality, it's cool that he wants to act it out WITH YOU. He needs to check his attitude at the door and be a little more romantic and you just MIGHT be interested in satisfying THE BOTH OF YOU!

we can't say he has a problem but i think its a normal thing,am aman and that is exectely what i am,i want to have sex with ma wife 24/7.i believe its very normal thing.

Maybe your just not giving him enough? Does he really want it all the time, or does he only want it every now and then and you withhold it from him?